i rily dont get why some women feel that having a man in their lives is a must if they wanna be happy. Take for example,there's this woman i knw. She's a friend. She'd been engaged to a guy for bout 6 months. Two months to their wedding,she found out that he'd impregnated two women. Now it's all well and good to play the field,but when you've made a commitment to someone,to something as serious as marriage,everything's changed. Now when she found out,she broke up with him(thank God for small mercies!). Instead of her to thank her stars that she'd found out the kind of devious,conniving S.o.b he was b4 she married the ,she's busy mooning over the guy,worrying herself sick because no other guys are coming,and wondering whether she should take him back. Must you women have a man in your life? Is your happiness,your entire self-worth dependent on some guy? I just dont get how many women subject themselves to all kinds of emotional abuse just because they want a man. Their desperation makes it so much more easier for us to be jerks,and when we act like the jerks they've encouraged us to be,these desperate women wil be the first to say we're wicked. Then because we're used to being jerks(because they let us),we end up risking ppl we care about. It's amazing how much of a jerk you can be just outta habit.