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My Friend Just Broke Up With Somebody I'm Attracted To.what Should I Do?

My friend just broke up with a girl I loved/love(blind lov). 2 months ago,my heart crashed when my friend n I meet where I had come to express my feelings to this girl I loved. When we met(my friend),I asked him what he came there to do and he told me about the new girl he had got. We decided to relax at a nearby restaurant where he called the girl to meet us there. I had already told the girl that I do come her area and she told me I should call her anytime i came. That day was the day i wanted to tell her that i'm in her area but had not actually done that b4 my friend. While we were waiting,my friend had told me he 'striked' the gal 3days ago. When i saw the girl my heart froze. Didnt know what happend next as my guy was introducing the girl to me. I knew we had feeling for each other bt had nt actually expressd it. I watchd the rel/ship crawled as my love 4 her died inside of me n my mind full of jealousy, They just broke up. Gud 2 go or bad 2 go? What should i do?

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[quo.te author=Ben-10 link=topic=496302.msg6582248#msg6582248 date=1281979911]

Your friend might call you names. Let the friendship with your friend continue and let the babe be.

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what if i let my friend knw of my intentions.i might make smthing out of the the relationship if we 'blend'.

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I dont know if i should call my friend 2 esplain things out with him. The issue is that i hav a strong feeling for the girl. I'm nt used 2 going behind my friends back that's why i allowd their rela/ship last.

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kenis you already know what you plan to do so enjoy the consequences or lack there of

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Kenis, I would advise that before you make any decisions, why not try and find out what caused the breakup between this gal and your guy. Take time to study the gal from afar. From what you said, I dont think she dated your guy long before he caned her. If my presumption is true, then this girl in question is likely one of "easy virtue".

I think don't she's worth all this fuss.

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, so u're abusing ur friend 'cos of a lady? U dickhead!

Impudent rascal!

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Posters of these days. Every one of them's trying to be a clown.

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**yawns**, piss on poster**

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u are a b1tch. . . look wat a girl has made u do? ? ? now u call ur frend names. . .

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No, wait until they get back together na.

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aint think about anybody b4 i could think of myself. I think what is good 4 me 1st.

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Guy, if u go ahead and date dat chik, Somewhere down d line d tot of d fact dat ur friend 'striked' her will break u, Personally, I wuldnt

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i would have advised to stay clear of that gal but since you seem set on going after her let me ask you:

- which one of the two are you ready/willing to loose?!

- you KNOW that you will have to choose between the two, right?!

- do you really think that your friend is going to be cool that you're dating his ex now?!

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Your friend might call you names. Let the friendship with your friend continue and let the babe be.

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