Greetings to all,
I was in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend living back home recently dumped me.
According to her I've been too possesive, jealous and impatient for the one year we've been together.
I live in Toronto and she in Abuja so I would always call to find out how she was doing and when she sounded like she was in a car or with friends etc I would ask where she was and what was going on. She would get so annoyed. Sometimes I call at 5 or 6 in the morning(Abuja time) and she would yell at me.
Sometimes I would yell back at her. I have had one other girl not in a long distance relationship tell me this and was dumped as well. Am I really having a possessive and jealous problem with relationships?
This time I do not want to let this Abuja girl go because I'm so in love with her, so I've been calling since six days ago she dumped me for more than five times a day and lots of text messages. She does not reply any but picks my calls and talks well but when ever I try to talk about how we should carry on the relationship and that I will change, she repeats; IT IS OVER. She talks to the end of each conversation and picks up the phone even when I call ten minutes later.
Her family is behind me though, and have asked me to come over to talk things and promised everything will be OK.
I even cried on the phone twice on the following day after she'd dumped me.
One other thing is I called lots of friends and relatives to plead on my behalf as well and asked lots of questions like whether she was seeing someone else. One cousin admitted that she had been seeing one other man even before I met her and that they were still going out together but no signs about marriage even as the man is more than 35 and has a good job and the lady 26 and doing her youth service. When ever I confront her with this, she would ask me to carry on talking to the cousin saying that I trust the cousin more than herself. She denies she has been seeing someone. I have also spent lots of money on her and have shown that I am really interested and ready to marry her.
Do you think she will come back or is she gone for ever?