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My Best Friends Fiancee Is Cheating?

Met my best friends fiancee in an alley guest house with her customer recently [ Shes a marketer with a bank]. They were just on their way out. What do I do. Do I tell him. Although to be honest I cant say for sure if they went in for a B**g or Business discussion.

They are due to wed sometime in september. Im in a fix cos shes very fond of me and shes been such a lively and lovable person.

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if u talk say make dog no chop poo, na u go chop am?

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hahAHA

LOVE KO

true talk sha

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yeah it was emotionally daunting - i guess a part of me felt like not turning up would make me a liar so i had to turn up to defend my self and tell them my story - and him what i thought of him

yeah, good thing she did - she later apologised to me - but no wahala we all do the most foolish things when we think we are in love

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even if he has more concrete stuff to prove it, the best thing for u @poster is to stay outta it! it just usually gets messy & trust me u dont want to be caught up in the middle! my thots though!

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so because you saw them together you auto assumed she was cheating - som ppl like touble - wait until you have something more concrete before going topovk-nose - busy body!!

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so what if she is cheating hmm? what is the probability that your friend is not cheating too? Let people cheat all they like, its what they like.

Its none of your bizness man!

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OGA AMEBO mind your own business

NONSENSE

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u r abt 2 lose 2 frnds!

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no be ur business. but me i share ur feelings, marketer or no marketer there are places u don't go 4 business. that place u saw her is called "mo sa fun o to". & yoruba say eni a bi re kirin irin ooru

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I think you should have confronted her when you saw her, her reaction would have told you everything, as it is now, just pretend you never saw anything.

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You better desperately stay outta it cause in the process of being a good guy, you will loose your friend. (been there before i know what am talking about)

And besides, whats to say the vivt to the guest house wasnt legit anyways.

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no carry ur own load 4 hand put another person own 4 head o,a word is a enough 4 d wise.

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Repeat after me, "Not my Business"

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u want to break somebody's marriage plan? Just keep quiet.

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Oga, abeg mind ur business o

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Sincerely, u cannot conclude that anything transpired. They might have gone for a transaction and u need to know that every marketer must meet a target. You can go transact business anywhere. I am a man and men are logical thinkers and they might have even discussed and the guy might know she was there. Like my fiancee in abj can tell u where i am at a given time. We communicate well and I can tell you where she is right now. PLEASE be careful not to ruin your friendship with the lady. Take ur mind off it okay and be good. GOD BLESS YOU

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Listen to Hotstepper. Do not ruin this man's life b/c of suspicions. Suspicions often come to nothing. If you are considered then shine you eyes well well but don't say a word to your friend as yet.

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This is a very tricky situation. There are a couple of ways to go but I think the best option is to talk to her about your concerns, since both of you are close. But, be sure you are very tight with your friend and he trusts you, because this might blow up in your face and you lose a friend if she thinks you're interfering in her affairs.

You can't talk to your friend first, because you might be wrong in your conclusion of what you observed.

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Due for a wedding? Approach the cheating partner and talk to her before you tell your friend

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you beta find out very well b4 destroying ppl's hapiness

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