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If ur guy or ur Husband slap ur mother, wat will u do?

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knw him 2 b an animal nd wuld quit,

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No guy would disrespect me enough to raise a finger at me, so my mother is out of the question!

Nothing for me to think about there!

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I will drag him inside nd poke him

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True talk i like that. But mother in-law or potential mother in-law e get as e be.

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Situation is actually impossible, very impossible,

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ok, I let the Ladies answer this one.

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Slap my mum? Impossible. Then her Obituary has been prepared because i will beat heaven and earth out of her that day. I don't even want to hear the reason. The best she can do is to walk away if they are quarreling.

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in the family section, some1 dey lament say her moda inlaw carry her pikin go give am tribal mark

the problem with human beings is, when a tantalizing question like this is asked, it revs up our sentiments just because the person in question is our mother

we seem to forget that the human ability to aggravate and infuriate knows no bounds and sometimes when a person is pushed to the blink of imploding it could lead to even murder, n u people r here gyrating because of slap

if my moda inlaw carry this beautiful pikin wey i just born, go tear tear n patch patch her face in the name of one dirty smelling culture

walahi, him pikin go wish say na only slap i slap am

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He can only b justifd if he s confirmd by doc dat he has gone mad. My guy dare nt talk 2 my moda anyhw nt 2 talk of slapin ha.

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I cannot even imagine it not to talk of what to do.

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some people if u no slap them today, u just dey postponed the slap, next year u go slap am

after the slap, there will be peace

some people never see some kind antagonising obnoxious old mama

u go leave am for palour, go sit down for ur room, she go come there come pour water for ur head

n u say make i no slap am because she b old mama, she sef suppose don know say she don old

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u see this just ticks all my wrong boxes

culture tradition, who gives a rat Bottom about culture or for that matter tradition

i make my own culture and i follow my own tradition

any culture or tradition that permits abuse of power by papa, mama, pikin,mother inlaw father inlaw, oga, teacher, president etc, should be chucked in the bin

i love it when people say am trying to b modern or western,i always ask them y they dont own a small farm in the bush like their great grand father used to

or y they take the bus instead of riding on a donkey

or y dey are so obsessed with owning the latest black berry

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I see ur points but i rather hold her down than hitting back, just to stop her from inflicting injury on me then walk away. Hitting back will not solve the prob.

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Things have to get physical? There is nothing nothing that  an elder woman that's old enough to be your mother could do that can  justify a physical abuse on her.

Your problem is your obvious desire to modernize and let go of culture/traditional ways. . . . you're also forgetting that those culture upholds moral values.

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by hit, u mean just start wacking about her like a mule

i dont tolorate domestic violence but if i was a guy and some raving lunatic chick was waving her fingers at me and insulting the poo out of me, no sweat

but if the bi-tch comes up to me trying to scatch my face or trying to hit me, confirm, i will give her a slap that will echo like ten times

women come here shouting about double standards but when it comes to the nitty gritty, u want pref treatment even if ur acting like the biggest stinkiest c-u-nt on earth

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Not playing any card, i don't believe that a man should hit a woman, its wrong simply

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people play this woman and mother card thing too mch abeg

people sud respect other peoples boundaries no matter wat, man or woman

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No its not justified, walk away as a man if you can't control the situation

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Just what if the mother is strung out on crack or PCP and misbehaving, then I would think it's justified to slap the mother.

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I swear, it will get physical/crazy with me and that person. Even my mom's husband can't try that in my presence. Na who born am die?

IMPOSSIBLE! Cant happen.

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I will skin him/her alive. . . nobody touches my mum, no matter what she did to that person

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Wow, and then you're next, then your children are next. . . . you can tell that he doesnt respect his own mother.

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people sud understand that respect is reciprocal and it is also earned

not because u b mother inlaw u go come dey do pass ur self

n not because u be husband u go come dey do pass ur self

we nigerians have this automatic right of respect due to age, wealth, position etc

i dont bliv in that crap, respect me n i will respect u

n if i respect u n u no respect me, we either part company or na slap go end the matter

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