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My Friend And My Boyfriend Are Dating. What Should I Do?

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Aussie and ufobabe, , HUSBAND & WIFE.

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Rat poison should do the trick, go for the local brand, aptly named "otapiapia" or the revised version of it called "kill and dry", just two drops in your friends morning tea and her and her treacherous ways are gone for good.

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thanks alot.

ur opinion is great.

am doing that already.

men!! thanks.

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Ufobabe ! Aussie ! Get a grip on yourselves! Why bother mudslinging on these pages. Surely you've both got e-mail addresses - and possibly chat on Yahoo! or other instant messaging service. Airing your beef out here just ain't good. Especially Ufobabe. I read your post replies quite often and find them amusing. This isn't the time to make me lose the respect for you which you invariably hard-earned without knowing it. And Aussie, while I don't know much about you, maintain the masculine status quo. Ergo, behave. Tolerance and restraint should come naturally. Should you feel aggrieved, find a way to smoothen things out. You want to be appeased? Request for it. Not throwing the trash can around the house.

Who knows, you guys may hook up some day. Or had you guys in the past , ?

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I'm quite surprised at what is going on in this very room or call it anything.

Aussie and ufobabe!!!

Why are u guys behaving this way,u dont need all these soughts,insultive and demoralizing words of such,i really wanna believe that u guys are mature,whoever post any topic or whatsoeva,if u aint got any response or advise,then better not say anything than cursing and abusing,

I must say at this point,i'm grossly dissapointed at this shameful disposition of yours,

I once posted a topic on nairaland,when a guy responded and referred to my father in an insultive way,but i never even bothered to say anything simply because i'm quite sure that if he knows the person is insulting(my dad) he will use his nose to smell dust in the prison and i mean it,but i dont have to start showing who and what!!

I believe we are all educated people in here,and please let us behave so,afterall,we all claim one level of maturity or the other,

Aussie,u're a guy for God sake,u dont know me and i dont know u,but i really dont expect such from uuu.

If u wanna abuse me,u are damn free,afterall its a free world where everybody has the right to use the potential of their mouth anyhow they choose to.

Cheers!!!

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@ Aussie

i think i know what u need. i may be nothing b4 u.say whatever u want. use abusive words of all kind. but this is the last time i will talk 2 u. good day

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relationship is about love and trust.hes a man of god sleepin with ur friend,and u still need advice, come-on!

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@ufobabe,

ADVISE ADVICE

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i adviced u and wished u luck not 2 make u feel bad. so take your time in this house else i shall sent u out

@ufobabe,

Check out your english expression.Too Bad!! You are a disgrace to the ladys, i wonder whether you will be able to express yourself verbally. You will send me out,- go ahead if you can, am waiting to sent out. You caused it in the first place and i won't stop hunting you.

babe, go get Brighter Grammar 1,2,3,4 and 5 for the polish of your English. I pity the guy that goes out with a dullard like Mabel.(ufobabe)

You never advised me in that thread, it is still there for review, you only made jest of me.

You are a buch of hopelessness because i don't see you givinig hope to the hopeless in the first place.

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@Aussie

i dislike you and i won't stop antagonising you because you put you rotten mouth into what does not concern you and it was like you added fuel to a burning fire. The thread is still there for you to go back and see what you said. You utterance actually infuriated and frustrated me out of the thread.

i adviced u and wished u luck not 2 make u feel bad. so take ur time in this house else i shall sent u out

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just leave them, its not worth it, am sorry though

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@ufobabe,

Have u forgotten you once insulted me in this house, when i said i needed a girl for a serious relationship about two weeks ago.

You forgot you said i had a long way to go? is that respect for human feelings as you claim?

Ufobabe, i dislike you and i won't stop antagonising you because you put you rotten mouth into what does not concern you and it was like you added fuel to a burning fire. The thread is still there for you to go back and see what you said. You utterance actually infuriated and frustrated me out of the thread.

MABEL, you may not have peace until am done with you. You miserable and cataclysmic-kaleidoscopic baboon.

Grand-mother of a DOG.

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yes

introduced faith my girl friend 2 my boyfriend Dayo

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Did you say your "friend" was called FAITH?

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U know wat? Just come into my open arms

nd let me receive you.

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@ Aussie,

what is ur problem?is sharing personal problem with the house a crime?

pls if u don't have contribution don't insult me ok.

i needed help is the reason 4 my posting not trying 2 cook up stories.

i have respect 4 human's feelings older and younger.

pls don't insult me again.

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This useless benin girl don star again. she is never serious with this forum. A very silly girl cooking up stories.

And ugly one for that matter. I pity ur boyfriend, if u have any.

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Are you still vacant maybe i can pop in ? 4real lady please

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Ufobabe!!!

Let me ask u this first,are u very sure they are?if u aren't sure pls dont conclude.If however,u're damn sure about such scenerio going on between them,why not make up your mind and quit the relationship?

I do believe that life is more precious and more valuable than waisting your time with someone who doesnt really have plans for his life,such people are detractors and shouldnt be allowed to eat deep into the fabrics of your life.There are so many things to concentrate on in life,first of all your happiness which is your first and fore most responsibility,never place your happiness in someone else's hands or else u gonna be damned for it one day,secondly your well beign is also your responsibility,when you take good care of yourself and package yourself right,someone somewhere is looking closely and will surely appreciate you for who u are and treat you with respect as such as u desreve.

So common cheer up girl,better days are ahead closer than u even think,

Be good!!!

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well nothin there is no point in cursing them or sweating over it

who knows they might eventually get married or break up. life goes on.

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Move on with your life!

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Sorry Oh,. . . must be careful kitty.

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Trust ur small brain to come up with something like that,

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@ poster,

then shoot the both of them, simple as A.B.C

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Sry sweetheart but poo happens!! dy ll surely be separated soon

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am grateful 2 all 4 ur concern towards me

i feel i have a family here that can lift me when am down

THANKS 2 ALL

I APPRECIATE U ALL

GOD BLESS U ALL

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Sweetie, as painful as it is, you just have to let them both GO! Feelings could be very strong I know. He might want to come back to you but ermm. . . it's up to you to dump him in the deepest pit or cling to him and always fight over this incident.

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LADY M,

THANKS 4 U JUST TOO MUCH

REALLY AM GRATEFUL

THANKSSSSSSSSSSSS

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i guess u've gotten d msg behind d whole drama.

anyway sugarpie, Keep Keeping On ok!!! thy re too many sweet n men wit integrity u will cm across in future, just move on wit life! and believe in urself ok, !! it can only get better.

all d best!!!!

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yes, i introduced faith 2 Dayo when he visited me in Benin

Dayo keeps on coming, that my neighbours noticed that he has been sleeping with her.

i did not believe because Dayo kotunee, told me that himself is a pastor in okokomaiko,lagos.i even met them.

when it was too much 2 bear, i reacted and finally left me 4 faith that he has been inviting faith 2 lagos so that i will not be seeing them.

i just believe that God wants me 2 learn from that,so 2 be careful that i will not lose my mr.right

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I'd advice you to quietly drop both of them if u can't forgive them. If you can, I'd still advice to give them an arm's length.

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U have to take it easy girl cos friends of nowadays are fake so don't give up, God will provide someone better than him ok. They are fools

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@poster,

Act as if both of never exist.

@easy babe,

I tire 4 u oo

Suicide 4 what, over what.

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I suppose U are the one that introduced Faith to Dayo(or Dayo to Faith)? You would have known the type of people they are on the first instance.

Maybe Faith is:

More beautiful than U,then there is nothing u can do

Sex machine then it will be difficult getting your man's attention

Some guys can just be[i] FREAK[/i]!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Faith is not ur friend and Dayo is obviously not ur friend, so what do u do?take a walk.

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Poison both of them, joke

Just leave them both, they are both lairs, cheaters, and they seems to deserves each other, i am sure you will find someone better,

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yes pls tell us how u found out. I am really curious,

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@ poster

How did u find out?

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