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My girlfriend flirts yet she wouldn't let me be. What do I do?

I met this girl in April this year, she threw herself at me and we began to date. But this girl flirts alot! I have warned her repeatedly to drop her bad habit, but she wouldn't listen, as a result I have reduced my sexual relationship with her even though she wouldn't give me a breathing space. Once she came back from where ever she said she went to do her hair. Guess what fell down from her pocket? A packet of condom! I let the matter died down like that. On so many occassions, she had used my phone to call some boys as early as 5.30am, because she was sleeping in my room. I still never bothered.Just last saturday, she wanted to use my phone to flash 'somebody', I smelt a rat. The 'somebody' turned out to be a boy who just came to do his IT in my place of work. That was too much a slap on my face. That saturday, after she had met with the guy and they had finished what so ever, she came around and began to play with me as usual. What was she taking me for? Was she taking my silence and patience for foolishness? I couldn't bear the pains any longer, so I gave her red card! But last night, this girl came to my room and demanded that I must tell her the reason why I sent her packing. Well, I told her with pains. Instead of this girl to gently leave my room, she broke into tears begging me to forgive her. She is pleading that I should give her a second chance even though she denies all the allegations. Should I continue be a fool by taking back this wild girl? Unfortunately, we are leaving in the same house.

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The OP probably does not event remember that the girl exists

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U c ur gross 4ck up, hw u go take grl wen de d same house wit u serious, tin is u are a fool, and as am sensin it u guys ar back so my opinon doesn't matter 2 u. U are a disgrace 2 man.hood

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Move a b*tch move.Guess u are thinking with ur third leg.There are many better and decent girls out there.I had a worse experience and i tell u men,am better for it.Be a man and make that wise decision of shutting your heart on her.She does not deserve a guy like u.Dont be a FOOL!Damn!

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man you have enough advice to last you a lifetime

as for me depending on ur faith let the spirit guide you

she knows your worth and wants to keep you around

but like some men she can't handle the lust in her

life does not have a duplicate,

continuing sex with her might be pleasurable but also dangerous to ur health and life

end it now before it becomes too late

believe me i have been there it was not easy breaking off especially when steamning sex is involved

payback is always a Dam i always advice against it,

nemesis has enough in stock for her

thank you.

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SHE BEG YOU FOR WHAT?PLEASE GUY BUY DOG FOR THIS GIRL TO SLEEP WITH ANYTIME SHE WANNA HAVE SEX, I GUES SHE MAKE USED OF YOU TO SLEEP IN YOUR ROOM AND TAKE YOU AS MUMU, GUY REACT FAST

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I meant ****round****

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Okay Mr Johnny. Its unfortunate that you are being used lol.

It stinks to know that you go by the name Johnny cuz I believe every Johnny is a strong person when it comes to love. Pls follow your head not your heart. If you are calculative enough, you should know that what goes roung will eventually come back

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True talk jare

STD- Sexually Transmitted Decease

STI- Sexually Transmitted Infection

But if you want die then go ahead.

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True talk jare

But if you want die then go ahead.

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guy, u r sitting on a long thing.

u don turn mugu ooooooooooooooooo!

std or no std, u'v got 2 b strong man unless u r a wussy

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Get married, buy a plot of land, build a home and here http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-521891.0.html

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All I can say to you is that the writing is on the wall.You dont need to ask us what to do,you already know what you have to do.

There is point being in a relationship where you are unhappy,have you heard that saying "You can comb a dog,bath it but a dog still remains a dog"

If she is triffling now she will always be,I just pray you realise this before its too late and thats falling in love and you know who will be the FOOL then.She will walk all over you like an OLD RUG.

Kiss her Bottom to the CURB,ladies are looking for a good man these days and yours has you but she refuses to see it.And besides she is greedy,wants to have all the fun while you stay at home.

Let her know this fact,guys to sleep with are very very plentiful but a guy that will be with you through thick and thin.Through the hard times and lead to marriage well these are a Dime a Dozen. By the way Men are scarce these days oh,at a time dem scarce like KEROSINE

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Just out of curiosity when did flirting and cheating mean the same thing

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dont worry, she is trying to kill 2 birds with 1 stone

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dear jonnhy consider what SAMORAJ said its simple u cant make a LovePeddler a house wise, get ur own share of the cake and clean mouth my guy miss right will surly come one day remaing OG mean (original gangstar) thats what i am, i have esperience this also

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like my big hommie SNOOP DOOG say,you can't turn a hoe into a house wife, tell her like my man LUDA ,MOVE Dam GET OUT THE WAY ,then pick up your ball or what's left of them and leave.

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i feel your pain. i've been in those same shoes once. I'm even sure you guys have great sex. Please send all that crap out of your head and into the furnace, not out of the window or into the trash cos you'll end up picking it back. She's still your friend but i tell you she'll never truly respect you as a partner no matter what. She'll only do well with someone who she meets after she has decided to keep a cool head. With you it's going to be a really bumpy ride all the way, i tell ya.

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You need to know her motive of doing that.ask her maybe you have not been satisfying her sexually or any other reason why she had been doing that.And you would know the next thing to do maybe to eliminate her or continue with it.And also you need to be careful of STIs,STDs and the main BABA of them all HIV/AIDS.

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The guy gives her sex, a phone, a bed to sleep in with him, and she's not satisfied. This goes on for a long time. The guy knows this, and continues to provide her with what she wants.

Why should I care?

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man i think u have to do away with that girl,she is a maniac. i wonder how some girls can be so heartless a guy gives u all u need and u still go out to sleep around.thats one thing about an average Nigerian girl never satisfied.its either money or sex.i just cant understand.anyway am about saying bye bye to bachelor hood.so man leave that girl oh cos u don't know what plan she has got in mind for u.maybe now she has the VIRUS.and wants to share the love.run for Ur life

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i guess you should be very careful wit her but make sure she is really repented b4 taking her back

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I beg send her away.she's a disgrace to woman wood.

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she might not be doing nothing with those man like me i love to flirt with a lot of guys but dat don't mean i sleep with em maybe dat's just who she is and if she had dat much men she ain't gon be beggin u back

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what you have between the two of you is familiarity, not a gf/bf issue.

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just quit b/4 she give you std find another one there are many good ones out there or even in nairaland.so run she does not love you.

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do me a big favor man,

the next time she comes to ya crib,

kiss her passionately,"just when she thinks u r about to get jiggy", use that voice u usual use to get women and tell her to get the fu*k out of your house before you kick the living daylight out of her Bottom. push her out and lock the door. pronto, finito, cest fini.

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man! i was in those shoes till 2004 sept. her problem was she actually started off her sex life as an adventure and so she became so addicted to it to the point, she was fighting to quit the habit. She saw sex as just sex...no big deal if you don't feel anything for the person. But I hoped she'd change, but it was quit difficult 'cos she loved sex so much. She was a sexaholic and this is what most of our young ladies are turning into now. Not even sex to get a husband ooo, i'm talking just for the f@%$ of it.

My man, you are not a fool but it's just a hard decision that you have to make. The reality is you'll take her by faith.

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should you be a fool. . .. hmm. . . do I tell him to be a fool. . . or do I not?

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man, what kind of advice are you asking for? give her the heave ho.

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do whatever ur heart tells you but be ready for any Consequences with decisions you make.

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Guy,I agree with casper here.You are fool.How can you allow someone to use your brain like this?Hmmmmm.Abeg,throw her as far away as possible from you,she is an illwind that blows no good.

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I think Johnny is comfortable with her (s)excapades, if not why would he allow her in the second time.

If a kid holds fire and knife, it's either he gets burnt or cut. That's my advice.

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i dont mean to be this rude but are you a FOOL!!!!! what the heck pls open your eyes or you will die with AIDS!!!! true to God

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hey dude! i think the only thing that's keeping you in there is the sex...i bit 50 bucks she turns your head round and round with some steamy sex session....my brother don't be blind, open your eyes and see the light

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My brother, just discard her before she infects you with HIV AIDS.

Run for your dear life.

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Whether or not she did what you think she did, you seem to have little respect for her at this point and even before this point, so the relationship is doomed regardless of what you do about this particular incident. The relationship between the two of you just won't work, and that's all there is to it.

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