I was discussing with a lady, a casual friend of mine recently and our discussion somehow veered into sex and the issue of virginity.
The lady informed me, and swore on her mother's life that she is still a virgin.
Given the fact that she is a very beautiful and sexy girl, in a highly impressionable environment (a university campus) and she has no visible or obvious moral or religous convictions that would have prevented her from being deflowered, i naturally became curious and tried to find out from her, why exactly, and how, she has been able to keep herself all these while in the campus. Her answers were not satisfactory enough.
i decided that I would probably obtain more information if I could do a reverse engineering (i mean reverse research) on the control variable (i.e ladies who are no longer virgins)
so I have a question for such ladies on NL. I knw there are Lots of them (no offence meant please).
what was the immediate factor (i.e influencing factor) that led to your being deflowered? In other words, WHAT MADE U DO IT?
was it: pressure from your boy freind (i.e u dnt want to hurt his feelings)?
was it to show appreciation for the lots of things he has done for u?
was it because u were forced (as inn despoiled)
was it due to the fact that all your friends have done it and dey tell u it was a wonderful experience?
was it just an impulse nu got??