My girfriend talks to me with anger but can be friendly.
Is this love?
Wow! Jaybaby so you're still online!
You're the best. My girl is presently in Enugu doing her youth service. I know there are lots of internet cafes there. She doesn't just like going to a cafe and only gets there when we really need to chat. I think she is so reserved and decent. Remember she's s good christian.
Or what do you think?
Jaybaby be cool,
There is something you must know, Most men turn to love a lady more when she plays hard to get. I'm not exactly saying my baby is playing hard to get but if that's the case, then I can't imagine the kind of party I'll organise when she finally divulges the reason behind her difficult ways.
I've had girls before and dumped most of them because they were so easy going and submissive. This is a challenge for me now and I'm up to it.
What do you think?
Thanks a lot rv2ii, I will try that as well.
She can't read all your contributions here because I don't think she's registered here. She doesn't check the internet at all and I try all the time to get us to chat but she always turns me down. It's ridiculous but I will try all what you guys have adviced above.
i go write this one like letter to you.
i am also from Asaba, Ogbe Osowe to be precise,
one thing i know is that we both know how our people behave ( i mean how truthful we can be), but i just need you to PLEASE reduce your spending spree a bit and watch her reactions probably for like two weeks, give her some sad news about how money is not forth coming at the moment, (watch her reaction towards you) true love ONLY tells when you are the one in need!
i just hope she has not read this,
hmmmmmmmmm, u guys are right but sometimes its not how u think, i as i person do dat to my b-friend but not because am tired of him but just to find out somethings about him especially how his reaction will be to things like dat. But mind u i do not do dat all d time.
so my dear friend i will just advice u to tell her ur mind that u dont like d way she talks to u and not to leave her and as the other guys der in as said, take ur time to study her very well for d fact dat u said u want to marry her cos its a life contract.
wishing u d best, and b prayerful
Thanks a lot Tunmininu, I will take my time to study her.
She also turns to abandon me totally when she's buzy and when I call she quickly does ask me to call back. When I call back, she'll ask me to call back again.
I know she's doing her Youth Service and they can be very buzy sometimes but what about me who works for a big and diciplined corporation. I still find time to call her or send text messages.
One thing I like about her is that when ever I get so annoyed and don't call for a day, she calls and talks with remorse. But I'm so confused.
she may just be a temperamental person but to say the fact,when a lady shouts or talks rudely to her boyfriend,it must be that she dosen't like the company of that person but because of the benefits she is getting from that person,she wouldn't want to leave him.
I will advise u take ur time to study her,tell her u don't like she way she talks to u,maybe she will change, Who knows?
Thanks so much Abdkabir, Free and Bluenubian, You see the issue is I met this girl during December 2005 when I was home for Christmas just six days before my return to Johannesburg.
I did not sleep with her. We've been talking on phone since then and I've been sending her money. There are times when she is really friendly and loving and I've promised to marry her. She is a Christian girl and according to her she talks to me with anger sometimes because she doesn't trust men any more especially what one other ninja guy living in London did to her. It seems I'm suffering for what i did not do. When ever I stay for a day without calling or say call in the morning and no call in the evening, she becomes frightened and calls me talking so softly. I send her lots of money because she is still at varsity and no parents to take care of her finances.
Please guys help me out, I want to marry this girl by end of this year. She may not be terrible. Remember as a man I also do shout at her and make her feel angry sometimes by saying terrible things.
What do you guys think?