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Playing 'Hard-To-Get'. Guys, What Do You Think?

How 'hard-to-get' should a girl play? Especially when she knows that she will eventually hit it off with the guy. A friend of mine met a guy two weeks before he was supposed to travel back to the U.S, and within a week,they were already going out.Other friends of ours were really pissed with her cos they felt she portrayed herself as being cheap and desperate.

She explained that he had most qualities she wanted in a guy,and that the guy in question wanted to know his position before travelling back to the U.S,so that he wouldnt need to hook up with any other girl.

So, guys, what do you think?

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Have you noticed that after all the 'hard-to-get' bravado, there lies the 'easy-to-get'.

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Not too bad. what's about yourself ? well, you know your way to

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Hey Deji, my YIM is not working at the moment. Hope you are well.

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@Ebonyeyes. Got my yahoo offline message. didn't you ?

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I won't cal it playing hard 2 get,i just take some time to find out somethings about the guy,if am cool & satisfied wit wat i find out,i just go for it.

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Hope your guy is not the unforgiving type? Some men will take their revenge at the slightest opportunity later, and he's going to justify it to himself.

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if i really like a guy,i will not play hard to get,and i will not be cheap to get. i will just be my normal self.

@poster,

ur friend was not cheap.she got what she wanted.

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@post

the guy was supposedly leaving soon and she said he showed her all the qualities that she requires in a man so why wait or play hard to get?! playing hard to get is in no way making the value of a women go higher, it just make the guy want you more (please understand the difference!)

its also safe to say that women shouldnt just jump in bed with any guy that they meets (not all at least) but there is a fine balance that has to be respected. . . . . depending on how F I N E this babe is and how much this guy is willing to go through to get her .

the problem that some women dont understand is that if you aint got nothing to back this "hard to get" acting then as soon as the guy has had a piece of you then he will look for som' better.

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Good for you. you can still learn to get a life.

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I played hard to get with my boyfriend.As at the time he started showing interest in me,I was dating someone else amd I never minced words in telling him,I was more like rubbing it in. After I broke up with my ex,I still gave him more tough time,though I softened up bit.

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@hotchyk,did u ever play hard to get to ur

guy?

well its not bad playing hard to get,even we guys

smtimes do same,its all abt ur personality and intergrity,

u dont just put it off so cheap.

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'enters the zanga' oooops!

Thanks,dude

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@post,

It is ok for a gurl to play hard-to-get,it makes us guys appreciate her beta.But den,taking it to d extreme will mean her losing out as d guy might decide to 'step' or if he's patient,she becomes a challenge.And beliv me,being a challenge means being dumped after he 'enters d zanga'.

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