I have a problem with cousin of mine. His name is Chinedu. The problem is that there was this lady that he claimed he loved so much [about 2 years ago]. He asked this lady to marry him 2 years ago, but after much much, the lady got married to another guy and had a girl-child. Now, the guy [her husband] died last November and has been buried.
The worst part of this story is that Chinedu, my brother is now well-to-do, and has still gone back to this lady, asking her to marry him.
I want to know what you people feel about this! I think my cousin is very silly. If this girl liked him 2 years back, she would have married him, then why is he going back to her now.
My aunty [his mother], says otherwise. She supports her son in getting married to this lady, because [according to her, Chinedu was not too capable of raising a family 2 years back, that was why the girl did not marry him]. Therefore, now that he is financially stable, he can go back to the girl he really wants and get married to her.
Please you people should respond because I do not want Chinedu to marry her. Tell me the steps I can take to prevent my cousin from making this mistake.