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My Girlfriend Lied To Me Dat She Is Pregnant, Do I Forgive Her?

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A friend of mine told me what his girl did to him and i decided to find out how many girls can go to dat extreme.

He said dat his girl told him she missed her period n later came back and told him dat she is pregnant. Unknown to him, she was only testing him to see if he will ditch her because of the pregnancy. The guy now told her dat he was going to let her decide whatever she wishes to do wit d pregnancy, dat if she decides to have d baby, he is wit her, if she also decides to keep the pregnancy, he is also wit her. A few days later, she calls him and informs him dat she has decided to have d baby. To cut a long story short, she visited him several days later and found her guy wit a girl she has been suspecting dat her guy is dating around 8pm in d nite. Although according to my friend, he says he has nothing to do wit d girl in question. His gf broke off d relationship saying dat he has already started sleeping wit d other girl even while she is pregnant wit his baby. My friend loves his girl so much so he made sure dat he made up wit her. She now told him dat she has decided to terminate d pregnancy dat she doesn't believe my guy loves her and my guy in order to please her gave her N10,000.00 for abortion. She later confessed to wat she did and my friend has been very angry wit her even refusing to call or receive her calls. He claims dat what she did made him feel so inferior and emotionally unstable. But she claims dat she did it to test his love for her and dat he has proved it d way he handled d whole situation.

What is ur position? Do u think his girl is right? Do u think my friend is right to be angry dat his girl went to extremes to test his love? and above all, do u think my friends girlfriend deserves to be forgiven? Please i need honest answers.

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She  did a bad  test  anyway, The  law of  time  will settle  anything between them

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@poster one thing is for sure now the girl knows he truly loves her well I dont blame the guy sha I think she should give the guy a break and later call him when he has cooled down,

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Guy i feel u it hurts but one major Characteristic of love is dat it bears all tins and endures all tins and does not kip record of evil done 1 Corinthians 13;4 to the end. the question u should ask yourself id do u love dis gal?

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You should forgive and move forward.

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You friend was shooting off target all the while

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Forgive her ASAP.

She prolly thunk it was the first of April. . . . . .

We all make mistakes, so forgive n forget.

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You would be suprised when she has a baby by another man and lie to you that its yours i would advice you dump her at break-neck speed

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Too true. What gives you the right to 'test' anyone on his loyalty? No one is 'good' or 'bad'. It is simply a matter of limiting your exposure to the things that will make you do the wrong thing. Would she like if the guy sent Will Smith to come and toast her only to find out he was 'testing' her? Of course she would've greed b4 e talk whassup!!

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But it just seems like a lot of work, don't you think?

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she must have had a justifiable reason to test him, ahe isnt manipulateve, she's just smart,

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Hmm, I think that was a tad bit extreme. She didnt have to go that far, she could have done case senarios, asked him questions about what he would do, instead of lying, that seemed like too much work.

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To each their own. I know i won't go through such lengths to find out if he loves me or not. There are other important things in life to worry about.

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It has got nothing to do with being manipulative or immature everyone has her own personal way of proving a mans love for her this is one of the ways she chose take it or leave it the girl is wise and the guys passed the test case close

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PROVE FIRE,

A wise guy should not break his head over such, reasons being,

1. he showed that he is the responsible type.

2. the babe showed that she is pranky.

no sweat,he should carry on with the affair but he need to update his dairy/ notes on the babe for future use.

but if his ego is wounded by such prank and he feels she is not worth the stress then do what u want,,

no fire,

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wat do u wanna do to her urself

4 me maybe u shuld kill her abi because she lied to u (lol)

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i think the babe's just bored and needed something to spice up her boring life.

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Please nothing about what she did IS natural! Only immature and manipulative women will go to such lengths to find out if a man loves them or not.

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What she did in natural. This is one of the tricks girls/women uses to dictate a mans love for her[b]. He passed with A1[/b]

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She is manipulative and that's not good at all. Your friend should open his eyes well.

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this relationship is really dysfunctional. Both parties need to sort themselves out. Like i don't think it's bad that she was trying to test him, i think what's horrible is the way she did it. There are 2 things that it's never appropriate to lie about in relationships as a girl: 1.) being pregnant 2.) having an STD. This girl broke #1 and that's just not ok.

I think he has a reason to be upset. She took it too far.

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