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My Girlfriend Is Afraid To Kiss: Is That Normal?

my girlfriend said shes afraid to kiss...

the border of us kissing is only on the cheek and forehead..

she said she doesnt want to kiss on the lips coz shes afraid..

what shud i do? should i give her more time?

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Whats the big deal in a kiss? If she doesn't want to kiss you, pls let her be, don't force her or pressure her to do so. That she hasn't done that yet means that she doesn't like you enough to kiss you or she's just shy. If you were a girl and its your first time, you'll understand why she's shy about it. So exercise patience and chill. I haven't had a kiss yet......patiently waiting for my own experience. #winks#. But i can't kiss a guy i don't like, thats for sure. Yuck! The thought of that makes me sick.

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Six years later, has she kissed you yet?

LOL

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Okay let's cut the crap shall we - First of all, it's NOT normal, unless being full of shyte is normal where you're @, in which case then it is normal. Movin' on... Why doesn't she wanna kiss you? Well, I dunno - Why wouldn't YOU wanna kiss someone?

Now before you start a long winding story to justify this kissless pseudo-relationship, please don't, no need to bore the masses when the answer is quite simple...

PEOPLE DO NOT KISS PEOPLE THEY ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO.

You're being taken for a ride and you know it, you just don't wanna believe it.

Next!

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maybe she hates kissing,as for me i wont kiss u if i dont luv u cos it irritates me,y shuld ur girl b scard to kiss u?u shuld askd her of her reasons,she culd b scared of bites or there is sometin wrong.

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@OP

She is afraid to kiss you because if her full-time(real) boyfriend catches her snuggling with another man, he might bury the two of you. You are just an assistant boyfriend; the authentic boyfriend is getting kissed big time.

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may be she is shy or nervous about her first experience, you have to increase your skills and make her relax.

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Lol. I am afraid too. Well actually I wouldn't say I am afraid really but more so I am terribly shy.

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There is a very strong reason why shes refusing to kiss you, that is what you need to find out ( a big home work for you).

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Has she ever kissed? If no, then it's normal, it took me abt 4mnths b/4 i could start kissing my b/f. Just pet her, if she still insist, then leave her till she's ready.

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may be u hav 2 the reason both of u should have normal kiss ok,

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@poster if she is afraid she,s right because there are lot of infection dat can be contacted thrugh kissin so if she insist let her bee probably is for yur own gud,,,.

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Just brush your mouth regularly. She's only been polite.

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I loooove to kiss.

My sister doesn't see the big deal in kissing. Her husband even complained to her about it.

Different strokes for different folks.

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@poster,just give her time she will cm around. . .

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She`s not keen on kissing you.

Next!

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I think he must have done that after three years!

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leave the girl alone funny people

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@poster , Your girl friend na ajebutter?

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Poster,

Has she ever been sexually assualted before?

Cause that was my problem than

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If a girl is in love, she'll kill u with kisses. U dont need to ask her.

The same thing about my girl, actually she kisses me a little then stops, keeps saying she's shy that she aint good at that, bt the quote above gives me a clear insight of what the fact is. There was a day she gently kissed me herself voluntarily, then she mentioned my name stopped kissing and looked down, I could not just understand what that meant, bt I now think its a oath jst lyk dat dude explained there, was not sure enuf about my luv.

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tell her she missing alot, B'coz their is joy in kissing acept she does not love u that much or she Afraid of you may be you have been looking for opprotunities to do the do, any way treat her well first and respect ur give her time so that she can trust u.

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i totally agree with you layi

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Am so damn sure Tooth paste/brush does not cost much in nigeria.

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ARE U SURE U DON'T TAKE GARLIC?

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well on my own point of veiw its like u dont brush ya mouth regularly nd she dont want to get infected with mouth virus

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Guy i dont see why ur supposed girl friend would be afraid to kiss u i think the problem with her is either u have bad breath or she has a bad breath which she no wan make u perceive .so go get ur self xamined

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are u sure u are not guilty of child abuse.she must be a minor and might be scared of geting pregnant through kiss.maybe that thing (sp) dey comot for your mouth

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You dont have to rush things.focus on other things that brings u close rather than worrying urself over a kiss

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maybe b/c she knows kissing leads to other things, u know what i'm talkin about, so maybe she wants to keep herself pure?

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well give your girl friend more time, i mean it took my girlfriend 6 months to finally kiss my lips, just break it down gently to her that you are ready to kiss on the lips and that nothing more will happen

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Hope ur mouth is safe?

how old is ur toothbrush?

what tooth paste do your use?

is your teeth, Cream, Milk brown or black in colour?

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I hate to say this, but do you think she loves someone else?

If your attached to somebody else, or wanna prevent yourself from getting attached to anybody, kissing is a no no.

Watch Pretty Woman. She only kisses him once she becomes intimate with him, in her soul.

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If she's a virgin then she's aware that the simple act of kissing could become uncontrollable. She may have had a bad experience. A lady once got a terrible respnse when she told the guy she was dating that the beautifu kiss was a good-bye gift as she couldn't cope with the relationship anyone. The lady has since drawn away from kissing. So it could be psychological. If you have bad breadth she could be scared this could be passed on.

If she's of age, give her time. Kissing should not be forced; as yor minds become closer, if should happen without incident. If she's a cradle let her be and look for something more important to do instead of rocking her to give in.

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my friend,i pity u because u are in a serious dilemma.I suggest u consider your oral hygiene,just start and never ask for it but dont just start without some emotional seductions.In some cases its normal and in others its not.Never leave your lips dry and dont give up because its sometimes better than sex.Try my suggestions but i dont want a commision of your sins.

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Well,i think it depends.firstly how long u have been dating her ?a month?more?.Secondly she might really be scared she doesnt know how to kiss or afraid she mite disappoint u.Also she might find it impossible to stop once she starts kissing u or maybe its her weakest link.watever time is more important.take it cool and take the other things she allows e g sex

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Don't you get what girlfriend is trying to say.Your mouth stinks.

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@ darkmanzero

Yes, I am a black woman and I would not kiss an Asian either. Not that I think something is wrong with them I just enjoy kissing a black man so there is no need for me to look else where.

But, if she will not kiss him, he must be confused. Why is he saying she is his girlfriend? What is he getting the impression from that she is his girlfriend?

She won't kiss him because he is Asian but she will date him and represent as his girlfriend? I don't get it.

They must be young

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@ Darkmanzero

What is it with this proof stuff? What are you talking about? You sound like someone else I had a dispute with in another discussion.

Please, lets be real, there is no need to provide proof on a theory about a woman kissing a man. We are all just giving the man advice based on what we know, thats all.

You don't personally know the man or woman and neither do I. Secondly, if you are going to ask me to provide proof don't you think you should do the same? You are no different from me.

Also, I responded twice to this discussion, the first response was for if the girl he was talking about was black. I didn't see you saying anything about providing proof for the post.

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is not normal o but can i ask u a very good question?

What is the structure, size, shape, colour and the arrangement of your teeth, that might be the reason y she is scared to kiss u but more comfortable to be kissed on her cheek or forehead

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@babe1

As far as I know, 'Akata' is not a derogatory term, I noticed it as a term used on naijaryders.com to refer to US or UK-born Nigerians- and in a friendly way (akatas call themselves akatas, )

However I may be mistaken. If you know better and Akata *is* a derogatory term over there, then please tell me so I don't use it again (and accept my apologies)

@sista-

The girl isnt Asian. HE is. The girl is Nigerian. What I said was that she may decide not to kiss him simply because he is asian. And no, don' t tell me that is not true, at least without proof.

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Just got the word that your girl is Asian, Hmm, this is a tuffy.

I have Asian friends and from what I know about Asian girls, she may not want to kiss you because she already has someone she is kissing. Maybe you are not aware of that. I think you need to talk to her about what your relationship is with her. You guys need to be clear as to what she would like to have going with you. Kissing on the cheek and the forehead is what friends or relatives do not to people in a romantic relationship.

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If your girlfriend is black, She may feel that it is not proper to show a sexual interest. Black women have been ridiculed about their sexuality. They have been directly tought or sublimanly tought that a woman is supposed to be shy, innocent and sweet. If this is her case, you are going to have to take your time with her. You are going to have to create trust between you and her so that she will feel free to open up. If you can do this, you will probably discover that you have the most sexually liberated woman on this planet but first you must make her feel verrrrry comfortable. She has to feel that she has nothing to feel guilty about.

If she does not have that problem, she may have this problem. She might have bad teeth she does not want you to see. Or she may have a bad smelling cavity. If this is her problem, you may never get a kiss, unless you can afford to send her to the dentist.

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dakmanzero, what do you mean by Akata? I am an American citizen but still a Nigerian and over here we are not considered as Akata but the black Americans. I do not wish to be refered to as an Akata.

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