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Love Through Internet: Is It Possible?

A Friend of Mine meet a guy through the internet and always liked him. they talk about everything and mostly everything (politics, culture,,, and personal matters). He told him that he truly loves me my friend, and My friend cant believe him though he his afraid that they have no future, and my friend love him too, and always miss him all the time and just don't stop thinking about him. the Guy promised he would come and make an extra visit to my friend so that they can see other and him and he would proples to his parents.

WHAT DO YOU THINK?

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its possible! But d probability of its pains far

Outweighs its gains. I think it turns most

Ladies to a promiscuous lifestyle(cos u tend to have access to many guys,u can date

Them all),d same applies to guys too! Veeery Risky business I tell u

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I wrote a post on literature tho its nt yet finished its called talent.My friend had dated 2 guys from Facebook and it has been great cz they met and clicked but the problem is they were not honest.the first guy was truly genuine and wanted to marry her but she refused,the second was just a varsity player hu was looking for sex nearby as hs gf was in Nigeria and he was in south Africa.I guess if u meet sum1 honest then its a good thing

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I have only met online, but i really feel that i like the guy, maybe it's infatuation, i don't know. What i do know is that what i feel i have felt before about anyone, i always want to see him, (on webcam) or talk to him on phone, i have talked with his brothers, and friends, and his dad when he visited home over new years.

The thing is, i have chatted to other guys online, but noone else real or internet has had this effect on me before, i have been with some men before, but it felt wrong (cos weren't christian, so it was wrong). but what i'm saying is it feels different.

He wants me to visit before making any decisions about being together, incase i really can't survive there (his words). But i don't know, i mean just because nigerian government doesn't hand out freebies to people who couldn't be bothered working all their lives, i think that is ok, anyway, that would be a different subject,

Anyway,i wanna meet him and go from there, but i think he should come here too.

I've found that he doesn't fit any descriptions of anyone that the internet warns about or anything, eg wanting your money, 419 scammers etc

Any opinions from anyone?

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Get to meet him.

If your friend likes him, where they met initially does not matter.

What matters is if they get along well.

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Ladies, ladies ladies, u all make me laugh. u ladies need to leave the stone age alone.

first off, i do not believe all the ladies that said they 'no'. theres just something bitter about the answers u all gave. u have all been there, done that and it did not work for u. it is as simple as that.

there is absolutely nothing wrong with going out with someone on the internet. for fucc sake its another avenue to meet pple.

i'd suggest not falling for anything they say. and please please please do not spend your life on the internet looking for a partner. it just doesnt happen that way. theres this saying ' the more u look the less u see'

na wa for nigerian women, damn!

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hmmmmmmmmmmm,luv ko,luv ni,abeg 4get INTERNET LUST.

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Love love love.

Could be found anywhere. In church, club, even on the net.

Just has to be a bit cautious. Cos it's possible to be in love with the picture painted by the guy which might be very different from what he really is.

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nahh, mere infatuation, doesn't work!

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answer to question

NO!

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Anyway, get to see him and give it a trial, if it doesn't work! you can pull out immediatelly. But be cautious so you won't regret.

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It does work for some people but i really don't support it

Itz disadvantages are so numerous

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Really it work for some pple, it work 4 me too b4 we met we were crazy

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I'm so happy 4 u n hope it turns into marriage soon.

Love is very possible thru d net had tons of stories abt dat n infact been there done there myself

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Yea its possible.

I met this guy sometime online, been chatting for quite some time, and finally we met and fitted perfectly.

Well, he is in love with me, and pray it leads to something good.

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To some people luv is affection and getting to know someone better, but we all know that it goes beyond that. Nothing is really impossible sha o but its usually infatuation when u luv someone u've not seen, cos sometimes the person chatting online might not hav their pics or might use fake pics. Talking to someone often especially when u both have the share the same area of interest can lead to fondness but, love grows as time passes by and with u meeting the person face-to-face and finding out faults and still staying cos u can handle the faults. But sha o b4 person go begin fall in luv for internet try see the person o!! U neva can tell!!!

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Men who knows? Sometimes it works for some people sha. For me i have lots of internet friends and mostly male like your friend, we have good vibes but i see only see that as friendship jare.

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Love thro the internet is just bullshiit 2 me i don't know ow ppl deal with it but if i know i might never see d person y go deep with d person well i got alot of friendz on the internet and i'm talkin bout male frindz and i tell them alot of stuff but going deep with that person will be kinda hard 4 me

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Nothing is impossible they say, i wouldn't really welcome the idea

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O boy nawa for you oo, This spelling of your propose keeps me rollin on da floor. Well to answer your question, its possible to love online if its done the right way. Love is more than words,

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