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Naija Men What Do You Think Of African American Women?

Would you consider most African American women for short term dating only, or long term dating, and would you ever marry one?

What challenges do you think a Naija man would face being in a relationship with an African American woman?

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They know what they want and don't believe in long thing.

The good ones are very ambitious and will support you till they drop.

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Please support your agruement with facts.

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First off Naija brothers, do not consider African American woman, Think about it. You can hook up with a african american woman, who straightens her hair, bleaches her skin, wears blue contact lenses, all trying to look as white as possible. OR You can just hook up with the real thing (white woman). White women like black men here. Another thing, Black women in U.S. . want some nice strong good looking black African brother, with money to take care of them and their children from other men. But they only offer you a wiggly jello butt and a vampire mentality. White women treat you good, I know for a fact.

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i suggest u concentrate on ur marriage,don't think everythin is fine.

A fool is wise in his own eyes.

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lol twinie we been AAs b4 wow i never knew

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African American women. I find many of them attractive. Don't think I would want to settle with one unless I find a rare exception

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dont mind him. . . . his user name says it all.

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you have absolutely no case to rest. what you said was pointless. you just talk about something YOU BELIEVE, not facts.

before comparing these two nations you have to look back at the society and view how this same society thinks. if a woman is willing to be beaten and abused JUST BECAUSE HER PASTOR TELL HER THAT ITS OK then i am better off staying in a place with "seemingly" higher divorce rate. also to have statistics about divorce, you first have to have real marriages, not the kind that is done in some villages where nobody can verify how many are REALLY divorcing or not.

also , you seem to think that divorce is something bad?! should a person stay with someone if that relationship is not going the way they want? should a person suffer just for the sake of their spouse? does you bible tell you that divorce is a sin? i dont see the point in your reply.

if that was about MURDER, which is a crime then i would understand your grief but divorce?!  believe me i would rather have high rate of divorce compare to high rate of JUJU, WITCHCRAFT and RITUALS to get a man!!!!!

but i guess, TO EACH THEIR OWN.

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Is this JYHO or do you have facts to back up your claims. Or perhaps an intelligent argument?

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D Americans r more likely 2 divorce,cheat and nag.in other words d rate is higher compare 2 africa.

i love it when i said d african americans take good care of themselves.it's a good thing.i find it sexy, and anythin dat look sexy will get noticed.

They r more open and not shy 2 express their feelings(POSITIVE).

i rest my case.

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re-read what I said.

All but are the key words.

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you will have to be between the bed and the sheet to catch the nigeria woman at it.  when people say nigerian men cheat ( most  of whom i hold no breif for) my question is are they cheating with ghanaians or cameroonians?  work your maths. from secondary school level to the working class they are almost all at it. dare i say shamelessly at it for that matter.

i wish we had cheap access to DNA testing facilities in that country

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none of this can be proven, its all down to individuals, and if you only meet this type of women then choose better!!!

1) more likely to cheat?! are you out of your mind?! see how women in 9ja value money before love?! get real

2) all down to individual and society. since some people in 9ja see divorce as the big D word they prefer to stick to the abuse and humiliation than to divorce. is it better?! who are you to say that divorcing is worse than taking the poo some do just to keep the "face of happiness" i say , if it doesnt work FOR YOU, divorce!!!!

3) ALL WOMEN IN THE WORLD NAG, its part of their genetic code, science determined that women say in average 7000 words per day while men only 2000. educate yourself.

4) who want to be with a woman who DOESNT take good care of her appearance? only an insecure man that would want his bride to look ugly, fearing that if she was beautiful, she would be chatted by other men and likely cheat!!!! grow up.

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1. more likely to cheat than Nigerian women (maybe), this really cant be determined for fact because women are far more cleaver when cheating then men, esp. Nigerian men who feel it is thier birth right to cheat and therefore dont hide it.  But Nigerian woman are all but taken in the street and stoned to dealth if caught cheating so alot of it is underground.  IMHO

2. This is true.  We are less likely to put up with some of the things our Nigerian sistas have to deal with.  Living in America affords us the resourses to walk away if it is not heathly for us.

3. this is a general complaint about all women from men.

4. I agree.

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ah!!! ok my bad, the way you phrase it, it looked like you were blaming the AA for the traits he mentionned in the Nigerian society.

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you quoted me, so you better read what I SAID.

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but of course (yeah right!!!!!!!)

stop trying to put the blame on others for your own problems and face reality!!!!

whats next?! blaming the person who invented the internet for the reason nigerians are doing 419?!

get real!!!! people make their own choices in life, good or bad and THEY have to be blamed, NO OTHERS!!!!

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you mean YOUR truth?!

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ha!ha!ha!God knows i always speak d truth

1.They r mostly likely 2 cheat

2.mostly likely 2 divorce

3.nag 2 much

4.they take good care of themselves

i'll continue later,

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I will definitely marry one if she's good.

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am not put off by skin colour or tribe,

just the character.

if u got a good xter, whereever u from i dont care.

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Definitely, alot of African American women are gr8, i know some, including my sis-inlaw ,i will marry one anyday anytime, hope i catch one soon , ahaha

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YES, i would consider dating an african american woman as much as i would consider a french white women or a Japanese one. unfortunately i dont have a particular group of women that i date over others so it all depends on the feeling we get when we meet each other. i dont judge people beforehands, i have some criterias in which i get more attracted to some women over others but they are all within.

as for the challenges, they are NO different than dating any other women in this world, its all in your head. if you act like a fool, people will treat you like one.

there are good apples and bad apples in all nationalities, races, countries and SEX.

just make sure you get with the good ones.

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