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Naija Guys Vs Naija Babes: Who Is Holding Back?

Deep inside us, their exist love, but often times we hold back for fear of not being reciprocated or due to lack of trust. Who is guilty of this dwindling trust?

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If men make up their mind as easily as you presume, I don't think unmarried ladies would be roaming the streets of Nigeria more than ever today. By the way I don't see any reason not to analyse situations especially when it comes to relationship. Why should I choose any body to tangle myself with in the name of "having a boyfriend"? We question situations because the last thing we want is to fall into the hands of bastards. I do.

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to me sha,naija gals are nice. but they just like to put up a little fence,find the gate and easily enter their hearts

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Are u saying u didn't front for the French dude u dated years ago?

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Maybe if naija guys werent so untrustworthy, the girls wouldnt "form" so much

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Is it about TRUST or women's inability to make decisions?

Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts.

Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life.

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Lol the topic is about trust, I wonder how shakara came into the picture.

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Fireworks!!!!!!

Don't bust a gut. Their major excuse is: she wants you to cherish her more.

What is there to cherish in a woman that keeps u in ice for 1 month?

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@debo,

those girls wey they front for u are correct babe.

They know and can smell that u is a "FAKE"

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. . .depends on the individuals involved.

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I second that Uche

they will front, and believe they must play hard to get to show they are not 'cheap', arrant nonsense.

guys have their wahala too , but they go all out in chasing the women more often than not, while the woman is trying not to show that she is 'gbaduning' the guy's moves because of this same 'cheap' thing. They have completely mixed up expressing yourself with having self respect/values. But I guess its caused in part by those silly naija men who believe shakara + yanga is a sign that she is 'valuable'. My conclusion? Both naija men and women have serious ISSUES.

I personally detest all this shakara nonsense, the worst part is that some deluded women think all men enjoy it.

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Of course, Naija gurls.

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