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Playboys Are Better Men Than Others?

So much has been said and done against playboys. But it is time to do them some justice. Despite all the dissings meted out to them, there is something playboys possess which other men do not have, and that is that they make the best husbands and lovers. They are patient with women, romantic, are caring, and can always be there for their women. And most of all, they respect their partners. For the wife, it is love at all times, while they merely give the physical stuff to the other women. In fact, at the end of the day, the average playboy comes out to be a better man.

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Let me get this right - A playboy is a better MAN than a non-playboy!!

The thread starter has issues - Those boys agreeing that have sisters - KPELE!! I hope you recommend a playboy for them!!

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playboys are better like you say but will always be "away" Players

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SO U ARE NOW TELLING THE GALS TO START

LOOKING FOR THE PLAYBOYS TO SETTLE DOWN

WITH, OKAY GALS PLS THE CHOICE IS URS,

A PLAYBOY WILL ALWAYS BE A PLAYER

ANYTIME ANYWHERE,

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@Seun and Gridlock, i can see that two of u are DULLARDS not the lady in question.

I mean making them POT BELLIED like pregant woman, but nothing acutally is inside their bellies.

Get this, and its real, we are in black africa and there are black powers, so the priest did not swindel her rather did her bidding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@ myPeace,

Am I yours?

Still me

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Tell them ooooo

There is also this story, It happend to my Friend. She was desperately looking for a husband, and you know guys, when they know that you have approached ur 30s, they will come with marriage as No 1.

It happened that this '' played my friend to the extent that she lost all her belongings to this guys (Material and Cash) at the end the guy ran away.

He was so wicked that he even asked her to rent out the house she was staying since they wont stay there again after their wedding (notwithstanding that the period he was doing all these thing, he lived with her) and she did. When the guy ran away, my frnd had no place to live, no work and no money to feed.

Because of the fustration, she traveled home, and took the guy's name to OKIJA SHRINE and instructed the priest to IMPREGENANT ALL THE MALE IN THE GUYS FAMILY. The Priest did this. Though She has not heard or seen the guy till date, so no one knows whether the Okija Shrine something worked on them or not.

So Playas shd be careful, not every woman has the spirit of forgiveness!!

I STILL MAINTAIN THAT ALL MEN ARE NOT PLAYERS - AT LEAST MINE IS AN EXAMPLE!

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Even OBJ has said it that the conversion of saul to paul to damascus is a bible thing, e nor dey happen again. Guy man na guy. Who marry play boy should be willing to have a playhusband.

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I am deeply saddened by the way a lot of men think nowadays. The reason is that they often forget that there are consequences that follow every action. Let me tell you the story of a particular man; he was a big time player and he played wwith as many chicks as he could woo. Some of them got pregnant and he accepted responsibilty for all those in such a situation (He was proud that he had a couple of kids that would look after him in his old age). Many years later, this man's children abandoned him and he was struck with Alzheimer's disease. Now he is in pretty bad shape with no one to help him.

The truth is this: many of us are short sighted and often ignore the realities of life by saying we're just having a good time. What if you end up like the man in the story? What if you die in an accident while returning from one of your escapades? What if you get an STD? What if you get shot by a jealous boyfriend?

READ MY TEXT: Players are not better than other men because they sooner or later end up regretting their actions (On earth or in Hell)

Trust me, being a player doesn't pay. So guys, take it easy, 'cause there's more to life than banging.

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Every man has a playa-tendency written over his brain. Its just that UNFORTUNATELY, the right gal comes around and blows his mind and then he stays with her maybe forever. What do u regard men that flirt during marriage? Dem are plays, my dear. Take that 2 heart.

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That you are a player doesnot make all MEN players!

I am a woman and i can say categorically that all MEN ARE NOT PLAYERS.

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All men are playboys believe it or not

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Osegwu,

i still do not buy your idea. If you are talking of a guy who has been pretending to be a nice boy, or whose envrionemnt doesnt allow to do certain things, i will buy ur idea a little, but someone who is NATURALY MORALLY GOOD or someone with good upbringing, then forget ur argument.

Playboys are always playboys and will graduate to DIRTY OLD MEN!

Understand that they get addicted to sex, and an addiction is hard to let go, unless by SPECIAL intervention which is 1 in every 100.

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My peace,

i think i have fallen in love your thinking. But my sentiment is that

those PB"s have tendencies to change and moreover there are

more heinous crimes and evil committed by Nice guys who are

not playboys. At least it is better to marry a repentant play boy who know

the trade than a virgin nice guy who don't know Jack from robinson about women,

love and sex. what a jack. please, treat her like a lady, ever heart of it?

that is the different between playboys and nice guys

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God forbid some kin things wey we dey write.

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@naija4life

my brother tell them oooo!!!

@Osegwu

I quite understand you, but the ratio is 1:100.

Players are forever players.

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next thing now will be that ashewo is better than responsible married women cos they know how to fcukk better, abeg make i hear jo!

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do u tnk u acn luv ur spouse other children as your own?////////////////////////////////////////////////

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But you know that there are also a couple of some of your good guys who had turned out to be bad guys?

That is it, every body is subject to change even arm robbers. Most times their strenghts exceed that of the good guys and  you all know this. if there are no good stuff in them why should ladies troop around them?

Still me

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@Osewgu

its one in hundred pls. playboys are always playboys, do u stop using left hand in old age?

@topic

Play boys only if us have a heart to be BROKEN!!

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Gemini, I very much disagree with you. I am neither  a play

boy or a nice guy but i have seen a couple of playboys

turning out to be good guys while the nice ones turning out sad ones.

It is a matter of willingness to change and determination to change.

no man is a dead casanova and as such can easily be stopped just like

smoking. Playboyship is a weakness just like any other. They also have their

strenght.

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I'd trip over a bad boy and have fun with him but theres no way in a million years am i going to marry him.

When it comes to marriage, its a different ball game.

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Its true dat gals trip ova bad boys because they got better luk and act nicer and more matured, y cant d good guys appear thus as well.

And concerning the issue of gettin married to a player,som players learn to drop the hussle and settle down wit one partner but dats just an exception and not d rule.

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what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

any man no matter how ugly or deformed , with good income will always have girls no matter how few after him.

a man that relies on women to feel good is an empty vessel, they only massage your ego. that means you do not feel like a whole man inside you.

if you think your wife should put up with it because you are nice and caring, you should also put up with an adulterous wife because she is good in bed and cooks well despite the fact that she is doing your neighbors.

get real , no one appreciates disloyalty,put yourself in the other person's shoes.

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I would call myself a repressed playboy - i have the tendencies. I am nice by nature, but sometimes i think i overdo it - the girls almost always end up wanting to do stuff with me when they find out i am "adventurous", belied by the cool, calm, introverted exterior. One girl was tripped when i said i wouldnt mind if my wife wanted to go clubbing even after we got married.

But i go out of my way to avoid postions, situations and circumstances that would make me err. On more than one occassion i have heard a girl mention things like "You always say the right words" or "I love hanging out with you" or "I wish i had known you before i met my boyfriend", And all this during those dreaded periods of separation from my fiancee - Internship, NYSC, Long holidays etc. Maybe my upbringing helps in restraining myself; i know that deep down, I have the tendency to "like" a girl for a while and then, months later i dont even remember their names.

I'm glad i met a girl who matches me in mode of thinking, value systems, [sexual orientation], intelligence and desires. We cn be as "naughty" as we want. If i had chosent to BE a player too, i wd probably have met her, had a fling, forgotten about her. . .

Being a playboy is not something that "oh, i just can't help it", its your choice. And it stays with you forever. Have you ever heard the term "dirty old man"? What do you think that kind of guy was when he was younger?

Better men as in sensual, material terms, yes. But dont ever hang you future on a playboy - you will end up and emotional wreck cos you'll share him with every other girl that catches his fancy.

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Real bad ones r beta at d end of d day but d ones who were just copying their friends are no beta than "immature, irritating and , God knows what else, at d end of d day.

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@nico - U can't preach wt u dnt practise

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Playboys are vain little pricks

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Correct!!!!

BIG, MOTHAF$CKIN LIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dont be fooled, ladies. Once a playa always a playa. This is just a daft fantasy that women who want it ALL invent for themselves,  and if the playa is skilful enough, she may even grow old and die in her ignorance.

it is simple- marry a man that is desirable to women AND YOU SHALL SHARE HIM WITH OTHERS

the only difference is if u find out or not.

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Wow!! did i just See all that Up there?!?!!? thats like Saying the exact Opposite Of a playboy duh!

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retired playa's make a beta home.

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Why?

Because he won't be a WUSSY. He won't be

CLINGY. He won't be ANNOYING. He won't act

INSECURE all the time.

When he does find an exceptional woman and he

chooses to "settle down" and have a deep,

authentic relationship with a special girl, he'll

be the kind of guy that every woman alive wants to

be with.

He'll know the game well enough to STAY

INTERESTING, and he'll also know the game well

enough to NOT HAVE TO PLAY IT if he doesn't need

to.

Trust me, this is all a good thing.

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@ Excellen

r u trying to justify yourself.

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@darkmanzero I beg tell them jare, the facts are glaring for all those who have eyes to see and ear to hear. Common logic says Nice guys are better but the ladies who make the choice don't think logically but with their heart and hence prefer the bad boys. I have had situations where two babes jam in my house and instead of bursting me they try to edge out each other. Can you beat that?

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cool man but most naija babes are hypocrites am sorry to say. They would never reveal their true wants/desires/nature in public. Anyway I ain't trying to convince you on anything or form any opinion all I am doing is presenting the facts in our society.

A babe I was toasting many years ago when I was still learning the ropes busted my side for another guy who was a ladies man, she knew about his activities and just didn't give a damn. She told me she didn't intend to change him but feels he knows how to threat a babe better.  Interestingly the guy had plenty of babes and never tried to hide them from each other yet they all struggle to win his affection and unseat the others. Crazy isn't it? Beats all logic.

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@calabarman

Well, most of the ladies on this thread reason with me. Start from the beginning of the thread and read the ladies'

comments and you will see. Any way, GOODLUCK to you with your opinion.

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@GNature u and I cannot determine who is a better man, its left for the babes to decide by popular opinnion. Haven't you noticed how babes trip over bad boys in school while the bobo nice are ignored? To most babes a bad boy is a better man. U and I may agree that the bobo nice would be more faithful and sincere to the relationship but most girls just want the bad boy. Not everything is based on logic my broda

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hmm but come to think of it the original playboy (Hugh Hefner) is still rocking his life and babes are queuing up to enter the playboy mansion and hoping to marry him. Watch "Girls of the playboy mansion" on entertainment TV every Saturday night.

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@ excellency,i cannot condemn you cos of what you believe in but becareful how you discuss this issue in developing countries like nigeria, i am sure some people must have given you black eye if they know where you are, dont you know the consequenses of being a playboy, we disagree with you.bye

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playboys better men than others? wat is wrong with u pple? playin with fire and aids!

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i dont agree completely that playboys make better homes, d only logic is that he has done everything possible with a woman and so hes tired and decided 2 settle down, its very risky also being a playboy, cuzz u cant always eat your cake and have it,

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The truth is that most of the play out their lives

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Hmm interesting you are rignt in the fact that playboys know how to threat a lady, eventually most playboys get tired of playing the field and want to settle down into a stable relationship and grow old with someone they like and care about. They may occassionally stray out but return back to the nest and with time the zeal for adventure would completely die down, afterall what else is there to explore.

Personally I believe people should explore their sexuallity, do all the crazy things they are comfortable with before settling down and getting married. Mind you it shouldn't be about the number of partners but the quality of each relationship. There is a lot to learn from each and every relationship which would make one a better person.

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Now a PB when with another woman is only with her bodily, but his wife, he is there spirit, soul and body.

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They are, specially when they want to get down settle

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Anyone worth his salt would not think of contracting STDs now. Where have all the CDs in the world gone, that he could not use while having a good time?

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U right, the only thing is that they are never committed to a woman, and that is a very comfortable position.

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