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(ladies Only) Is It Right For Your Boyfriend To Take You To An Hotel?

I have been thinking about his for while and could not figure out an accurate answer could you ladies help me out?

or better still if your boy friend takes you to an hotel how would you feel?

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i hear u n they learn, omo bawo ni ?

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i thot dis was supposed 2 be a "LADIES ONLY" pkg,

wow, well, 4 me i believe, its all abt d adventure, u guys mite wanna try out sometyn mre adventurous, lol

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whats the big deal? you can want to have a nice time outside ur house.

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Well if im @ new place visiting my GF,

we could always end up banging each other~

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@ poster@ poster

your boy friend can take you to an hotel

[b][color=#990000]for the same reason you take him to an eatery.

since you say he is your boyfriend he can take you to an hotel

if he both of you are comfortable with that [/b][/color]

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@ Poster do Black women have a choice, you can take them to the hotel or under bridge, they dont have a choice.

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there is nothing wrong wit d idea, if d both of them feel comfortable with it.

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No cause! just much ado about nothing!!!

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No course for alarm,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, i once had a classic babe dat normally ask me to take her 2 one of those 5-star hotels every weekend then, we go, dine/wine, then swim and enjoy ourselves all day long. our going to such a place didn't change anything,,,,,,,,,,,,

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@iice just came in yesterday

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Ladies and Gentlemen, I believe the OP said boyfriend or am I mistaken?

Your boyfriend can take you anywhere for any purpose, it doesn't matter

. Know why? cos he is your boyfriend. In order words you have known him for

a considerable lenght of time whether he stays at alone, is houseless or staying

with parents. If he is houseless or homeless as the case maybe and you decide to

date then it is at your own risk and you should always expect the unexpected i.d

taking you to brothel, LovePeddler house, hotel, friends houses and even uncompleted building.

You asked for it , why complain?

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well it is right fo ur boyfriend to take u to an Hotel but trust me he isn't meant for u if he cant look for an appropriate place to screw u, some gentle boys how trully loves thier girlfriends would never Bleep u in an hotel if u arent on holiday

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He is your boyfriend abi? Does it matter where he takes you? It is what you are doing that is the issue?

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would u prefer dat he took another woman?

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lol  why would he want to take u to an hotel ?

unless he has something dirty to do lol

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Explanation is needed before i will accept otherwise i heading to his house.

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Flee from any guy who insists on taking you to a hotel, doesn’t he have a house or is he living under the bridge? Why would you bring yourself so low because of material benefits?

No responsible guy would take a woman he has good intentions for in mind; to any hotel.

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Depends on his motive!lf l dont trust him l would never dare agree

to go with him!But if its genuine why not?

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If the Boyfriend has a wife at home then it would be in order for him to take his Girlfriend to the Hotel (for discussions)

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@white Nkem

Very Well Said!

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Relationships and marriage can sometimes be boring so it is nice to arrange some rendevous from time to time to spice things up.

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and why did you say ladies only. Guys may be able to tell us the motive behind trhe idea and their views really (if they can take a girl they luv and respect to the hotel etc)

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LOL. What if he is a student and cant afford his own place and he still stays with his parents?

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If its for a special occassion (anniversary) yeah.

But he should not a make it a habit.

Hotels are for hookers or girls you want to code.

or does he have something to hide (wife at home/ live-in babe)

or is he ashamed of you?

And not having a place of his own or enuf space isnt an excuse cos if

he saves all that hotel money he can afford a place of his own.

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If it is meant as a treat,i think it's o.k maybe if he just wants the girl to be treated to all the things she wants without having to raise a finger-spa,room service,facials all the works but if it is just about sex no way.I would not want my boyfriend to take me to a hotel,what's wrong with his place?what's he hiding?and i want to believe he is still not staying with his parents so there is really no excuse if it's about sex.

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Well it depends on how open-minded the girl is and how well the two know eachother. I mean, it does feel a little unconfortable if he takes u to a hotel, because u may think he doesn't respect you. Yet, there are sooo many possible scenarios:

-Maybe it's your anniversary and the guy wants to give you a romantic surprise, by doing something special - totally agree.

-OR he simply doesn't have the space. In this case, it depends on the girl. If she's ok with it, then it goes, but it would be better if the guy could get another place (a friends house or something).

Usually the idea is rejected when the two have just started the relationship. She doesn't know him well, so how can she trust him??

But if u look at it objectively, the space doesn't matter that much afterall. I mean, be it his house, a friend's place or a hotel room, same thing will happen, so all this is like going around the bush. But girls like this. They have been tought it's wrong, yet they have the desire to do it. So that is why the guy has to join in this little game, otherwise he won't get anything.

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Take u to hotel to do what?

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Why not? It has to be the best hotel in town sha. with all the dim lights and the music in the background and the champagne and a surprise in store,  Anytime T! But definitely not all the time, occasionally is fine

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lol why would he want totake u to an hotel ?

unless he has something dirty to do lol

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