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No Interest In Boyfriend At 19: Is It Possible?

just wanted to ask a couple of things, Is it possible that at the age of 19,you still havn't met anyone u can say you see in a romantic light, as in you want to have a relationship with? not that i havnt met some very good guys, am i just deceiving myself?, just never seen them in that light.plus if they're in my class and my age, the whole thing just seems weird, i'm just very good friends with them, how can u know u really genuinely like/love someone?(please no butterflies in my belly descriptions, i don't get that), generally when my good male friends start wanting more, they start to irritate me and then i give them space? is that normal?, and how do u turn someone down nicely? someone very good? i hate being the heartbreaker, its not fun at all and i don't lead people on, i need answers to all these and related things.please no harsh words or criticisms, i get enough of that, any contributions would greatly help, thanks in advance

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thanks so much u guys, ibkaye, jek_kad, mesmerize, HR.hotness, gamine, nana, guess i'm not so weird afterall,

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Abeg write book so that all those silly young girls can read, learn and avoid people breaking their heart. Thank God for mature women.

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U're very normal dear. U aint got no problem.

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It is So Normal!!!

Abeg dont lose sleep on this issue

Live your Life girlfriend!!!

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its true because its obvious u havent fallen in love yet

but as for your friends,if u aint interested in them tell them politely that u guys can be just friends and nothing more,don't be rude

But if they decide to back out of the friendship then u let them be,.because d last thing any body will do is date out of pity . sympathy,or date because u don't want to loose whoever it is

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lawwd!

Some people have met someone, some others have not. . while some just dnt care.

We're all not the same, we may not have same feelings and emotional response at same stage.

So dnt worry

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