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My Girl Is Not A Virgin. Should I Forgive Her?

I found out yesterday that the girl that i luv so much is no more a virgin,she started dating another guy some years back that lead to us breaking up  3 years ago, now we are back together i found out that she isnt a virgin anymore, the funny thing is that she didnt know when she disvirgined, all she can say is that it was 2008, she dont know which month in2008, if it was beginning or middle or end of the year, Ladies is it possible not to know when you disvirgined.

  i saw her treating an infection, she refuses to admit is an sexualy transmited infection, can it be that this other guy was unfaithful to her? is it why they are no more together?is it why she came back to me?

  i feel cheated, pain .confused? i dont know if i should end this relationship or continue. I dont belive the answer she is giving about why she broke up with the other intimacy guy.

I need advice should i leave her or believe her.

I manipulated a girl the same year she disvirgined does it mean i am also not a virgin even though i havnt digged a lady before. should i disvirgin with someone else and call it equal?

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awon professional storytellers on nl.

always one story or another.

i guess the op either forgot or didnt care about his other thread.

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OP, if u know u dont love her anymore, then forget about her and move on! But for future sake, dont go searchin for virgins again to prevent same story as this. But sometimes, I wonder what pleasure people derives in virgin gals. For a gal being a virgin is a BIG time TURN OFF to me!

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is that why u r nw after my googles? look elsewhere my frnd.

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If you know that you can,t trust her; then, there is no point going on with the relationship

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why shdnt u fogive her?did she commit murder? by not being a virgin.As for her not knowin wen she lost her virginity all i can say is i dont know how dts possible.

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If you are really as confused as you sound then you are in deep poo! So u are not sure if you are a virgin too? Besides whats there to forgive?

Look man go smoke some weed men.

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Your girl is not a virgin but you want to dis-virgin another girl ------->http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-396576.0.html

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Guy, wise up, ur eyes are open but u cant see. the babe is just trying to tell u dat she was (bedded) so many times by her EX dat she lost count. so it is a two way affair, u either keep an experience babe or u dump her.easy!

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The babe is full of poo!!!

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Thanks everyone for your contributions, i guess my fears of losing her made me a fool,i have sacrificed alot for our relationship,i guess it was all a one man game, regret i will but not for long, life is funny, the little problem i have now is to pay her back,for make her feel pain, I guess i should just let her go. what has happened has happened. May God pay her back.

THanks once more for all your contributions, i appreciate.God bless

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i hope u knw HIV has a window period of abt 5mnths.during dis tym no HIV test is gonna be + jst be careful and dnt disvirgin anoda girl just for revenge.it's just plain wicked.

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So relationships are now a "do me I do you" affair? Cos ur gf got disvirgined while U guys were separated and can't remember the exact day it happened, U want to take your pound of flesh by sleeping with s'mun else. And when U do this, U guys will be even and live "happily ever after" ryt? So sad

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What do you want in a woman? At ur age u should be able to answer that question.

You should be able to choose your friends and not d other way.

U shld be in a relationship with someone u are comfortable with. Obviously u are no longer comfortable with this woman so quit that relationship.

Relationships are based on TRUST so if u cant trust her then it wont work!!

i think its time for u to roll man, find someone suitable, someone u can trust.

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She isnt telling you the truth! You CAN NOT catch anything from a toilet seat, thats a ridiculous lie made by people who are trying to screw you over!!! Honestly, check it out. Ask a doctor, its rubbish. Regardless of the 'virgin' thing she is lying to you about everything else. So i would be asking why she is lying, what is she hiding!!!

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Poster, even if you claim to be a virgin, do we have a radder or a mechanism of finding out, If you do not want her, just move on with your life in search of a virgin like you. However, be aware of HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases, since you are a virrrrrrrrrrrrrrgin.

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Quick question, are you a virgin? If yes then dump her if no, then put up or shut up.

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This virgin an non-virgin thing are virgins stll respected in our today world? not even in the catholic churches.

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i never knew this will be a funny topic but am really serious about all i wrote, i luv her all am asking is it safe to do so, she went for lab test and the report showed she is negative i also saw the result. about the infection she said she contacted it from the toilet she was using when she went for a holiday. Can al this be true ,ols i need help before i regret any decision i take.

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Hahahaha, hehehehe

for d first tym 2day i really laughed, Thank you poster

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Very funny post. I can only laugh.

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Guy, u sound so young and inexperienced which makes u sound so silly. Y are u obssessd wit virgin? I bet u are not above 17yrs. Look kid there is more 2 life than virgin and askin 4 d day she broke up? She is obviously wiser than u. Talk 2 ur uncle, elder botha or coursin, they shuld guide b4 u get infected wit HIV

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why didn't you dis virgin her then? Did you think that she will just lie fallow? You are not serious.Don't forgive and look for another virgin.Are you a virgin yourself? Anu ofia.

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abeg help me tell am,

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Take her to a doctor for tests if she's truly infected with any sexually transmitted disease.

If she test negative, then you can give that relationship a second thought; but if she's positive, then flee for your precious life.

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Look for another virgin, pls.

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It's not as if you're a virgin yourself, so get over it.  She did not violate you so there's nothing to forgive.

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you broke up with her when she was a virgin and you didn't sleep with anyone else right? you kept your own virginity intact abi? If you are a virgin,then by all means, don't forgive her,but if you aren't,please cut the bullshit and stop talking about forgiveness!! get over it!

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you broke up with her 3 years ago and u xpect to meet her same way u left her ?

my guy get real lots of fowl don cross road

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@THE AMAKA: is it only in d nite people lose their virginity? Lol! @Poster: use ur brain.

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U sef,are u virgin too?

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lol again?

unless she was drunk and/or drugged, then she should remember that night.

lol

lol

all i can do is laugh lol

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