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Lust And Love: Any Difference?

Hey is there any difference between these 2? Both of them all involves tapping some booty.No pun intended.

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what is the difference these days?

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Find out how seductive you are with this quiz. , When someone tells you you're sexy, you feel:. Like laughing; Proud as a peacock; Pretty damn good ,

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There is no different lust leed love

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Are You in Love or Lust? How can you tell if you're smitten or just obsessed?

I believe you can't really have one without the other.

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bootae is nice but not the main thing = kinda like dat description

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u all don't know wat u r talking bout.

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Hey dawgs where are you

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yes, there is a simple difference

lust - you want the booty - ONLY

love - booty is nice - but not the main objective

unfortunately, with all the loose morals in the eastern parts of the world, sometimes, these differences can become confused

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if you want to know what is love and what is lust ,then u read the following story and observe very well the words in red :

2 Samuel 13

Amnon and Tamar

1 In the course of time, Amnon son of David fell in love with Tamar, the beautiful sister of Absalom son of David.

2 Amnon became frustrated to the point of illness on account of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed impossible for him to do anything to her.

3 Now Amnon had a friend named Jonadab son of Shimeah, David's brother. Jonadab was a very shrewd man. 4 He asked Amnon, "Why do you, the king's son, look so haggard morning after morning? Won't you tell me?"

Amnon said to him, "I'm in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister."

5 "Go to bed and pretend to be ill," Jonadab said. "When your father comes to see you, say to him, 'I would like my sister Tamar to come and give me something to eat. Let her prepare the food in my sight so I may watch her and then eat it from her hand.' "

6 So Amnon lay down and pretended to be ill. When the king came to see him, Amnon said to him, "I would like my sister Tamar to come and make some special bread in my sight, so I may eat from her hand."

7 David sent word to Tamar at the palace: "Go to the house of your brother Amnon and prepare some food for him." 8 So Tamar went to the house of her brother Amnon, who was lying down. She took some dough, kneaded it, made the bread in his sight and baked it. 9 Then she took the pan and served him the bread, but he refused to eat.

"Send everyone out of here," Amnon said. So everyone left him. 10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, "Bring the food here into my bedroom so I may eat from your hand." And Tamar took the bread she had prepared and brought it to her brother Amnon in his bedroom. 11 But when she took it to him to eat, he grabbed her and said, "Come to bed with me, my sister."

12 "Don't, my brother!" she said to him. "Don't force me. Such a thing should not be done in Israel! Don't do this wicked thing. 13 What about me? Where could I get rid of my disgrace? And what about you? You would be like one of the wicked fools in Israel. Please speak to the king; he will not keep me from being married to you." 14 But he refused to listen to her, and since he was stronger than she, he Molested her.

15 Then Amnon hated her with intense hatred. In fact, he hated her more than he had loved her. Amnon said to her, "Get up and get out!"

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Truth is - real love is hard to find

Most people just want to get down.

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actually one is bitchin the other is luven

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for guys! when a friend, collegue or anyother man under the heavens eyes your sister, niece, cousin, daughter or lady friend, it is LUST, until proven otherwise. when you eye some other persons sister, neice, daughter etc it is LOVE, pure, straight from heaven, altruist, etc. na so this world be?

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but its very hard to get

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Well, we all know Love is better

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lust na usually the starting process of of luv

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that is not totally true .dude

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@Damollar

Seems you dont know the meaning of "chemistry"

Let's not turn this to a Tayo vs. Damola fight. No more deviation please

Tayo

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@ajiboyet - I'll never believe your opinion no matter what. y? u nailed your self

Can you tell the difference between love and chemistry or love and infatuation?

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Lust doesn't lead to love

Neither can love lead to lust

If it's lust, once u get what you want, you're done with the person.

Tayo

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If it's lust, you want sex

If it's love, it's the other way round (it's too complicated to explaim)

I'm not one love expert, I've never fallen in love, but I know I can tell the difference between love and lust. And I know when someone doesn't love the other, even if he/she claims so.

Tayo

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@Oracle - Your article about the differences between love and lust hardly seems necessary. , True love gives, expecting nothing in return. But lust wants out. , trite?

Our yearning for love and fulfillment is lived out on the knife edge which separates love and lust, commitment and obsession, faithfulness and desire.Far too many people, both men and women alike, confuse lust for love. Mental attraction alone will not withstand the test of time in relationships.

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Sex is the distinguishing factor, someone in lust would only regard the other person for his/her sexual abilities or would only want to be that person's friend for sexual reason.

while Love combines true affection with the sexual part of the whole business, sex can be employed when and only when the two people in question are married.

you would agree with me that LOVE is better than LUST

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@Egede - The difficulty comes from trying to keep to safer sex in the face of powerful feelings like love, lust and wanting to be close. ,

Your whimsical little sculpture addresses both the "lust and love" part of this show, with a great sense of humor. It is creative and fun. ,

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@ tundefajim, Man u got it all. There's a reasonable difference between the two but one will need to be a lot more broad minded to comprehend the difference. For emphasis sake: I would like to say that while lust is selfish, sensual and carnal, love is selfless and spiritual. it takes only a matured mind to love in true sense. Narrowing down to the love between man and woman, you would understand that it takes only a matured mind to love. we have all been in situation where we thought we were in love with a girl/boy only for the love to grow wings in a short while. true love never end. You may not end up marrying the person but somewhere in your heart you are sure that you truly love that person.

Lust comes with all the passion and your watch your adrenaline level go sky high yet, it always because, True love is always inspite, This is not to say that love is madness but check out God who loved/loves us inspite our dirty acts and short comings. More often than not, you people who are in relationship for convenience and what the other party has to offer, you will have to ask yourself; AM I TRULY IN LOVE? How far can you go for love? Sad enough, we have been coerced into thinking that love has to with passion alone, let me add that passion is short lived. we have all been with very beautiful girls whom you may not understand how you got tired of such babes, meanwhile at the beginning it was like this will be it forever. that describes lust at it peak. It nose dives soon as the selfish interest is satisfied especially when it isn't obvious that there are more prospect in the kitty.

My take always will be love. Get wise.

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@candylips - I nominate u as our Chief whip. I sincerely c no reason y he had 2 come up with his religious beliefs.But all d same thanx 4 d prompt caution notice.

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make una no bring chrianity into this

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love and lust have common similarities, but the difference lies in the time they both elapses, while love lasts and is driven with a reasonable motive, lust is just for a moment and its driven by evil passion. it takes only a christian to know true love.

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Lust just about last the duration of sexual attraction, Love lasts beyond sexual attraction.

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Da diffrenz is dat lust may last 4 d nite but love comes in the morning[color=#990000][/color]

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at the moment i prefer lust.

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@candylips - ok let me ask u this

Which would u prefer, love or lust?

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cant you see the spellings are different?

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its very difficult to answer. most of the time people are just infatuated or in lust. true love is very very rare

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Do you wonder - is it love, or lust, or infatuation - are you really in love?

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@greatpeter - Yeah u know what it is.

Love and lust are inextricably intertwined.if love is driving your relationship without lust for eachother, it will never work.

Love finds it way in your heart while lust clicks in your hormones.Most of people belive when they are in love the lust becomes naturaly and that's it .

Loving someone is that rational though joyous state you arrive at when you've been with (lusting) someone for a while.

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Love is a combination of passion, feelings and lust.

But when you have lust without love it becomes dangerous.

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I beleive they are the same thing.If you could do to somebody under love what you would not have done if the person is not in your life,you are in a lust situation.

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love is " loving in spite of"

lust is " loving because of"

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i fink lust might lead 2 love in sum case but dont get too carried away wwit lust

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there is a thin line between love and lust

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I try to advise friends (married and single) whatever you do in a relationship, "love with a whole lot of lust" if there is lust in love, then there's no love lost"

I think we give lust a negative connotation when it is still the same thing as passion (in the context of relationships ohh>) before some lunguists pulls out amn encyclopedia

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Lust sorta leads to Love

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One could say that "lust" (sexual desire) is part of the package of emotions we refer to as "love". However, most people recognize that it is not enough to sustain a meaningful relationship. "Lust" is good but just not enough.

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@egoldman: that's not lust, that's sexual assault. I guess you can't tell the difference.

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