This girl claims to love me but she is changing. I dont really blame her because i am far from her but she is still 19. I met her in 2006 while on holidays in Lagos, she was very young then so we had nothing much going on between us.I realised the implications of dating a 17 year old girl, so i abstained from everything that define love affair.I denied myself fun because of my love for her and because of how we met. A lot of things happened that brought me closer to her. Forr example, the day she was born was the day my grand mum died. The first time i met her was my own birthday and the first time i visited Nigeria from abroad was her own birthday. I am not a super fan of superstition but when it concerns you, you pay a little attention. Her parents found out about US and beat her. SHE ran out to the church parish. Her mother threatened to deal with me. I summoned enough courage, with the help of little whiskey and confronted the parents the same day. I told them everything i have told the girl and made them understand that they didnt have to beat her like that. I also told them that we all have to go to the parish house and bring her back. The father agreed and i went to the parish house with him and get the girl back home. I left town after some weeks without touching her and went back to my base. She is in school now. I call her every day from where i am. I pay money into her account without the knowledge of her parents. I call her parents atleast once in two weeks because i later became good friend of the family. Now the girl is changing. I know how this sounds but i must know what to do before its late for me. I called her roommate last night at about 12 :30 am and she grudginly told me that the girl went out. I called again this morning and the girl reluctantly told me that she went to see her friend. Which friend i enquired and the answer i got was that its non of my business. I was tempted to hang the phone but i dont like to get angry easily. I excused my self and cut the line. I want some advice from people who knows where this girl is heading. I also want some boys to put themselves in my shoes and tell me what they will do, Thank you.