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Ladies, Is This An Excusable Reason For A Woman To Cheat On A Faithful Man?

My friend's brother just found out that his fiancee has been cheating on him for about 3 years. Despite this, he has tried to forgive and work with her and now she is the one leaving him. Her excuse, well, they have been together for 17 years but he hasn't married her. His excuse, he got burned in his first marriage and has his fears. However, he has been a loyal man and they practically lived as a married couple.

Personally, I think he is wrong for not marrying her and allowing his fears to waste 17 years.

Then I think she is wrong for cheating on the guy for 3 years. She should have just at least broken things off first rather than cheat.

Just wanted to know ladies, does this give her the right to have cheated?

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please enlighten me and tell me WHAT DID SHE GAVE FOR 17YRS THAT THIS MAN DIDNT GIVE AS WELL?!

you are talking like woman body get sell by date and now that she spent 17yrs with this man, her value has changed?! she could have been happily living with this GREAT guy but instead she choose to do otherwise.

why would you women think that if a man loves you, treat you right but doesnt marry you then he is wasting your time?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

is marriage the only goal in your heads!? since you are old school, doesnt love count for anything?

that kind of mentality goes side to side with men who drop their wives if they learn that she cant bare children.

come on now!

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Brown no offence but ur comment is wrong 17 years is a whole lot to give.i think the man is a fool.wasting the woman's time and he can easily back out saying they weren't married maybe am oldschool but if u love someone and waste the person's time then you don't deserve that person.your comments ricks of emotions.the woman didn't cheat the man the man did.

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unfortunately  it is sad that women think that marriage is the answer for everything. i would rather have someone that loves me and that isnt married to me than someone married to me and cheating all over.

Some women will marry anyone as long as their marriage look right in the eyes of EVERYBODY ELSE.

husband could be beating the poo out of them or abusing the kids, NO PROBLEM, we are happily married!

cheating on someone because he hasnt married you for 17yrs is a poor excuse. she CHEATED because thats the kind of woman she is, married or not has absolutely nothing to do with the problem, UNLESS she is marrying now the guy that was shagging her all these years (then that other guy IS the dumb Bottom for marrying a woman that he met through cheating)

i dont know what these women have with marriage. if it was a certificate that your man will be good, honest, caring and wont cheat then fair enough but these women running and hunting for marriage are out of control!!!

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staying with a man for that long without marriage has gotten some hidden ageda. period! (http://romance-gists.blogspot.com)

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@ Sissy

yeah i agree o. you in the US? If so what city?

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@ Sissy

Yeah thats what I said too o. 17 years, ouch! You know the world is soo jacked up. I know he got burned really bad in his first marriage but darn that was over 17 years ago.

For me, I think they both have their faults. They are both wrong.

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No. But dude should also learn to work it na. ah ahn

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