ONE MISTAKE ALMOST ALL MEN MAKE WITH WOMEN, AND
WHAT TO DO ABOUT IT,
There is one critical mistake that almost all
men make with the women that they're REALLY
This particular mistake is at the root of so
many different problems that men run into, that
the topic probably deserves a book to be written
about it alone.
That mistake is allowing yourself to become
OVERLY EMOTIONAL around a woman at the wrong time
and screwing up the great situation that you have,
by revealing the fact that you're out of control.
When most of us guys see an attractive woman
that we'd like to meet, we FREAK OUT, become very
nervous, and literally become IMMOBILIZED.
This is a case of not being able to control
When most of us guys have the phone in hand,
and we're getting ready to call a girl to ask her
out, we FREAK OUT, and again, we become so nervous
that we're IMMOBILIZED.
This is another case of not being able to
control your emotions.
When most of us guys think that it might be
time to KISS a girl, we FREAK OUT.
When a woman won't call back, we get upset.
When a woman tests us by challenging something
we say, we become nervous and unsure.
The point I'm making here is that if you allow
yourself to become TOO emotional in situations
with women, it will screw you up. Guaranteed.
It's happened to all of us many times, and it's
a UNIVERSAL experience.
Remember, when it comes to ATTRACTION, all of
the "normal" rules change.
You have to stop thinking about what you've
learned about being a "nice guy" and realize
that a woman's ATTRACTION isn't triggered by you
So I have TWO good reasons why you need to
learn how to control your emotions around women:
1) If your emotions take control early on, you
probably won't even be able to talk to her, call
her, or ask her out. You'll just be too freaked
out to even make your first move.
2) Women aren't ATTRACTED to guys who let their
emotions control them all the time. This is
ESPECIALLY true when the guy acts like a WUSSY.