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Long Distance Affair,a Blessing Or A Curse?

is it really advisable to wait for a lover that has travelled abroad with the hope to return to you for marriage?

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the highest i can wait is 1 year, 6 months

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True talk girl, it still doesnt change the fact that when a man loves a woman, he tries so hard never to loose contact or touch, no matter how hard and difficult things might be.

@Poster;the waiting should be reasonable, 3years, 4years? Is definitely not advisable

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Shoo! Long dist race, hmm sori long relationship me i no dey ooo, i no vote 4ram

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Now u guyz are scaring my GF off with this kinda post~

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@Luvlgenius

The reason why I said it all depends is this, a man doesnt call like he should does not necessarily mean he doesnt love the girl, things might be quite difficult for him and at the same time a man that has introduced you to his family and made some necessary preparations might end up not marrying you.

A man that calls you everyday might all of a sudden after 6 yrs of waiting stop calling you and what do you do? start allover again.

I will say this never put all your eggs in one basket and I dont mean go ahead and sleep with any tom dci.k and harry you come in contact with but the truth is this "He has not married you yet,for this reason you are still single"

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Long distance, the greatest curse, No bleeping , No kissing, just talk-talk and waste on calls. total big poo

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If your man is serious my dear, u go know, If he calls you almost everyday from where he is and goes ahead to start arrangements with the families involved, then please wait for him.

On the other hand if he dey slack, doesn't call, doesn't care or have not expressed intention of making any arrangement with his and your family, then forget him now o

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There really is no answer for this

Diff people with different opinions

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[modified due to change in circumstance lol]

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