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Long Distance Relationship - Good Or Bad?

what do you guys think of Long distance relationships? I've been in one for years and I lie not, I'm tired of it, coupled with the fact that the guy does not call or keep in touch often. so it just goes on to feel like i just have a friend that's in Jand.

I want out, but i almost dunno how to tell him,

whadya think?

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it simply depends on the objects involved in it

i can handle a long distance relationship.

i guess itt's good for me.

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Hey

this is soooooo helpful

will let you know what I've decided when I do

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It works.

It doesnt work.

There is no known recipe/rule here.just like everything in lyfe,we take risks and hope for the best.i have seen long distance affairs lead to marriage,i have seen some crash like a pack of cards.whatever,it is for matured minds,lots of patience and trust,Honesty is a must if it MUST work.

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I ve experienced it before, it doesnt work

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listen up y'all long distance relationship works like hell, its just an individual thing cos' am guilty of it enjoying mine for 6 years so i see no reason why it doesnt work it makes the relationship stronger meen.i think the two of you need to hang on to the fact that you got an aim and goal to chase.let me just drop this into ya head keep in touch always no matter how busy you could be,even if u get busy it souldnt last for 2 days without calling back.if you wanna make it count dont break the rules.peace.[color=#990000][/color]

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It rarely works, if you can't handle it, then don't try it.

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Girl - i get you totally.

Just leave now

I feel like one-sided relationships always get screwed up especially if they are LDRs.

If you're doing all the work and he's doing none - he just doesn't care.

You might be surprised about how common this is but that's the truth.

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its bad neva works too full of mistrust and most probably disappointment its either d wholr enchilada or nada

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It works for very few. since the guy doesn't keep in touch often, ma girl check out. one of ma friends is keeping a long distance relationship too but they are doin well, they talk everyday and he comes home once in a while, they are planning to get married soon but oyinbo's no gree giive ma friend visa. So girl time will not rewind, both of u should discuss it and tell him wat u feel. u don dey old o!

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See. . .

'Help on Long Distance Relationship'

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-121928.0.html

'Do Long Distance Relationships work?'

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-469.0.html

'Can you Maintain A long Distance Relationship? & What can you do to make it work?'

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-21621.0.html

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It requires extra work and effort, u really must have to trust someone far away from u,

A log distance relationship usually doesn't last.

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iice

could you add the link to such threads?

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There are several threads on this topic. . .

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If he doesn't call or text often,then you should get out.

Long-distance relationships rarely work,but when they do there must be total commitment on both sides,and very constant communication.

Remember communication is the key.Once that factor is dead,get out fast o.

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how many more years do you have to waste or play with? if he is not calling when it is so cheaper to call you now then something is wrong somewhere. this is probably why you have 2 legs and 2 eyes

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It doesn't always work!!!

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