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molest In Marriage - How?

I mean d guy paid the bride price, went thru all d hoops, did d dance et al. Why can't he get his dues 'when he wants he dues'. I'd especially like 2 hear d black and white (law) on this 1. Cheers

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Okay tell me you're smoking on broken glasses. . .

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^^Okay, you can stop now, you're not writing to the president

Save all that long essay for your JAMB exams.

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It does not matter if i have a headache/work project, I would still submit to him. I realize other women might not be like me or might not even be happy that I am saying this, but this is how I feel. Marriage is not a license for a man to treat me like a sexual object, but the truth is my husband will love me and I will happily be my husband's sexual object as he is will be sexual object. Naija marriages usually last a long time and I have a few tricks up my sleeves to enjoy it as much as possible.

Intimacy is not something where you set an appointment to do it, the most exciting part about intimacy is spontaneity, so there will not be anything as despoil in my marriage, it will be my husband wanting me and me being receptive to his advances,

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what if you have an headache or have something else to do (like a work project) would you submit to your husband and just spread wide open?

I mean is marriage a license for a man to treat you as a sexual object? you seem to have the love conquers all philosophy.

mama-gee - how market now

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Um actually, I created my thread before I saw this one. . .Next time do a thorough research before posting baloney.

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Before 2 people go into a marriage they are usually in love, so I just fail to see how a man that loves his woman can despoil her. Maybe I just think a little differently than other girls, but when I am married and my husband wants to be intimate and I don't want it, it may start out forcefully but as he is my husband, I will submit and enjoy his touch because i love him.

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I thought molest is when someone says no but is still forced to have sex? sexual abuse does happen in marriages.

and applauds on riding like a cowgirl he he.

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I am sure a lot of women will not share my view, however I am of the mind that a man cannot ra*pe his wife.

When a man is in the mood, it is the duty of the wife to sate her husband whether she is in the mood or not and vice versa. If i were married and my husband is not in the mood, I would hold him down and ride on like a cowgirl, at the end of the day, we will both be enjoying it. I would rather my husband take what he wants from me, than going outside to look for another woman. I am not sure how other women feel about this, but this is my own view.

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I heard France are proposing a new law against domestic verbal abuse, talkess of molest, you'll get what you give

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Is that what you call it? his dues? that's what it is to you? Well, you can go on and have your dues because in Nigeria, you're free to do just that, the law allows it. A husband cannot be convicted of r a p e on his wife when they are still living together. But if they are separated, and he sought her out and forced himself on her, it is r a p e and he is liable for conviction. Section 358 of the Criminal Code Act, Laws of Federal Republic of Nigeria 1990 CAP 77 states that r a p e is punishable with life imprisonment.

In most advanced countries of the world, r a p e of a spouse is a crime. And especially in all the states of USA and UK, it is particularly specified that marriage is not a defense for a crime.

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In criminal law, r@@pe is an assault by a person involving intercourse with another person without that person's consent.

Taken from WIKI.

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