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My Boo gets tired of kisses easily: Is he still attracted to me?

I am a type of girl that loves to kiss emotionally but my boo is always tired of kisses. My first question is that :

  Does that mean he is no longer attracted to me and how can i make him want me more?

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Check your breath, it prolly stinks or tastes bad or he just dsnt luv kissin as much as u do.

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Maybe you are a poor kisser, chewing on his lips and gums.

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kissing is an art just like sculpture,like painting its just not about opening one's mouth and sticking your tongue nope it goes more than that, try and stimulate him first just like when u caress someone or even making love its not just some wham bang thing, first u gotta caress the lips with ur lips too, try coming from the ear down don't just rush to the lips, try to hold it up there and release not just sticking it in only don't try to choke with ur tongue be gentle with it, try and also hold the the lips with ur teeth not biting just a little.if you are not sure of your breath just peck on the cheeks some folks are not aware that they might have halitosis and it affects your partner, try and use a mint if u know u really wanna get down and u love d kissing game and finally make sure your partner is in a relaxed state of mind before u go down on the kisses. hope that helps

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Maybe your mouth smells, and he doesn't know how to tell you without getting you offended. Or maybe he just doesn't like kissing. I would suggest that you don't jump into unnecessary conclusions yet.

Take time to investigate him properly and find out what the real problem is.

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Try taking him 2 da rehab 4 chk up, coz dat soundz quite weird,

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Even if he's not interested anymore, the natural instinct when there's a kill in view is to enjoy the kill!

If he is avoiding kissing u, u need to check yourself, or have u seen where a girl is begging a boy to do before?

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could be mouth odour,

could be tiredness,

could be his mind being preoccupied,

could be his insecurity of his kisses

could be u dont know how to kiss so well

could be a thousand and one reasons

how do u know which?

ask him!

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y on earth will a guy not love to kiss, it is kind of weird to me shaaaaaa

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same problem wit me too my ex girl no like to dey kiss cos of her open teeth.i don tell am tire say e no matter.as long as the mouf no dey boom.

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Make she come kiss that ur gutter smelling thing u call mouth?

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Come see me. I will give it to you free. issing is my hobby. But i wont take you from your booo. ok?

You can reach me funkystanlo@yahoo.com

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Really?

But for me, I dont take kissing as a must have but i notcie my bf is the one always aksing me for kisses not me. but dont get it wrong, I love his kisses just that I dont ask. Dont know why

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Yeah, like many people have said; maybe he's not into kissing as much as you are. It also depends on how long and how much kissing you want/are used to. I know that I used to be able to kiss for hours, but I was lucky to find a guy who liked it equally.

Secondly, the same thing happened to me; the kisses became less frequent, but that's because he became busier as time went on, more stressed, and we were slipping out of the honeymoon phase into the 'real relationship'. Assuming that you've been with your 'boo' for several months then, just check your breath just to make sure, and make it extra inviting (minty), then when you get a chance to kiss him, don't over do it, don't think of it as 'I may never get to kiss him again.' just take it slow, and maybe you should be the one to pull away. This might make him consider putting more effort into kissing, however be careful, you don't want to seem like you're trying to take charge.

You could ask him I guess, if you feel you two can talk about this, but if you're really unsure, you might just have to wait it out until you're certain what the problem is.

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@poster, Maybe he's not really into de kissin stuff. Guess he's chained and addicted to 'chookin' (bangin), only!

Try givin him ur 'suppy', and see whether his reactions will convince u dat he stil loves u!

ROTFLOL!

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Your Boo has no problem with you. Its a thing of the mind. He's not really in the best frames of mind right now. His State of mind is not of a friendly disposition, something could be disturbing him, which is now affecting his desire or commitment to things around him. He'll get over it, but please dont put him under pressure.

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Think about what czar told u,u might be havin a serious mouth odour.Y not replace ur brush n toothpaste for a change

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my hubby and I use to kiss a lot at first, but after a while it slowed , as long as i get my welcome home kiss and good bye kisses I'm happy i get disappointed when he doesn't kiss but Ive learnt that there is other things we can do

Ive offten kissed his neck from behind or his brow as i pass him by its my way of showing i care with out putting pressure on him, hugs and cuddles are important too don't let his lack of kisses slow you down. show your love and he will return it, mm mm sometimes ignoring him will bring him too you

Yet when he comes to me for a kiss it fills me with such warmth and love he has no idea how his kiss affects me

thats why hes #1 to me they do have a power over us we feel things differently Rite !!

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some men are actually scared that they cannot kiss and think they are being judged.

don't u hate it when a man tries to stick his tongue down ur throat all in the name of kissing.

or he might not be too romantic, most men aren't all they want is sex without the romance, on the other hand romance is important to women.

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Mouth odour mite just be it. . . Analyse ya mouth!

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thats crazy, my dude loves to kiss and personally, i love that. You should just ask him straight up why he doesnt like kissing maybe there's a reason and also, maybe you shouldn't bother so much, think of the other fun things you both like and concentrate on that because it seems we ladies forget we are not always suppose to be the people pleasers, if it were the other way around the lady would have just kissed even if she didn't want to.

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I think u should do eveything to please him, if he get tired of kissing easily ,that means u should the other thing if u know what i mean.

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Maybe he isn't the passionate guy, if you know what I mean.

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Actually we are not married yet, we are still ( gf and bf) and amma try to find out whatelse he likes apart from what all guys like

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I don't think they are married.

There are things we don't naturally like.

Just like we have guys/girls who don't like sex, we also have those who don't like kissing that much.

Find out what else he likes!

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