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My Sister Had My Boyfriend's Baby. Forgive Her? Not?

I had what I thought was a lovely relationship with a man I met while in college. He's intelligent, creative, made me laugh alot and he was a very loving person. Always there for me and my family, nothing was too hard for him to do for my family. They all loved him.

To get to the point and to cut the story short. My sister had a boyfriend, they were having problems, they were together for almost 4 years when she found out she was "finally pregnant". When she found out, they started to have some serious problems, to the point they broke up. At that time, we (the family) didnt know what was the real problem as neither of them spoke about it, they just argued then she said they'd had enough and he left.

We were very supportive of her and the unborn child. My boyfriend would "fit in" now as the person to take her around. I sometimes even call him for her to take her places, and as usual, he never refuse, unless he's really tied up. He and my sister started to get so close, but ofcourse not, I wouldnt think anything of it, as she was hurting and he was a caring person, so I thought lightly of their closeness.

When the baby was born, the resemblance was splitting image of my boyfriend, quite interesting I said to myself, looking at the baby in the hospital. I didnt say a word, but obviously everyone in my family including him noticed what I noticed. My mother was the first to break the silence like a week after, she said it was a bother to her.

Surprizinly, both of them admitted to the affair they'd been having, and it was the reason for her and her boyfriend to break up, as her boyfriend found out and left her.

To this day, I havent said a word to the man I as with, it was never the right time to talk about it. I didnt want to hear, it was instant breakup. Going 5 yrs now. I grew very aprart from my family, didnt go there for a full year after the birth of the baby as it was too painfuly to look at the child and remember. He's innocent, and I dont want to hate him. As for my sister, I havent spoken to her as yet either and cant find it in me to forgive her.

Should I put it behind me and forgive my sister. Would you?

No question about the man, he's long history he's not even remembered. I've gotten over him ages.

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Justwise was i talkn 2 u, d poster undastands jor.

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omg! this is what i see on Jerry springer show.

@poster your bf is a home breaker. he just wanted to destroy your home, pls don't let him, just 4give your sis

moreover, he should marry her cos he can't come into somebody's home destroy it and go scout free

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if you could get over your man, him being ages. you can also refuse not to repay you sister and the innocent kid. you can do. i just trust you on this. yes, it will definitely affect the trust you have for your sister but that does not mean you should just pull away from the family. just pretend nothing happened but mind your trust.

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girlfriend you have to forgive your sis cos she's your blood any time any day ok

but the boyfriend dump him and look for someone who apprieciates you my dear ok ?

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SORRY for what happened,i dont understand how someone can forgive that kind of betrayal.There are boundaries u dont cross,this is definitely one of them,a sibling that can sleep with ur partner can also kill u,please stay away from her.

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IyaBasira has said it all. Nothing to add.

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Forgive the pair and move on with your life, actually its about time you realize that these two have done you a huge favour in that you are not the one with child by a man that cant be trusted and has to rely on your mother to care for the child. Now that he is gone you have now been given an opportunity to find the right person for yourself. Even in our misfortune we can find a bit of benefit.

Dont brand all men the same because of your experiences if you carry on like this you will seize to live as you willl forever be standing in your own way, and unable to move past yesterday.

The world is your playground now forgive and play but always remember your grace, that's the rule of the game.

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what doest this story have to do with S E X before marriage?!

are you "attempting" to say that if they were married (and virgins b4) it wouldnt have happened?!

pls, stop making a fool out of yourself and just keep quiet if you have nothing to say.

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Uh, life, so full of twists and so unpredictable.

Anger is such a comsuming emotion, I hate it. What I normally do is let my heart take its own time to heal then I become indifferent in what caused the anger in the first place, I say you don't have to talk to your sister (many would disagree with me) but when the time is right, forgive her from your heart, for your own good so you can move on with life, we can't change the past but can definitely influence how we feel today. Your own sister should not have done that to you if she really cared about your relationship with her so I understand how it is difficult for you to forgive her.

Forgive from your heart even if you never speak to your sister again, let anger go girl!

Good luck!

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Carolece, I can understand what u're into and how u feel.

If I shd tell u my stories u'll leave urs and be thankful to God. A man got me pregnant and abandoned me with my lovely son for 2yrs + now. It neva ended there I was called names, my dear lots of things took place but am thankful to God that am alive with my baby.

My pastor says "forgive in advance" even when the person has found it not deem to say am sorry. I sent my son's father text "dat in as much as God forgive me for sleeping with him outside wedlock, 'VE FORGIVEN HIM". Pls forgive ur sister and listen to her, blood is thicker than water.

Permit me to ask u a question - what about if u were married to him and it now took place? Thank your God u weren't married to him. 've seen it happen dat a sister had a baby and now brought d younger one to cater for the baby only for the hubby to get the sis. pregnant.

FORGIVE UR SISTER AND DAT MAN. 3 YRS IS ENOUGH your sis. has gone thru. torment and has seen her deed.

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I can say i had a similar experience bt not to the extent o dating my sis fiance, all i just want to say is that LET GO though it might not be easy 4 u to 4get but 4give ask ur sister for the cause of what she did i'm very sure that she'll have her reason 4 doing such. 4get about the man but think of that blood that bound ur sister & u 2geda, i believe u would av move on since then the God that has been taking care of u till has a purpose. Just think about this if u die WHAT WILL U TELL GOD, since He said that we should 4give our offenders 70 *7 in a day definitely He knows that we our stubborn & we have every tendecy of hurting ourselves to the bone marrow. SO dear Let Go pleaaaaaaaaasee take the baby as ur own the baby is innocent. Heal the bleeding & wounded heart

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Is possible you allowed the man to eat your BANANA and also Ate your own sister BANANA with distinction. Keep your virginity and all these kind of disappointment will not tend to bother you. I hope the baby whether he/she will not learn to be a cheat.

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Hi carolece,

With what has happened, i guess you must really be hurting inside this 5 years no matter how you try to make your self happy. I'm baffled that you said you prayed a lot. Please, note what the scriptures says that" forgive so that your prayers might not be hindered". Pray that God will change your heart and really help you to forgive. If i share my life story with you, i should be a person that shoudl not even forgive God himself but all the same over time am i happy person now and i've forgiven all.

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^^^Start from somewhere

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you can only forgive those who ask to be forgiven though i am a firm beliver that adultry like some others is inexcusable

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Forgive and move on, when you are happy God will bring a man that will love and worship you and you will forever remain grateful to God that you never ended with him cos he was not worth it.

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@Carolece

I do sympathize with your situation as it is one of the most painful moments one can live through: to be betrayed by two people you perhaps love most dearly! I am sure you went through a lot of pains and the fact that you posted this topic means that you are still hurting even though the incident happens long ago.

However, I must draw your attention to a few truths about life.

1. When you hate, the person that suffers most is yourself. You do a lot of harm to yourself when you hate.

2. When you do not or cannot trust, then betrayal will always trail you. The fact that you had a 'nasty' father as you claim, does not mean all men are like that. Putting all men on the same level as your father is wrong!

3. Every child, no matter the circumstances surrounding its birth, is a blessing from the Lord. It is an opportunity for all who are related to the child or who will have anything to do with the child during its life time, to learn certain lessons which the opportunity of relating with that child alone can bring. For you, it is possible that you are meant to imbibe the spirit of forgiveness and understanding from the whole experience. Until you do this, you will not be able to draw the necessary benefit from the experience.

4. It takes two to tangle, so blame both parties to the incident. However you should search within yourself if the opportunity for the betrayal was not inadvertently proffered by you. In addition, parents attract children through their qualities: good or bad and since you painted a very gory picture of your father's escapades, it is not far-fetched to imagine that your sister may have been attracted by your father through the homogeneity. In which case you should have been more careful.

5. It is also not fair that you have abandoned your mother because of the child she is helping to raise.

One thing I must draw your attention to is the fact that bottling this up is not the way to deal with it. Wallowing in self pity which is what you are doing right now, is not the way to handle the issue. That you could keep malice for upwards of three (3) years because of this incidence, also goes to show that you also have traits in you that are not noble. Unknown to you, the unhappiness which now surrounds you, is not restricted to your person alone, but must spread around your vicinity and every person you come across whom you thus deprive of the opportunity to freely express happiness towards you or with you, add to your burden! You can then imagine how much the weight you bear must be. No doubt you must constantly feel weighed down.

Again, you seem to be taking the easy way out by turning your back on your entire family and on men generally. You said men have to prove to you that they can be good! I will say that is rather presumptuous of you! Men do not have to prove anything to you but you have to open yourself to be able to trust and thereby attract a man that will be good to you.

You have no trust in you and that is very pathetic because human beings cannot live without trust. When you are betrayed, learn from the experience and move on! [b][b]How can you waste over three years of your life, hating and hurting and basking in unforgiveness! Life is too precious and short to spend that way. It means you have little or no appreciation for the opportunity of this earthlife. Life on earth has a definite purpose which I can tell you is not furthered by hating and not forgiving. In addition, you place little value to your happiness and life in general if you can hate for so long. You said you pray, what do you pray for? It will be difficult for your prayers to rise because the weight you carry in your soul will accompany the prayers![/b][/b]

You may not like what I am saying here but I will rather tell you the truth and live you to deal with it. [size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt][size=8pt]No matter how hurt you have been, you have no right to debase your life for so long. You are not being grateful to the Lord who gave you life! Contrary to what you may think, the greatest gratitude or appreciation you can show to the Lord for His gift of life, is supreme happiness through joyful living. Where you cannot achieve it, something is not right![/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size][/size]

Look within your soul, forgive your sister and former boyfriend. Get in touch with them so that the process of healing your wounded soul can begin.

Goodluck and warm regards.

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Na wa oh! I no fit talk.please my dear forgive her so that a better man will come your way .just try, it hard but you can do it.believe me another man ,even better will come. This is really the end time. so what i watch is true? Na wa ohooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.

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I used to be very depressed when I had in mind and thought of all those that hurt me, from the day i decided to let go, things changed. I don't care whether they want me to forgive them or not.

I'm even trying to ask forgiveness from those I've hurt.

So, FORGIVE though you might not forget. It would liberate your heart.

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Just a little more addition, the pregnancy brought the whole thing to your close knit. What if there was no pregnancy or issue to bring their sharp sexual act into the limelight and you got married to the same guy, only for you to discover their long time hidden practices after you have had like two issues for him(your boyfriend). So, you need to be thankful to God for exposing them in time before it was too late for you. Am sure you will not kill either of them if you discover their practices after like three issues. SO, MOVE ON WITH LIFE,

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Permit me to say here that you have experienced one of the bitter side of life and you need to swallow the bitter pill in other to move on with life. It's quite pathetic and intriguing.

Whether the guy was a pig or sister was a Dam is immaterial, that is the mathematics of God that we humans cant understand to the fullest. PLACE NO TRUST ON ANYMAN BUT GOD. You may think the guy was a LovePeddler, how are you sure your sister did not start the moves by seducing the guy. The knife cuts the hand and you throw away/destroy the knife. Has the knife not done the cut?. The question now is how you move on with life. Thank God it happened SOMETIMES IN THE PAST, you need to move on with life. Follow the Biblical injunction you profess to belief and thread path of forgiveness. With your whole mind, hearth, body and soul, FORGIVE THEM ALL, everyone that was involved including the guy. This is not easy to do but you can make it happen if you really want to. And that is the only way with which you can move forward and achieve more. This will mean a whole lot of maturity in in disply. You need not questioning the guy nor your sister so that you dont reopen the healed wound. See it as if it never happened so that you can be happy yourself. Like you said earlier, the little boy is innocent. Take it or you leave it, the reality is now dawn on you now to show the innocent boy some love. Who knows what God has in stock for you through the boy in the nearest future.

You also need to open your mind towards embracing progress in life by not living in the past, pardon me to say that the so called Pastors/Imam even do the worse if God should open your eyes to see the kind of things they do in their closet. All guys are not same. Embrace new relationship and always belief that NO ONE CAN BE TRUSTED EXCEPT GOD and dont use the experience of the past to relate or judge the new guy but SHINE YOUR EYES. Wishing you the best in life, you deserve the very best of life, IF YOU CLOSE YOUR EYES FOR A BAD PERSON TO PASS , YOU WONT KNOW WHEN A GOOD ONE WILL PASS YOU BY, so open your mind, embrace new things. Am sure they are all regretting their unwholesome practice.

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PEOPLE, Carolece hates men with a passion, you can clearly see that from most of her post (she is not afraid to say it either). she has been psychologically bruised by men all her life and only intense therapy can make her change her views.

as i told her a few days ago, even if the greatest guy on earth was professing his love to her, she wouldnt get it thanks to her hatred for the male population.

this episode is just another reason for her to hate all men folks.

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na wa oh, this life is beautiful but everything keeps falling apart,,,,,,,,,,,,,,my sister take heart, IN EVERY SITUATION GOD IS SAYING SUMTHING

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Cadolece,

Iyabasira's advice is one way to start healing the pain and moving on.

It is said that with prayers, all things get resolved.

But prayers still filled with hate gets no one where but is compounded with more hate.

You can continue saying NO I DO NOT WANT TO DO THIS OR DO THAT, OR HEAR THIS OR THAT, OR SEE THIS OR THAT about the whole thing but one day you must resolve this on your own term.

Start the healing today, yes one step at a time, having to have everyone explain what happened will not change what is there (the baby) and will always be there when you do go visit after all has been resolved.

Wether they went behind you, where, when and how it happened will only make you re-live all that went on in the past.

Am no psychologist and can't imagine the pain you are going through but one thing I pray is that you someday find a way to get over the pain and heal properly.

Not all men are dogs or that bad, yes we are no saint and hopefully you find that good man that you so desire, one that will help heal the pain felt from having to live with the things your father/uncle put you all through, coupled with your experiences and the experiences of most women out there that find themselves in relationships with some bad men.

But there is a small percentage of women who have good experiences with men and relationships that may want to dissagree with you on men and am sure there are some good men out there that can also have enough bad experiences to tell you about relationships with some bad women.

I pray in some way you heal quickly so that you can go on and live a wonderful withrewarding life.

Iyabasira-I hail you OOO!!!

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@ poster, i know it is hard to do what i am about to tell you but that will  be the only antidote to this issue.

Going by the way your story sounded, you are locked yourself up in the world of BITTERNESS AND PAINS, HATRED AND ANGUISH

My advice is this; WHY GET YOU CALL YOUR SISTER OR VISIT YOUR HOUSE, CONFRONT HER WITH THE ISSUE, ASK HER WHY AND WHAT MADE HER TO DO SUCH THING. It will cause tears because of the pain stocked in your heart over the years against her then receive the baby and get him some baby's item, love the baby by doing this you are healing/ relieving  yourself of the long stored pain.

Secondly get yourself reorientated about the events of life. You have been a victim of your environment, home and otherwise.

You cant continue this way.

THIS WHOLE SITUATION, IF YOU DON'T RESOLVE IT YOU WILL AGE FASTER THAN YOU THINK AND KNOW.

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ayahr sorry. just  take heart jare and ur sister's a hoe.

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i forgot to add,

ur sister did what she did intentionally.

she was envious of u and wanted to snatch ur bf.

she knew when she wld likely take-in and she targeted ur guy that period.

i hope ur guy did not eventually marry her.

She remains ur sister, but she will remain a stranger to u.

Time heals, time surely heals. With time u'll feel less pain abt it.

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i have goose bumps reading the poster's story.

It is really and very painful one.

Poster take heart. May God heal ur heart.

to me, the sister's crime is worse than the bf's.

Be determined to forgive both of them and pray constantly for

God to help u forgive. It is usually not easy forgiving someone

that has briused ur heart to that extent.

As for forgeting, it is only for the bitterness not to rush back to ur mind, when u

remember the incidence in future. Not that it will be erased from ur memory.

I feel ur pain and i can assure u that God can bring a man in ur life that can make

u laugh over the past.

Sure, most men are cheats, they don't worth all the troubles women go thru

for then, But there are still some good men out there, few and difficult to see.

May God help u indeed.

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I'll do exactly wat you did, dont no when i could 4give dem jor!!

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I agree with flgators on the first page,some pple r saying forgive n forget like they would if it happened to them,let's forget and leave pretence,I'm not tryingto make matters worst but i don't think I will have the heart to forgiv such a person ,If forgiveness happens, it will be later,don't force yourself to forgive when you are not ready to, such a sister can kill

let's face reality here,forget abt blood thicker than water and all them balderdash, it Is difficult to forgive n forget not when that inocent child is there to remind you of the past

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I beleive your sister is wrong and you are wrong too, you should not judge her, likewise not to judge yourself, to air is human and to forgive is devine, never to jugde anyman or anywoman, if God can justify a killer, mudered an adulterous man then who are we not to forgive ourself.

I belt with you, check around you, your life is stagnant in a way, if you pray to God and can grudges in your heart, then your prayer is going nowhere, no matter how much tithe you pay or how much dedicated you are to God, but all i will say to you is to loosen up, free your mind from the past, you can not change the past, the past might hurt you so much but you have to let go, free yourself and your sister from these bondage and the baby father too, then you will see the great door that will be open unto you.

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Forgive her if this story is real. She is still your flesh and blood and as for that nigga, the decision is urs, But trust me nothing good will come out of the guy for you anymore, I advice you let him go and u gotta move on with your life.

If it's a true story and I hope not that Nigga Chimp "Timaya's kind of"

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She shouldn't havedone that , that is no go area. But the did have been done forgive her.

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Wow, what a wicked sister, and I pray you shall overcome this situation.

Here's my advice: Try your best to forgive her, because forgiveness is not for the other person, it is for you! It is for you to heal and grow to be a better person. Forgive her, and make peace with the situation. However, this does not mean you have to become best friends and close sisters again, because I, personally, can never trust such a wicked person in my life ever again; I'm just saying you should make peace with the situation. If it were me, I would have a conversation with her, telling her that I forgive her for what she did, but we can never have the same relationship. It's definitly gonna be hard, but you deserve to have GOOD people around you, who have your best interests at heart, and I'm sorry but your sister has proved otherwise. Pray for healing and direction, remove all hate from your heart, and live your life the best you can with no regrets. I definitly don't regret cutting some people off, I just don't need negativity in my life.

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What a pity?Do you love yourself, do you love life,would you want to get married?if the answers are yes, MOVE ON.How are you sure that that guy would ve married you.Why are you giving yourself double punishment for what you didn't cause?call you sister and reconcile with her[i know it is painful],let her carry on with the guy while you pray to God that your husband comes.you and the man were not destined to marry.now let me ask you,If the guy had died or dies would you remain a monk?Enjoy life jare, life is sweeter without that man.the guy likes you but loves your sister.go get your self a loving man.Are you UGLY?Don't you have good manners or is it education you don't have, Then why bothering and enslaving yourself.cheer up there are so many men that will love you and only you for your characters if they are good enough to command that.may God help you.

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sorry about what happened to you but how do people know who a new born baby resembles ?

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Find a place in your heart to forgive your sister

to err is human and to forgive is devine

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So sorry about your case,

but don't really know who is worst

men or women

Women are men's worst enemies: they can make any right-thinking man lame

too bad.

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wow, that  your sister is a very wicked person because she shld have told you  about it even immediately she knew she was pregnant for your bf. well you have to forgie her so as to move on in life. okay?

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@ poster,

Im sorry to hear about your situation. It must be hard and painful. A guy has betrayed me before but your case involves a sibling and I can only imagine how much more painful your situation is.

As hard/impossible as it may seem the key to true freedom and happiness is forgiveness. It took me a long time to sincerely forgive my ex (till today I have not truely got over it but im on the way)

Ask God to give you the heart to forgive because there are some things in life that we cannot do on our own.

You cannot avoid your mum, sister and nephew for the rest of your life.

Like someone said, answer your sister and ask her why?

The way of dealing with a problem is from the root.

Take heart sister, and remember there are still good men in the world - though few, but they are out there!

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horrible story, wicked sister!

but pls dear try 2 forgive her. if afta 5 yrs , u r still dis bitter, mayb u shld try going 4 counselling.

forgive her 4 d sake ur own peace

dat might help u let go and let God

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FORGIIIIIIIIVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!! It's not her fault that she's more sexy than u're.

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Poor Baby! The cord of family binds stronger than momentary sexual attraction dear, do the noble thing and forgive and you mustn't lose another minute away from your family. Do make up with everybody because if any of them passes away (I don't pray for that dear) you will hurt more and regret not spending time with them.

Ask others it happens, when you lose a family member, you will wish you gave them more time and attention. Enjoy them while you all are here.

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Hmm very terrible story, what your sister and brother did was very bad but not the worst thing in life.

I have been there and had issues with my family even up to this day but one of the greatest thing i have learned is to always look ahead of me.

I ask you one questions, What has been your gain for this five years you have been a way from your family or what are the profit of your actions. Trust me by the time you forgive in the future and look back to the past, you will realize why it is important to forgive, move on why learning from the past.

Humans are not perfect and because you are morally upright doesn't mean your sister should as well. I have been betrayed by my elder sister who i trusted so much but i forgived her and moved on. I looked back and realized that action was the best and better than distancing myself from her.

I really don't want to say much because i am better talking than writing but i tell you the truth, the best thing you can do is to forgive and re-unite with your family. Your sister is not perfect and you have to live with her the way she is just like she is living with you as you are a prefect human being. Your actions has destroyed your relationship with your family which shouldn't be, God forgives us our sins so why shouldn't we forgive?

Even God wants us to forgive murder at the end of the day how much more a mere fornication and betrayal issue, so please here it from me. Forgive and reconcile with your family.

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Utterly Brilliant! Smartest thing i've seen here.

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This is one of the most horrible stories of betrayal I've ever heard. It still hurts you. And the sister continued playing the sister and chatting with you and all that, while she was having an affair with your BF? The woman can kill. What kind of sister is that? Anyone does that to me, we're done for life. Imagine the pain of that kind of betrayal. Has she even made an effort to seek your forgiveness in five years? It doesn't sound like it. Forgive? It's so easy to say these things when you're not the person concerned. Good heavens. But the rest of your family did not sanction the affair and did not hurt you, so you shouldn't punish them for what your horrible sister did. You should reduce the distance between you and other family members. You'll have mixed feelings about your nephew, naturally, but it'll work itself out. You're so together. Forgive the be-atch when you forgive her. When that forgiveness comes naturally, and isn't forced or calculated. There's no rush a beg.

Believe me, all men aren't who.res! Far from it. There are good men out there. But don't rush into a romantic relationship. Anyone you date should be your good friend first. Men make excellent friends, once they get over the nuisance stage of thinking they can get into your pants. They can't help it. Once they've lost all hope they drop the masks and pretences and are themselves, and are really cool things.Life is short. Your sister and ex-BF do not get to deprive you of love, and then deprive you of other people you can love who are worthy of that love. They don't get to do that to you. Some men murder their wives. Does that mean all men murder their wives? Your BF betrayed you horribly. But he is not the blueprint for all men, and there are good men, worthy of you, out there. I'm so sorry for what happened. Just move close to your other family members and live your life to the fullest. When time has fully healed the wound, perhaps the monster gets to be your sister again, and perhaps she doesn't. She's long lost the privilege.

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Sweetheart,it's a pity u had 2 go thru dat.deep witin u,u kno d ans 2 ur questn bt too bitter 2 embrace it.  no 1 on dis forum wil tel u ordawise.d bitter trut is dat u v 2 4give ur sis & d guy weda dey askd 4 it or not.it's 4 ur own peace so u cn face lyf again. true 4givnes hurts,i ve bin der bt it's a necesity. dnt 4get, blood is thicker dan water n 2 err is human bt 2 4giv is divine.ur sis n d "cracked foundation" guy dosnt wort ur hatred. so love, pls let go and let God. i pray He wil giv u d grace 2 do d rit tin. Peace.

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There is nothing new under the sun. Remember that "to err is human and to forgive is devine". Forgive your sister and your boyfriend and do not hate the child. Get close back to your family. Sopposing this happened after your marriage to that your boyfriend, what would you have done? All, this might have happened for a purpose.

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