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My New Virgin Girlfriend: Guys What Do You Think?

I've alwz disliked virgins jst for the simple reason that they seem to alwz carry their virginity as a precious stone 'you can never find no where'!

i started dating this girl lately {she's 26 i am 28. we are both graduates and we both have good jobs}, fall in love with her and all has been going on well. then came the bomb last night, "i'm a virgin".

when i confirmed, she was. don't really know what decision is best for 'us' now.

guys, do u really feel trilled about getting married to a virgin, especially when you're not.

jst need peoples comment about it, my decisions are reserved in my mind!

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Dnt tell me ur nt happy about ur gf being a virgin..At 26,she's still keepn herself wifout compromisn....I bet u shld b grateful cos sweeties lyk her are kinda rare dis days...i guess she's gat high moral precept n knows God's mind wen it comes 2 fornication...she isnt willng 2 give it up 4 sme guy who cld change his mind eventually about d relationship....I dont even think u deserve her tho cos initially u said u disliked virgins...

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@naijachix

guy get a virgin tester sharp sharp and confirm properly whether she is a virgin,if she is,please i beg of you don't waist time.just bang her so that she can be yours forever.

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I WILL ADVICE YOU GUYS NOT TO TAKE @frank3.16 FOR GROUNTED BECOS HE HAS A POINT,

@naijachix ,person day advice u base on experience and u day do any how.

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@poster, just say u showing off your new virgin.

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@blessing. don't mind dis frank3.16

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You guys keep mentioning virgin here and there, are there still virgin in Nigeria, where can I find one, I use to think there is no virgin above 16

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hi poster (naijachix)

rily love ds topic.

wen did u start going out with ds chic? has she ever had a bf b4? (ow many). jus curious has to how she kept herself so well

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LMAO!!

Because she said so!

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@blissieng

I think u would do well to COMPLETELY ignore this frank3.16. I personally think he is not himself, uhmn u undastand now!

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dont let that to trip you cos i also have girl friend that she is also virgin she is 22 she does what her mum is not doing example want me to suck her she suck me always etc so deside what you is in your mind

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@blessing

honestly, i am yet to understand what fornication really is. is it the only sin?

well if u want to be a saint, be a saint. if u are not a saint dont go religous on me

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@Poster

How did u confirm dat she is a virgin?

Are u a doctor?

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I'm not perfect, but I try. . .

Find a dictionary, Ignorance is really not an excuse but the saying is one for lazy and irresponsible ppl. . . that's for anyone who d cap fits!

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so what then? you advising Virgin (not virginGs) to adhere to ur silly advice and disregard what God has said abt Fornication?

My friend go do ya airport work o jare, make we see road!

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are u a virging? thats just a simple question i know u wont like to answer, but the answer is probably no.

then why not. yes, why are u not a virgin.

well, let me tell u why.

because u have blood running through ur brain. because you are a human and have not chosen to turn urself into a worthless tastless woman without joy, suffering and smilling. because u have feelings as every human should, because u have flesh and cant help but yeild to its demands.

you are not a virgin because u are a human and not an animal that is controlled by instincts. u know your basic wants and work towards acheiving them.

sex is not a course, it is a blessing, it is for enjoyment and it is the essense of living. naturally anyone who has attained 18 starts have a feel and desire for it, i can understand u waiting till u get married, but this makes sense when u marry earlier, say 21, 22. but staying up to 26 and above, it shows u are a walikg corpse, u have no feeling and u are psychologically imbalance. u deprive ur self of such pleasure, then i wonder what u can deprive others from having.

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I'm sure I mentioned it. . . if she's gotten to that point, thru all dem sugar coated tongue guys, wolf in sheep clothing. . .

The will is stronger than strong, and any one that has to ask what to do should get himself checked, even worse for those that dont see the morale in this!

Thike!

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au come no one even mentioned d religious aspect of it all. @26 and still a V, dats very impressive and shows dat shes a strongwilled person. i think dats an asset and d guy shld hold her tight.

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Frank

You are so sad, and a disgrace to men. . .

The fact that you cant have doesnt mean u should start beefing anoda who is man enuff to bag one.

Virgins, are more naturally selfish(with their body) because they are not abt to give it to a sonof a B*&%^; If the chic has waited this long, beared and come thru all the temptations. . . even a fool can see why she'd want to wait until marriage.

why are guys so complicated? and hard to please?

They complain one is abstaining because they are selfish, and on the other hand they complain the lady's orifice is bucket size!

nonsense!!!

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Her being a virgin is a plus for her but their still more to a good woman. Find out if she is the kind of a woman you want to marry. Be sure she has good qualities in her. Please never MARRY any woman because she is a virgin.

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if u no chop,others will chop,

but i dey like first chop.

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i hope say,u confirm d thing very well.

i be expert 4 dat department.

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I hate virgins, they can ruin a man's life for nothing.

most virgins are stingy, selfish and have no feeling.

@mayoni (funny name)

I have sisters, and I am not interested in weather they are virgins or not, cos they are not my object of sexual affection.

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~ Straaange! That's all I can say ~

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did u read my post at all. . .

. . . ok, she has never!

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@ poster.

did u jus get into the relationship with this chic?

What about her former relationships? didnt she have sex with her ex or didnt her relationships last long?

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@poster

U lucky son of a ?$#@^&*

@frank3.16

what planet are u from? Thank God u're not my friend or guy or relation, i wud ave ,

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9ice reply 2 frank i tink he has a problem.or maybe he doesn't have a sister

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@drugdealer. confirm if u're male or female. . . then i'll let u knw how i confirmed her virginity.

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I really want to know, how did you confirm her virginity?

pleeease do share

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Kip her as wifey material but stil b shaggin others.

Afterall, man must alwayz sow his wild oats.

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Omo, u just found a wife, at 26, God will not even forgive u if u Bleep up, I had a 17yrs old girl wit her Kitty-Cat as wide as a bucket, so hold ur woman well, if u no want give me,

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Classical case of casting pearls before swine.

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@whitelexi the ''GREAT'', coming from you i would say you are probably right considering your vast expereince

In d study of women affairs. . . .

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@frank:

ur name shld hav bn f u c k 3:16

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What for God's sake is this virgin thing!!!!

Girls are made to be fu_ked.

Any girl who is a virgin is not fulfilling her roll as a woman

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@OP

You are a pathetic case, you don't even sound like a graduate, more like my vulcanizer

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Mr naijachix, i think that if you've really gone through the four walls of the university you should have known what to do with the chick before now.

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Most of the replies on here sounds very Nigerian. Because someone has a degree or is a virgin doesnt make her any better than the girl next door and thats not a good reason for him to marry her. There is more to falling in love and getting married to someone than being a graduate or being a virgin. That is so 1950's.

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@poster

please can you tell us how you comfirm that she is virgin as you said you comfirm.

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u have found a good woman in all sphere

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The problem is not actully his for now. The problem is hers. she might think she is being virtuous, but virtuousness will not come to her aid when she starts having problems in her r/ships.

@poster try and sleep with her. find out the reason why she is still a virgin at this stage.

is she naturally stingy? is she selfish? these two traits normally go with virgins.

or she could be having phobia for sex, or a diorder of no feeling for sex at all.

@poster work on her mind. dont allow her to be proud of her virgin state. Make her know that she is only harming herself and her future partner (I pray for you that you are not the one)

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so frank, wat r u advicing him

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I dont understand y people c anything special is virgins.

a 26 yr old girl and is still a virgin. wow

virginity only makes sense once she can disvirgin b4 21. this could lead to sexual disorder and there4 a tasless relationship.

my guy virgins wahala tooo much.

she is a 26yr old virgin and she is happy, i pity her. She is already sending signals to her body organs that that part of her body (her private) is usless. And the day you disvirgin her u will find out that her lack of experience might make u regrett marrying her.

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What is the problem?

Is it that you fear she will not be able to please you in the bedroom because she lacks skill?

Or are you fearful that you wont make it to marriage being faithful?

Please help me understand what exactly is the problem so that I can help you fix it.

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You didn't figure it out that you are on live with her before.

Anyway, keep her well.

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LWKM ohhh! N/landers are quick when it comes to throwing stones. . . .it's ok, but mind u, i said i'm in love with her. as for the playboy thing. . .na u sabi!

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Mr Naijachix abi na wetin them dey call you.

I just dey laugh at you. I wonder who you be self. You got a virgin girl and you are still complaining?, what's wronged with you?. Am even wondering what you would be doing after the marriage, because I just felt you might be cheating on the innocent girl.

You seems to be a playboy. Anyway if you don't want the virgin girl just give her to me please am in need of them and I cherish them a lots.

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