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Must A Lady Put On An Engagement Ring Even If Shes Not Engaged?

I was in benin last week for a project that would last 3 days. During my stay, I met a young girl of 22. She works as a receptionist in a manufacturing company. We got talking immediately but i could not go far with my ulterior motive because she has a ring on her finger. She was in my lodge the second day and the heat was so high that nobody could resist. I don't go out with ladies that have stable relationship. . . . . .so i quickly asked if shes engaged. Before I could say Tope2000, she said "engage 4 where?" this na ordinary fashion. . . . . . .Abeg carry dey go. Since that day, have been taking special interest in ladies with engagement ring. Who knows, 85% could be mere fashion.

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i get one for where i dey work, she see say guys dey address am like married woman, when some other young- no need for ring ladies came around, them no teach am before she comot am!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@Timmy. The finger after the thumb is the occultic finger. Most people that put on rings on that finger are either dibias or people that belong to one group or the other. don't ask me how do I know all this

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please ring wore on the second finger after the thumb what does it mean?

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@Tgirl4real. You're saying it isn't compulsory for a girl who is engaged to put on her ring. Don't try it o! Because if your boyfriend is the jealous type, he might begin to suspect you. If someone puts a ring in gives you a ring and you say yes and accept it, then make sure you put it on always so he'll know that you heart belongs to him.

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I think it's wrong for a girl who isn't truly engaged to wear an engagement ring.

Also, it's not compulsory for the one who is to wear it also

BRASH . . .

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That engagement ring no mean say the woman no go still 'jump-off'

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I'd say its risky for a girl who isn't engaged to wear a ring in her engagement finger. You might think its just fashion but believd me it would drive away responsible men that have marriage plans for you. You would be left with irresponsible guys who don't give a damm about any ring. They're just after your body. So when you girl end up being a single lady in life, who shall we blame? You or the irresponsible guys?

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@ tope, i used ur name instead of using a clichè like jack robinson. The lady didnt send me away. . . .carry dey go means continue ur advances.

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I wear mine with great pride and its for REAL, its not a mere fashion statement. It says  *you can't touch this* as looooooooooooooooong as im with my man!!

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Lol! Used to do that till everyone around me started preaching.

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