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My Boo Doesn't Call Me As I Want Him To: Does That Mean He Doesn't Love Me?

My bf doesn't call me often, Does that mean he doesn't love me or am i just trippin?

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I thought he intentionally did make those mistakes.

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Any guy who calls a chick ten times a day, isn't worth having a GF...Imagine..10 times in 24 hours...mini?.

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That is the way of the world.[/color][color=#990000]

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abeg make una no vex. hw dem take dey do dis cingular call of a thing, me i wan know as una talk say d tin na free. make una educate me hw 2 use am, i use God name dey beg una.bt seriuosly speaking, i dnt tink dat tel. calls has alot 2 do wit feelns. i for 1 dnt dig 2 much tel. calls bt it doesnt say i dnt care 4 my baby. evn if she calls me on daily basis, i wnt be pickn d calls evry day. person get some oda tins 2 do wey pass calls nw.so weda calls on daily basis or nt d key word dere is ;does he love u?

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My dear most men dont like calling except they are Hot or hungry. You have to be very smart in suggetsting (not telling him oh) just make it like a joke and suggest to him that he should call more. If you complain he will think you are clinging or too demanding

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we females are a very complicated specie. If a guy calls you too much,we complain that he is being a wussy,that he is smothering us;when he stops calling as he used to, we start fretting. Na wa.

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a guy that waits 4 days or more without calling u is not yours and does not care about u period. You own man wants to call u to at least see how u are doing. He is definitely seeing someone else who he's calling evryday. Your own guy will not let 2 days go by before calling you, inshort u won't notice who is calling who.

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dmolababe,

I think u have all the responses u need, all u should do now is to sieve thru and select the ones that seem applicable.

Depending on how long u have been going out, u should know his character and the stuff he is made up of.

Does he call other people, how often, what does he think about phone calls, how busy are his schedules (though a man crazily in love can create time out of none to talk to the one he loves depending on his personality)?

The answers u get to these will tell u if u would continue with the relationship or read the handwriting on the wall and go get a life like stilettos advised.

#Candid Submission#

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well, i think you are aking a big issue out of it.from what you said he calls you every day maybe in the afternoon but girl the guy has to do something else than think off you all day long. may be you should get yourself busy with something and stop being selfish. to be sincere he might get tired and even scared with ur attitude.

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lol is o dont get ur question

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@stilettos, are you serious about that you said before i talk i first look profile

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TOPIC:my boo doesn't call me ad i want him to;does that mean he doesn't love me?

Answer: NO , it means you are an over possessive girlfriend and he is probably chilling with a less restrictive girl as you fret over the number of times he calls. Advice; go out and have a life!

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@Kaylala

Sometimes we see each other often and sometimes we don't and whenever we are together, he doesn't act anyhow. I don't have any problem when we see eachother. The only problem is the callin isue

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@ Macgreat

   I understand what u are tryin to say. I do call him. Infact there was this time i got tried of the callin issue and i called him. We talked 4 like 2min and he said he had to go and that he was going to call me back but he never called.  When i saw him face to face and i asked him why he doesn't call, he started apologizing and i felt frustrated cause i knew he was going to do the same thin  again.

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At this Junction,i think i have to see you pics before i go further.Hope you don't mind?

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nobody seems 2 be considerin d state of dis brother-man's pocket!

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well i kinda subscribe to the idea by macgreat. Try and call him consecutively for like 2 weeks and get to note how he reacts to that. Does he feel tired of you after a few minutes or ready to talk with you for a whole day. And if it gets to a point that his phone starts getting switched off or unavailable or he doesn't pick it up, then you have to see the handwriting on the wall

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Female with their palava

when you call them all the time they complain and when you dont the same thing complain

@dmolababe,since cingular to cingular is free, why dont you call him whenever you feel like speaking with him.believe me if he doesn't care about you,you will find out.

Ex-gratia

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Some people might not be the phone person, calling all the time might not be his thing so u have to find out how.

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@devilmaycr

I understand what u are trying to say but the fact is that he doesn't have to pay anymoney to call me. Cingular to Cingular is free of charge. I just don't know why he doesn't wanna call and he keep on sayin he is sorry but this is hurtin me cause there is this part of me that keep sayin he doesn't love me.

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how many times one calls u doesn't mean any thing. wit some people it does but frankly, it doesn't tell if he loves u or not. calling this days demands a lot of money and time. and i don't mean the 1 minute type of call. the longer the time the higher the money so bear wit him.

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First of all thanks to u guys that replied to my post.

@ Fellow, i did ask him and he said that him not callin me doesn't mean he doesn't care about me or that he doesn't love me. I told him that that was what it meant to me and he said he was sorry. But he keep doin the same thin each time. Sometimes he doesn't call me till 3:00pm and he used to call like every hour when we first met. Ya might be thinkin that maybe it's because of money or maybe he doesn't have credit on his phone, we both use Cingular which means he can call me anytime without charges.

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ya ask him why he doesn't call

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well its 2 ways to be sincere with you. I know for once that once i dont get to call a girl often i do not like her but then like i said that's my own saying and does not apply to him.

why not ask him why he doesnt call you often since love is a fifty-fifty thing and see what he says

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i have the same problem, his reason is that he hates returning calls, but he is very happy when i call him, n wants me to call him everyday which is cool, but i hate being the only one that keeps calling, so sometimes i don't call him 4 like 4 days lol on purpose and then he finally picks up his phone n calls me. so it doesn't neccessarily mean he doesn't love you, but u can make him call you.

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my dear love i s surely a fifty-fifty thing,as for me,if my bf doesnt call me offten i will take it that he doesnt care about me,cos if he does he would want to hear my voice vitually every day,well thats the way about it,why not talk it over with him.

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how often is often? Once a day is ok if u ask.

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