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Ladies, What Made U Do It?

I was discussing with a lady, a casual friend of mine recently and our discussion somehow veered into sex and the issue of virginity.

The lady informed me, and swore on her mother's life that she is still a virgin.

Given the fact that she is a very beautiful and sexy girl, in a highly impressionable environment (a university campus) and she has no visible or obvious moral or religous convictions that would have prevented her from being deflowered, i naturally became curious and tried to find out from her, why exactly, and how, she has been able to keep herself all these while in the campus. Her answers were not satisfactory enough.

i decided that I would probably obtain more information if I could do a reverse engineering (i mean reverse research) on the control variable (i.e ladies who are no longer virgins)

so I have a question for such ladies on NL. I knw there are Lots of them (no offence meant please).

what was the immediate factor (i.e influencing factor) that led to your being deflowered? In other words, WHAT MADE U DO IT?

was it: pressure from your boy freind (i.e u dnt want to hurt his feelings)?

was it to show appreciation for the lots of things he has done for u?

was it because u were forced (as inn despoiled)

was it due to the fact that all your friends have done it and dey tell u it was a wonderful experience?

was it just an impulse nu got??

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Iice; feeling you!!!!

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Basically, u do it when you are ready. Doubt if dere is any babe who regrets it a/way. its sooooooooooooooo much fun. Which cute girl agrees with me?

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**clears throat**ladie's answer.omolola1,rockstation,madlady,r231 et you all?**clears throat loudly**

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i did it because i wanted to do it,no pressure whatsoever, And i dont regret it, it was last year, in the month of september and i

was 23, ( i had it in my mind right from when i was a kid that i would 'do the do' when i was emotionally ready and old enough to take care of a child just in case of pregnancy,

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@Poster, that highlighted one is my reason. I regret it and in all seriousness I still cry about it at night. As of Sept. 1. 2010 it has been three full years since I made the BIGGEST mistake of my life.

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I was d only virgin among my frnds,i was 20yrs,got tired of bein laffd at,i got disvirgin a mnth afta my 20th buffday and i got pregnant instanta. 1st sex 1st son,didnt knw i was pregnant until my 4mnth. Then i regret keeping d foetus,nw afta 10years ,i av no iota of regret,am a proud mama. Glad i didnt opt 4 abortion,though i paid 4it. Pls as dey say,if u re stil fortunate to b a virgin,use ur brain not ur body.

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I did it because it was the perfect timing. Perfect guy, perfect emotions, perfect environment, perfect bed, perfect everthing! And I was right!

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D same reason u lost urs.why u wn kn?a gy's virginity is lost no kwams.but wn its d b.bosoms.d whole world shakes

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For those who are saying it was the right time to do it here is all i have to say, the only right time to have sex is when ur married, take it or leave it, Not trying to be harsh but its just the truth, I am sure you cant honestly say that having sex before marriage brought you joy afterwards or that it was the best decision u ever made, So lets stick with the optins provided and leave out the 'it was the right time" crap

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^^

rofl, and u too shud go phock urself or smtin,

He-goats~

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@cyntlating

something tells me dis subject is a very sore point for u. But dat does not mean u can go ahead to insult me or my family. This is a public forum and u are not under any obligation to reply. u can simply walk away from the post.

I guess u probably had a very bad first experience either during the process or in the aftermath. well don't worry. time will heal ur wounds (both physical and emotional)

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190 plz back off Inked***ned and you inked,you should know 190 by now as a joking person.

For the poster and the pple commenting, Especially d pple reading, If u ve lost urs thats fine but we ve all regreted it especially wen its not to ur partner but if urs is stil intact,guard it wit everything u have.

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^^ At15!!! mehn dats too early.

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I always wished 4 it sinc i was a kid. became 15 and couldnt wait to let the raging hormones out. it was a surprise i didnt do it earlier. waitin another year could have killed me.

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lmao!, hahaha

Yeah but then it would break! (Hold up, can it break?)

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lmao!!

Interesting,

Dude answer is

85% do it for the killing hormones (60% of this 85 like this guy too much to tell him no for the fifth time)

5% for reward (the guy has done so much, but I think the give sex for that reason, not virginity)

5% experimental/peer pressure

1% forced

4% for the mysterious nature of ladies!

There,

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@ poster pls ask ur  gf(s),wife,sistas n ur moda wht made dem do it,dis shud serve as primary resarch NL shud be secondary, waitng 4 answer

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glad you were not. abi na ayo dem call you?

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^^

I wish i were the one~

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my 1st bf he'd write me letters i'd read and weep, sex never crossed my mind i just liked him and i was happy and excited.

I visited him one day and returned home disvirgined, i hate that guy

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i never expected nairaland gurls 2 answer this questions!

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someone is getting uncomfortable with a harmless question?

Don't worry, this is a public forum and we all use screen names. nobody knows ur face. so feel free to make ur comments.

moreover, it is just a research.

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are u just knowing^^ ??

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I'll admit peer pressure. My boyfriend was happy with his virgin girlfriend and he was not going to rush anything, but then I brought it up.

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SORRY LADIES, DAT WAS AN OPTION INEVER THOUGHT OF.

CONSIDER IT ADDED TO THE OPTIONS LIST.

MORE RESPONSES NEEDED

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