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Old Memories In A New Relationship-does It Help?

Is there any need discussing your last relationship with your new girl or guy ?

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So very true, I know my lover is hiding something, and it will come out one day. but I'm preparing myself for it cause i do love him.

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hi pejubaby and iice ,you guys are right,to be honest,its not easy - cos you might just be caught up in a relationship that might last for a life time(marriage).your partner might just be really hurt to find out that you had a hidden past that never came out till after marriage-trust me i have seen it happen

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pejubaby, when you reply, scroll down and look on the right hand side of your screen, you will see 'insert quote' just beside the post of the person. . .to make it easier for you

Nwayz, sometimes somethings are meant to be discussed. Especially if you are still around your ex/exes. . .makes your current partner understand you more and it could help with your present relationship

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Hmmmmm

Some relationships arent that deep. . .old memories sometimes don't come into play. No one asks, no tales told.

Some people cannot handle somethings. If he/she is the jealous, paranoid, over-possessed type, erhhhh that can trigger somethings. . .what am saying, best be knowing the person so as to know what to reveal and when to reveal.

i dont think it should be discussed at all.

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Hmmmmm

Some relationships arent that deep. . .old memories sometimes don't come into play. No one asks, no tales told.

Some people cannot handle somethings. If he/she is the jealous, paranoid, over-possessed type, erhhhh that can trigger somethings. . .what am saying, best be knowing the person so as to know what to reveal and when to reveal.

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In my honest opinion I would say not at all.

nosillA xx

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hi iice ,can yu pls explain better

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Depends on the relationship and the people involved

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Yes, talk about it, it makes your partner understand you better. You don't have to go about insulting your ex or bad mouthing the person, just the basics, like y you broke up, things you loved and things you couldn't stand. This will help your new partner understand what you really love and what you can't stand.

Enjoy!

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Yes you should, somethings need to be talked about.

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Nosilla why? well to me i think its ok ,if there is a basic understanding between two people

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