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Men Doesn't Casual Dating Get Boring?

or make you feel empty inside. What I mean by casual dating is jumping from one girls bed to the next without being in a serious relationship, maybe even one night stands. Don't you just feel empty inside after a while, not having any emotional connection? When the only thing between two human beings is pleasure. There is no substance. You wake up and you are in bed with someone you feel nothing for. Do you leave before they wake because there's an emptiness that surrounds that bed. Do you ever feel disgusted with yourself.

I ask because it seems like most men are doing it these days. Not all men but most. It seems like they are trying to impress their friends by being able to brag about how many girls they have had. Well I for one would not be impressed. lol

Does it feel empty?

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nope. its actually want the girls want.

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well after a day round

i simply bonce and delete their calls

it aint interestin 2 me anymore!

they seem 2 me more lik a bone in the neck or sometin

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guys think with their hammer so hw can they ever be satisfied with one woman

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some relationships might "seem" empty to YOU but some of us men are not satisfied BY ONE WOMAN and need more(we could settle for less but, NAH!!!!). not all of these men have ONS only, some have multiple GFS, yes i said girlfriendS, meaning that they have many long term relationships going at the same time.

we all know that you cant get the perfect woman/man in just ONE person, just wont happen, so dating multiple partner assures that you get all what you need in a mate. the list is endless depending on whats your flavor: the classy lady, the freak, the party animal, the baby mama, the homey girl, the down for whateva girl, the soul mate etc. as much as we can try, its impossible to get more than 3"genre" in one person and having multiple GFS is the only option.

the idea is to find people who accept you lifestyle, to be upfront about who you are. hiding your self away like a criminal because of a woman isnt worth the hassle and stress. you just have to make sure that when you are together, you give your 150%. as long as you fulfill these women needs/desires, all "should" be well(unless they want you present all the time)

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That photo on my profile is not me. It is a Nigerian model named Oluchi Onweagba.

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@foye57,

nope,that girl is beautiful,admit lol.

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men are naturally not built by emotions. Our sight control alot of our responses to things.

If we continue to see beautiful girls, we could just be happy having a taste of them without

feeling emotional emptiness until we are ready to settle down. Its just nature, not primarily

caused by past hurts

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I'm not supporting it though but you do not blame those that indulge in it,they must have gone through emotional trauma,so the find it hard to be involve emotional n truly,they hardly feel something for women cuz they develop a hard stance.

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One night stands or 2 days marathon are not relationships.  

Pleasure is a feeling.  .  .people don't need to be emotionally connected to feel it.  .  .be it man or woman.

Yes some men like to brag.  .  .

And as luxoire said, some men are not that emotionally deep so they wont be feeling empty.

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@poster: empty sumtyms n many guys prefer it 2 hrtbrk, bragging rights, dats wats in vogue n getting a serious girl 2 date is not as easy as u think,  i noticed most of my frnds had terrible 1st r/s which they never got over,  so goodluck 2 girls dat come their way

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