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I messed up my four years relationship because i was in love with someone else.

Well, i loved him and it so happened that i went to his house one day to find out that my framed picture was in his locker. This i concluced that he doesnt love mi as i thout.

I worked out on him and till tomorow, he hasnt apologise for this.

He comes to ma office one day and says i was impossing ma picture on him.

Can u guys imagine that?!

Aniway, the other realationship (4yrs) i had was very sweet and ok, although i have a problem with the church the guy is going to (white garment).

i have apologise to him but he has a girl friend now, but i knw he still loves mi very much.

WHAT SHOULD I DO? GO ON WITH MA LIFE AND PRAY 4 LOVE OR GO BACK TO MA OLD RELATIONSHIP AFTER 3 MONTHS!

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you are very very correcet and i agree wit u 100%.

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pls try and move on with your life,

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It's not worth the drama.

It's hard letting go of someone that you love but it will only cause more issues in the long run. I know from experience.

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It takes two to love each other, if there is no love from him.

You better move on.

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move on my dear, start ur life on a clean slate, cheers

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If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her, feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return.

Do not take advantage, do not cause pain.

How you deal with love is how you deal with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.

If you fall in love with another, and she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, Let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away.

Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you.

Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit.

Give it to the world around you in anyway you can.

This is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long without love, they understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.

The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as need.

They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love.

They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this, and keep it to your heart. Love has its own time, its own seasons, and its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into saying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you.

But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery.

Be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life.

Don't deny love just only you don't want to be hurt,

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