look, so she was on a 'date' with a guy, notice how u r the one who called it a date, YES so the guy likes her, maybe they are hanging out together, as friends, and u just concluded because he's been asking her out, it must be a 'date'
if u ask me, i appreciate HONESTY and the fact that she told u where she is, should COMFORT you and not worry u if u know the kind of person she really is, unless u know she's the type that wouldnt go on a 'date' unless she had an agenda, then u gotta be worried
i have male friends, and ppl that like me, that subsequently become good friends with me, my partners have always had to appreciate that fact about me, and trust my personlaity well enough to know that i'm faithful. and just because i refuse to date a guy does not spell out enemity, if he's reasonable, we could be good friends, if my other half cant deal with that, then touch luck!, i'll kerb it for him, but i wont give up my life for him
Guy, I say better jump that girl. If you both are meant to be together, she'll clean up her game and come back to you.
I didn't say you should break up with her O! I said you should totally jump her case. Just skip her. Don't pick her calls, don't call, don't reply her texts. Don't go to see her and make sure she never meets you anywhere. That's what I mean by jumping/skipping her. Well if she was just trying to hang out, she'll find a way to get back to you. But if she was weighing her options, then she'll skip you too and at least you'll know it's over.
Well same thing happened with me and my girl. She's always keen on meeting new guys, hanging out, but nothing further. She just loves to remember that she's still attractive. She's honest with me she tells me everything. But what the Bleep kind of bullshit is that?
I stay dedicated all the time. I know women are attracted to me from the way they look at me and check me out. I don't need to go out on a date with them!
Anyhow, since I didn't want to get outplayed, I got a chick on the side too.
So one day, my girlfriend comes to check me up, we're watching a music video, then she says "O That chick in the video is so fine" and I tell her "yeah I know her personally". Later that day she checks through the pictures in my phone and sees me and the other just hanging out together and she realises it's not any fun what she's been doing.
So bro step your game up go out on your own dates but just make sure whomsoever you hook up with will be somebody your girlfriend will look up to as major competition. If not, you just played yaself.
By the way, you just mentioned she's in Port Harcourt. Men, she's definitely not just going on dates. As a matter of fact, she's not YOUR girlfriend, she's A girlfriend. Port Harcourt is not a place you trust girls. Let her go. I let mine go soon after we made up. It just wasn't worth it anymore.
Then you dont have to worry so much since you can attest to her honesty.
I think she is only trying to make you jealous and sit up. But i wouldn't second that type of talk cos its a seed she is sowing in her heart and it could grrow at the slightest chance. Always assure her of your love for her by calling her often and sending text messages.
I know what i am talking about oh, this is ph and a lot of guys out there ready to entice ladies with whatever.