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Married Woman/single Guy: Dont Judge, Way Forward?

He's a single guy. She's a happily married woman. They are about the same age (late 20s/early 30s). They meet through work (don't work in the same place), talk a lot (phone, texts, IMs, etc), are very good friends, then one day they kiss and it gets to be a little more than just friends and they're trying to stop but it keeps coming back on somehow, no matter how much they try to separate and not keep contact etc. Whats the way forward and is this common?

Thanks people!

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Our emotions could take deadly control of our thinking and lives atimes. I suggest she summons courage to sever the contact, it may not be suddenly but gradual. The guy too should see reason that it is not right.

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Stop: This is just not right.

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Boring, tasteless, watery, bland, insipid, vapid.

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just go through ur statement above and just maybe you will make a lower credit

in logic

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I don't take Zoltoff for other people's issues.

U were not making any sense in that statement.

Read it yourself.

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look who is getting personal.

was talking about ur perception and not the action u should take

learn to read between the lines

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Go and arrest them then since you give a hoot.

I don't understand this. . . . .Come again.

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Its nothing but sexual attraction. She is a marry woman.She should know better!!

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note that we are not discussing adulterous women, we are talking about perception of

observers.

u say u don't give a hoot; now, that is what i call, unnigerian

Just because they don't flaunt it like Jamaicans, Western Women etc does not mean it should be overlooked.

how can u not overlook something that doesn't bother u?

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~ @ topic: The way forward is the one in front of you. ~

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There are more adulterous women in Naija than anywhere in the planet.

Just because they don't flaunt it like Jamaicans, Western Women etc does not mean it should be overlooked.

P.S. I am more Nigerian than you can ever be.

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@poster

Calling and texting a married woman? It was bound to happen anyway. .but na fire u dey play with.

If u no wan make anotha man mess with your wife too when u eventually get married, hands off now.

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I will stand aloof.

2 consenting adults. . . , Are u kidding me?

U want to tell 2 full grown adults how to manage their sex-lives?

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was ur brother and u know he is being cuckolded

or ur stepmum for instance.

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sever contact she's married for crying out loud

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I wouldn't know about it now, would i??

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There's nothing new under the sun.

They are consenting adults.

Let em fire on.

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