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Men, How Do You Feel When Your Woman Cries?

Does it make you uncomfortable? What is your reaction?

When the tears are not due to death, or sickness, but due to the fact that you've hurt her feelings in some way, how does it make you feel. How do you deal with it?

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Your woman cries, it's time to comfort her and then conclude with some lovemaking.

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i dont see the tears i see the deceit , women dont just cry,

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Most of our ladies like to shed a crocodile tears when they have messed up with guys.They do that so that you can in return pardon them instead of punishing them.I never care if they cries.If she like she should shed blood,will just be watching her movie,

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@eaglebabe.U ar a ninny to hv vomitted such a irretating word.U can only cry 4ur man 4his burial ceremony.So u cant cry 4him wen he is been hurted/woundd/ arrested forcefully accused of murder, U need to be sent to hell 4ever.

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@eaglebabe.U ar a ninny to hv vomitted such a irretating word.U can only cry 4ur man 4his burial ceremony.So u cant cry 4him wen he is been hurted/woundd/ arrested forcefully accused of murd, U need to be sent to hell 4ever.

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Hhahahahahahahahahahaahaaaaaa,Cry for who?My tears are so expensive dt l can't waste it on any son of a Dam.l will only cry at his burial.

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Personally i hate 2 c women cry, infact anybody 4 dat matta.

But 4 my relationships it depends on why shes's crying.

If i hurt her n she's crying, it breaks my heart, i will do anything 2 pacify her soothe d pains, make it up 2 her somehow 2 let her know dat am really sorry abt what i did 2 hurt her n dat it'll neva happen again.

but if i hurt her n she's crying cos we r breaking up, tho i' ll feel 4 her, i'll hv no choice than to steel my heart against it cos there's no use postponing d evil day.

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I dont cry in front of my husband

except he really hurt.

and I dont cry because I am weak (I am a human beign)

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I WOULD FEEL GUILTY IF MA GIRL CRIES JUST BECOS OF SOME poo DAT I DID OR DIDNT DO.

BUT THE PROBLEM WITH U LADIES IS THAT U PPLE RARELY SAY WATZ ON UR MIND BUT ALL OF A SUDDEN YALL START ACTING FUNNY AND poo,

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I wil fil almost d way she is filin, but i dnt knw y my physical emotion wil nt potriat d way i fil. D best 1 might do is 2 solve d problem only WHEN POSIBLE or giv her a shoulder 2 cry on.

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So what if my woman cries? Everyone cries.

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though most guys are heartless and cruel bt there are some who still have conscience.my bf is so emotional and wouldnt be happy to see me cry.

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well bad, answer is simple

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its only natural for them to cry; even though not all those tears are genuine.

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Guys,its high time u accepted

the fact that u are downing these ladies

on nairaland emotionally.

We really do care about u gels

we cant afford seeing u crying.

MBA!!!!

We`ve just been pulling

ur legs and arms.

we do luv y`all.

@Pearl

what did u see?

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i feel hurt. because i have a girl friend who normaly cry whenever i said anything she did not do. and this is my real way of knowing if she realy commited somthing wrong. if she does anything wrong, she will not cry when asked, instead she will engage me with some arguement.But if did not do any wrong she will burst cry. when i notice that, i will come closer, pet and apologize to her .

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. i tot u were talking about her crying because i was giving it to her well. my lady does not cry just like that. when i hit the right spot and stay there long enough for her to come, she most likely will cry.

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well they cry because they are weak. so i just show sympathy, while i laugh within, because they cry when they want some thing. men beware!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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wow, well i don't have a girl friend but i pity women alot, because i also have an elderly sister and mother that are woman

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It makes me go mad,if she's wrong.bt wen am wrong i enjoy it.heeeee.

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have to be more conscious!!!

there is danger!!

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iyen tun yato ooo sut and up, means

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Any one who's probably not experienced such can only give but empty guesses.

instead of thinking of what to do @ that moment, just sit by her hold her hand, & do two more things:

1.SHUT; 2.UP.

DON'T SAY NOTHING!(If the cry is sincere).

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how else do u think they feel esp. naija guys i'd say-powerful (ha ha!)

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Story!!! na 2 day we dey hear dat one?

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@Stevworld, I don't really believe in your words, if you really know what comes from your heart, you will definitely cry when you are meant to

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na act jst follow dem act. two can play u knw. cheers n play safe.

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meeee 4get dam ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh, na acting no mind dem. as 4 me sha I go act tu like say I dey feel am bt deep down in ma hrt, na lie. beware of dem ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. cheers n play safe.

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they don't care, we don't care. thats the way its should be

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Judging from guy reaction

He wipes off the tears while kissing me at the same time taking away my pain and agony, then he holds me until i cool down. He knows when to talk or reply, his so good at listening while i pour out my heart/pain

He hate to see my cry or sad

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@ everyone, so hope you none of u guys have cried, with anyone this week,, or tell us and lets hear what happened

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Quote from: sistawoman on Yesterday at 06:27:09 PM

Have any of you men turned on the water works just to impress a girl to to pretend to be hurt by something she did or said?

@ sistawoman

i think the permissible reasons for that act of irresponsibility is:

1. Death of a loved one

2. Loss of a championship (or something you've put your all into)

Any guy that cries in front of a girl for reasons other than the aforesaid is a disgrace & has no self-respect.

there is nothing impressive about that. I mean what are your boys for? what is liquer for? it's better to see a shrink and bare it all outside and be the man in the relationship.

i mean if your crying, what dyu expect her to do? she'll prolly start wailing away too because that one doesn't take time and what dyu have - a pathetic situation and no man to take charge.

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@ post

Most of the time they are crocodile tears, if i genuinely hurt her and have conscience call, i usually just say sorry.

Anyway, I always end relationships over the phone,

So, when they start ballin, I cut the phone off and go b-ballin.

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it'll tear me apart, knowing i caused it and i'll try and makeup 4 my wrong.

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@ post,

It piercies my heart but gone are the days.

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@Post,

I play Bob Marley _ No woman, No cry!

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You dont really have to say anything.Just sit down with her and give her a shoulder to lean on

and let her know that you're there for her.

Macho is the last thing that i need at those times,presence is more impotant than what you could say.

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hmmmmmmmmmmm, this is not hard at all. it depends on which girl-friend we are talking about, the ones for yankee (nigerian and akarta) cry reality-tv/crocodile tears, they like to play on guys' emotions and intelligence. for them i careless and show no emotions. if it a girl friend in nigeria, it is 70% more likely to be true tears, i will examine the facial expression to determine the facts, and if it is real, i do anything to make it up for her, anything.

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I am still hoping that some guys come in here and answer this question.

I am headed home to cut the grass and will catch up with you fine folks lata tonight.

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Thanks. . . . . . I am wondering where the 17 pages of answers went, why none of the guys want to answer my question.

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@sistawoman - Good question.

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Have any of you men turned on the water works just to impress a girl to to pretend to be hurt by something she did or said?

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am not really that emotional,but seeing ma woman cry can really be disturbing.all i can do is pamper her and hope she has a good reason for crying.if i find out that she has no good reason for crying,then she had better be ready for part 2.

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