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Love My Babe But Slept With My Ex-classmate Who Is Now In Love: What Can I Do?

I read a story in one of the romance magazine. here's the summary of the whole thing. What advice will you give him? Excerpts:-

As you people out there read this article, i'm in a little jam. i'm ashamed of what i've done and i don't know what to do about it. I'll be glad if you can help me out.

My name is Kunle and i'm a 24 year-old student of University of Ibadan. I have a pretty 22 year-old girlfriend whom i love so much, and who loves me and has been so faithful to me. we've been together relationship for about two years now.

About three months ago, I went to a birthday bash with two of my friends in my class. There, i met a girl who we happened to have been in the same class in secondary school. Back then, she was the plain looking girl with braces and glasses, but Evelyn(that's her name) had already blossomed into a very beautiful flower. Gone were the braces and the pimples on her face. Although she still wore glasses, she was drop-dead beautiful with full bosoms and an hour-glass figure. I walked up to her and we hugged each other. We then chatted about good old times. She told me she was a student of OSU(Ogun state university), and that she came down to Ibadan to see her sister, who happened to know the celebrant. We continued to talk until later in the evening. I exchanged numbers with her and promised to call her.

That's how i started exchanging phone calls and text messages with her. Sometimes we'll talk during the night(MTN midnight calls) for hours. I just wanted to keep the relationship with her on a friendship basis, but i never knew i was going too deep with this girl, as i soon started calling her almost every evening. I atimes will go visit her in her school on weekends.

Then during this last xmas/sallah period, i went beyond the limits. My babe had already gone home for the sallah and xmas break, so out of boredom i decided to call Evelyn. i learnt from her that she was still in school, and since sallah was still about 2 days away, I asked her to come down on sallah day to spend sometime with me before going home. She agreed.

On the day before sallah, she arrived. She spent the night with her sister, and the following day she came over to my hall. we spent the rest of the day together. We went out and really enjoyed ourselves to the fullest.

Later on, we got back to my room. For no just reason, the atmosphere was very cool that evening. We talked alot that night, and when it was around 9pm, she decided to leave. She turned give me a hug, and when i looked into her eyes, i don't know what carried me away. before i knew what was happening, my lips had met hers and we were kissing ourselves. I should have pulled back at that point. but i didn't. The next thing i knew was that my hands were roaming all over her body, and i had pulled her top off. she pushed me towards the bed and straddled me.

To cut a long story short, we ended up spending the night making love to each other. The following morning, i started feeling guilty, but the girl told me she was so glad she had fallen in love with someone.

Ever since that day, i've really been feeling bad. i saw my babe during xmas, but i just couldn't face her after what i had done to her. She was like what was wrong with me, but i couldn't tell her. Evelyn too has been calling me regularly and sending me texts, but i just don't know what to do. please people i need ur help. Should i just confess to my baby and ask for her forgiveness?

Readers, over to u.

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These are the types of dudes that make some ladies think all guys are cheat. Mtcheeeeww

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I fink d guy shud jus pulse, reflect on his emotional life n decide who he really luvs amongst d 2 ladies. I see real luv being expressed bw evelyn n d guy. D chemistry is really there n i wi advise he takes time to rediscover himsef n d luv of his life without sentiment.

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lol, u know im gonna b a lawyer soon, anyways dats d best tin to do. go xplain to ur gurl!

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if hes guilty, he should go and tell his babe

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ure guilty n ure tellin us?

tell ur babe na!!!

u guys were doing midnite calls and ur babe never tried to call u one of those midnites

abeggi carry go

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guy u messed up, but thats life. U only know what u do, but u dont know what your girl does.

to keep ur relationship dont tell her anything but stop and dont go back to that girl evelyn.

Someone is a thief only when caught, since u have not been caught stop doing such things so u will not be called a thief.

When u love someone u dont hurt the person or do anything to make the person sad

U grow when u know u made a mistake and u dont do that thing again.

remain focused in all u do

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not messed up,messed down

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u messed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

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Omomioba u need to see a shrink before its too late and my guy with the issue i tink u should confess to your babe and be the man den both of u can deal on the issue of your ex classmate i dont know which way u can both go about it but with prayers and avoidance it shud work i hope. men jus take care sha cos i know dat wen women are angry de can go any mile. play safe

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Hello Bros, better forget that babe and move on with your life. Women are not worth dying for. Look for another babe or if you don't know where to start, I'll show you: www.pointandkill.com

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abeg nor tell am anytin o, i take God beg u, if u do u would regret it 4 the rest of ur life, ur girl would cheat on u 4rm den on and u would regret tellin her, ask God 4 forgivness dats all and bsids i 4get say na 4rm hints e 4 get the story, sef, see me sef, no vex

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So u r not in2 this evelyn chick? What is it with guys and hard-ons? did u really think she'd just have sex with u n walk?

and u have a gf u claim 2 love. It's obvious u do not send the evelyn chick, u were just having fun or do u have feelings 4 her?

If u don't have feelings 4 her, u should let her know as it will be inhuman 2 lead her on, n i mean tell her in plain terms without mincing words n don't do anything that will say otherwise, cos when it comes 2 letting a chick go, guys say one thing and act another. talk 2 ur girlfriend, while i wld say what she doesn't know will not hurt her cos apparently u do not appreciate her, but then again, if u feel guilty, i'd say u sit her down, tell her d whole truth n nothing but the truth and hope 2 God she 4gives u. I hope u've learnt ur lesson, au revoir

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