hi all, i want to know what you all feel about gurls who say guys must marry them because they are above 30 yrs old and thereby should not be heart broken in a relationship.
Please,are we not supposed to take into cognizance the behavior or health status of the lady b4 we go ahead to marry her?
read my own story,
i met a gurl where i was working before,we started a relationship and i was determined to have it good for both of us,
i discovered however that whenever we made love, she released a colored substance which i found not usual, i was worried and i told her to go for a test, in fact,i took her down for the test,
the test revealed she had a chronic Pelvic Inflammatory Disease!!!
I goggled that and i wasn't happy with what i discovered, We went for the treatment and the stuff still persisted!
i also noticed that before then,we had sex without condom almost all the time but she never got pregnant!
I honestly wanted a baby and might have used her getting pregnant as a pre-requisite to our tieing the knot.
After what i discovered,i decided to dump her,although with style. I traveled to another state and we stopped communicating.
she got the message anyway,
Now my question is, should i have stayed with her because she was 30something after knowing she might not be able to conceive?
Most people who don't know why i dumped her (i kept it secret for her sake) kept saying i was unfair to her!
What do you all feel? Was i unfair?