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My Boyfrnd Does Not Treat Me The Way I Want.pls Wat Do I Do?

i'm sick and tired.

Anybody, pls wat do i do?

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Which one is ur own nw? why do u pple want to knw?

Ok in everything!

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NLD: Thanks to you all 4 ur picese of advise.

  I Think i knw wat to do nw.

  MAY GOD Bless u all.

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eeez If your bf is not treating you as you want to be treated. . .tell him, bear it or move on!

why now!

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is it because of the new catch you wanna dump him?

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i second that!! - i am big communication fan and if it doesnt work - dont force it

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Then again poster, it depends on what exactly you mean when you say 'how you want to be treated', not at all saying this is the case between the both of you but some guys could be treating their girls decently and to the best of their ability but the girl is just a diva/snobbish or whatnot and is demanding for more than he can give unfairly thus he isn't 'treating them the way they want', vice versa.

So poster, how is he currently treating you and how exactly do you want to be treated?

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let him know how u feel & if he doesnt change, then dump his sorry Bottom

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Have you spoken to him about it?

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Talk to him, Tell him how u want to be treated ok and be so cool about it too ok

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What treatment is he giving you?

What do you want him to do differently?

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Geeez If your bf is not treating you as you want to be treated. . .tell him, bear it or move on!

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how do u want to be treated lady?

let ur xpression be known to ur man

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Steps: Decide if this is indeed the relationship for you.

Learn to communicate. You will need to feel comfortable talking about your feelings, and those that you perceive your partner to have. Once you have decided to talk openly about your feelings, you may want to have the talk in an environment in which you feel safe.

Keep in mind that if you are feeling something, your feelings are valid. Do not allow this person to minimize your feelings.

Write down a few things that you want to talk over, and if possible, you should have some examples of the behaviors that you are not comfortable with. Make sure that you have a clear understanding of the issues you would like to address.

Start the conversation with something positive about the person, or about your relationship. People are often defensive when they perceive negativity, so make sure you go in with an open heart. If you can't think of anything good to say, you may want to think over the choice to stay with your partner.

Ask your partner to hear you out, before he or she speaks. If you sense that your partner is not receptive, you may want to have the conversation at a later time.

Tips: Counseling is a great way to talk about your feelings. Couples counseling is even better.

Always talk one on one. Don't bring others into your relationship.

Do not have the conversation over email or over the phone. Body language can tell you a great deal.

Trust your instincts. If it does not feel right, it probably is not.

Take Colonel Sherman Potter's (from M*A*S*H) advice: "Whenever you have trouble with someone you love, you can either stop loving them, or you can love them a whole lot more." One of the best ways to be treated well is to take the initiative. Treat them even better than you have been! The better you treat them, the better they will treat you.

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u need to let us know oe he isnt tretin u d waqy u want.is he droppin money but not droppin body?etc u need to be cleare

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Try to let him know how you feel about his behaviour, i believe he will understand you if he truly love you the way you said. best of wishes rossy

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dear rossy,have u eva contacted him on dis issue?i mean telling him hw u feel abt this,wel if u hva not,den do dat now,let ur man know hw u fell,let him know dat u ned to be treated like a queen which he is not givin to u, make him understand dat dat is how a lady should be treated,or dnt he love u?? well i guess u should sit and talk tins ova ok?? best wishes

Dear Fsudoka, Thanks 4 dat. i tink i'll jst sit and talk with him.i'm vry sure he still luvs me as much as i luv him.

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dear rossy,have u eva contacted him on dis issue?i mean telling him hw u feel abt this,wel if u hva not,den do dat now,let ur man know hw u fell,let him know dat u ned to be treated like a queen which he is not givin to u, make him understand dat dat is how a lady should be treated,or dnt he love u?? well i guess u should sit and talk tins ova ok?? best wishes

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@ Phemour,

Whats up?? please move this thread outa here to the romance section.

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Dump his sorry backside and get intouch with me, but hang on a minute, How do u want him to treat u? pls tell me

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