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My Girlfriend Starts Beeping{flashing} Her Ex,what's Next?

I have a girlfriend i loved so much. We've been dating for almost 4 years now and she's lovely. Recently, i was about listening to my voice mail and i took her phone so i could dial some numbers i read from the voice mail on it. After doing all i wanted,i started deleting the numbers i dialed. To my huge surprise i found the number of her ex on the call log and it was on dialed. I checked the details and it was a time i wasn't around at home but not too far from the house. I have told her several times without number to delete his number from her phone but I don't know she hasn't. And she had really been changing these days which i always overlook and forgive her. But this one i can't overlook because I sense there is fire on the mountain. What do I do please?

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Its not about shagging brah,gurls are very bad and tricky.Even if you are married for 50 years doesn't mean they wouldn't harm/hurt you.

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i think this is the best solution. if she insist that she was not the one that beep, she should delete the number from her fone afterall it is you she loves now

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@ All My Good Advicers

I have sat her down and asked her but what i got was a lie. She denied of been the one beeping him,she said he called her to ask about the post UME of her school and the call dropped so she beeped him to call back.

1. Was she the only one in that school he knew?

2. Why would she beep him back to call back when the call has dropped?

3. Why was i not told when i came back home before i get to know myself? Because we don't hide things for ourselves from time.

4. Why denying beeping him first?

5. Why's his number still occupying her phone?

I have suspended the relationship though.

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Thank you paddi mi. Your talk fit make person nack head for wall

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@Naturez

i don't think you have a problem with that. the solution is in your hands. confront her about the issue and ask her to delete the number. if she refuse to do it, my guy pick up that phone and delete. if she nags about your action, then know there is something fishing.

Note: before you do that write down the number somewhere because it is posible she might have cram the number in her mind and then save with with another name later. cheers!

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You have been dating her for 4 yrs you say. And you havent shag her sense comot the old guy from her mind?

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Sit her down and take her "true" words, if she has a good reason then move on but if not reasonable, then there is certainly something cooking and its best for you to move ahead!

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Why not sit her down and ask her about it. But it could be an innocent call.Could be they are just friends

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Call Joey Greco of T.V show "CHEATERS" - they'll clear all your doubts.

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@Poster,

What's wrong in confronting her instead of seeking a public answer to a private issue?

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