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Must A Person Consider The "parent Factor" Before Going Into A Relationship?

Is it always right to consider what your parents opinions are about the person you're dating or about to date.

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I think it depends what their opinions are and the reasons behind the fact that they wouldn't want you to date this person.

This is an argument i have had with my father many times - as long as i am happy then thats all that should matter. Thats what he has said to me my whole life - but bring someone home that he doesn't like and all the morals go out the window.

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Parents definitely play an important role. The things adults see while sitting down, kids dont see even from the top of the iroko. . .  If they dont like her, there must be a reason, if that reason is good enough - then she has to go.

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relationship or marriage?

do you mean, asking for advice before deciding to roll with that girl down the street?

or . . . . . . . ?

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Hehehe. . .

Who's d8in' who?

My peez got nada 2 do wit who I date, coz they wuldn't b married if their peez had a say in their relationship.

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whatever dude. whatever

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papa and mama will definitely have a say in whom i or decide to bring home

they will by no means tell me who to date or bring someoneto me but i gast to have an idea of the kind of gyal they'd like.

UPDATE: I JUST REALISED THE ABOVE POST MADE NO SENSE.

my parents will by no means tell me who to settle down with but i gast to have an idea the sort of gyal they'd like.

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yes i will listen to them and their reasons if it sounds reasonable i will take it. cox sometimes there some aspects of a person that only an outsider not the dater will be able know and see. so yea i will listen to them cox i know they want the best for me.

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i'd listen to their opinion, but its what i want dat counts; dis is about me, not my parent

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to date him/her or not to date him/her

you are the master of your own life but i guess you don't know that yet right?

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Depends on how your relationship is with your parents and how much you are willing to sacrifice.

My parents don't meddle. . .

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I could care less about what they think. They are humans like me and will always have senseless reasons why they don't like my guy!

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A must? No

Advisable? Absolutely!!

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