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[poll] Would You Prefer to Marry a Virgin?

For the Men:

You are 'in love' with two girls and they both would like to marry you. One of them is a virgin and has sworn not to have sex with anybody before marriage, including you. The other has done it with previous boyfriend(s) and is happy to do it with you. In all other respects, the two girls are exactly alike. Which one would you [I]marry[/I]?

For the Women:

Two realy close male friends are proposing marriage to you. They are exactly alike except that one of them doesn't believe in premarital sex and would not 'do it' with you until you're married. The other one has done it with other girl(s) and is ready to do it with you if you'll allow it. Which marriage proposal would you accept?

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Deep inside ur hearts, u all wish to marry virgins, they are a joy and desire for a man or woman. The problem is u think every one is sexed up like u so virgins are boring. They bring a whole new adventure to the bed and u look forward to trying different flavours each night for a long time. The one night stands and seasonal seasonal relationships is a mirragge. Its not ideal, not real and never will be. Ladies close ur legs, men draw up ur pants if u wear any and allow virgins to be. Those who know their true value are glad they are. Virgins are here with us and not in heaven.

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dont worry kelly. u wont.

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me,marry a virgin? nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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to me i wont mind to marry a non virgin but if i do marry a virgin no problem either although i prefer te former. i did a research although imight be wrong wat causes problems in most marriages is lack of good sex. and wenthe man taste something better outside or the woman taste something hotter the marriage tend to hit the rocks

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I will marry whoeva as far as he is the right person for me.

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J girl, Kellorah,luvly, why don't you guys partake in the poll?

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Goodguy come catch me if you can. You want to shoot me for saying my opinion. I said I dated one before and God forbids I should marry a virgin guy. Come shoot me. Cuz I will say it again and again and again.

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i dont think i will like 2 marry a virgin guy.your sex life will be boring

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no virgin guy for me either!!

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Hell no. Dated one before. Bad experience.

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I won't want to marry a virgin but definitely not a man-LovePeddler. I want a guy who has had very very few girls, if possible the girls who are worse at sex than i am. That will make me feel better

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I'd prefer the virgin, cos the'd keep me from sex till we're married! otherwise, i should date both othe them first to decide!

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Frankly speaking, virgin girls are better compare to those that have been having the experience. I must say that for a girl to have keep herself and still be virgin at this global age worth all the treasure in the world. if you are one, i bet you will make the best marriage.

well to me I prefer the virgin girl but I will love to know may it she is saying the truth because girls can be so deceitive.

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Thank heavens virginity is not a state of the mind. if it was no one here would be one, would they?

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call me cynical but i'm 22, i plan to marry wen i'm 29 or 30.the rate at which society is going, i don't believe there wud be any virgins left or at least not enuf to go round. so u make do with wot u have.personally, virgins are a no no bt i dont want to marry any1 who has had a long string of 'acquaintances'.

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It is coming to shait!!!

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@ dayopaul,

Your story no be fiction o! it's actually that way for a lot of ladies.

I even know one of a girl who was engaged to be married, and according to her culture ( she's yoruba) she has to take in before marriage. Her guy had another babe who got pregnant before she did. Of course! the bobo (guy) dumped her like hot yam, meanwhile he disvirgined her. Now even if this lady keeps herself till she eventually gets married, she'd still be seen as loose and easy.

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hmmmm! this seems  to be a very heated topic. Somehow this is all so amusing to me. It's quite easy for us to air our opinions and say this and that, but believe me when push comes to shove, the tables are turned.

Yes a lot of guys wish to marry virgins thinking this makes her morally upright, to an extent yes, but let's ask ourselves a question. Is she still a virgin because she chose not to taste of the forbidden fruit, or is it because she never got the opportunity? And who says a lady who's lost hers did because she's morally loose?

Some ladies were either Molested or abused, and because of the stigma attached, silently carryon their lives in shame and regret.

Sisters let's be true to ourselves, even as virgins , we secretly wish to be married to studs. And, oh yes! a stud certainly ain't no virgin.

Brothers why are we so hypocritical. What is good for the goose is good for the gander. You certainly ain't no virgin, so why the heck are you passing judgement

on those of us wey our eye don open tear reach back (have worldly experiences).

Am not saying being a virgin is bad, by all means it's the best thing a girl could ever do for herself, but hey! it's not gonna guarantee you a happy marriage unless you marry a guy who's truly a virgin himself. Let's be true to ourselves: boys will always be boys----sex matters. Otherwise why would a guy who marries a virgin still want to f**k his secretary? For guys It's more of an ego thing''I married a virgin''.

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nosakhare , u want to know the remedy for compatibilty , ? The word compatility is simple enough to be understood .

it mean round peg in a round hole .

Let me tell u a little story . this story is not made up it actuall happened to a female friend of mind . She has been dating a guy for like 3 years . the guy disvirgined her and she actually remain faithful to him all tru . but early last year they quarelled so they were apart for like 5 months . on the fifth month she met another guy . she started off with this new guy as just friends and this guy actually just wanted to be her friend no strings attached . but one thing lead to another and they ended up having sex . Do u know that this my female friend told me she never had heavenly feeling with the first guy for 3 years they have been going out but with this new guy it comes almost every time they are together . she said she will never ever go back to the first guy and that she has falling so much in love with the new guy and they have even started planning for marriage.

Now with this i think u understand what sexual compatility means .

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sbucareer thanks . I am still waiting for anyone in the house that can takle my points with good reasons

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hi dayo paul, well i get what u r saying , but can u please give me your remedy to what u call sexual campatibilty, thx

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dayopaul, well said!!! I back your argument

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the truth actually must be told . It is good to be a virgin cos that makes u clean and obeying God but sexual compatibility is one thing no one can ever put aside for no reason . Human beings differ sexually . Have heard of what is call Libido (sexual drive) . Ladies and gentle men in the house it differs from men to men , women to women . there is no way a man with high drive ( naturally ) will ever have a good marriage with a woman with low drive and vice versa .

it is very very foolish for any one not to admit this . This thing we are talking about is natural and there is nothing anyone can do about . it is just like a woman that desires a tall man for marriage and now taken to marry a shot man while she being blind folded . and after the marriage she says i will do all what i can to make him tall .

Tell me , people in the house it that ever possible .

I am not saying being a virgin in not good but it take a completely blind person to say sexual compatibilty is not an important issue .

Do u know the number of married women that cry night and day cos their husband cant satisfy them .

Please i need someone in the house to disagree with all what i said with good points . lets see how it goes

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@nosakhare

I am disappointed in u too, i cry for you too.  U want me to jump from a table if i see a  gold digging biiatch who comes around me blabibing bullshit. If u wish U can do a surmersult if u  hear such bullshit story.

Did they tell u in your village that your opinion must be mine? I must jump up and follow u to de shout virgins are angels. Oya i don shout. U don happy? clap 4 yourself. My guy go siddon. 

Virgins are Angels my Nyash.

( just by the side---

my wife will NOT be a virgin)

Oya pull your gun.

Besides i gave that link so others can see it. GIRLS THAT ARE NO LONGER VIRGINS CAN NOW GET IT BACK. ITS OBVIOUS U DID NOT LOOK UP THE LINK.

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aww, am an Angel, yea, u'all heard me correctly

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At times i wonder y guyz would put themselves through all that stress. I think the word Virgin should be erased or redefined cos some people seem so confused now.

I used to imagine that the word virgin meant more than a partially penetrated hole, but it seems like that it what it means today.

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I saw this link and would like u guyz to take a look.

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/13547996/

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no way would i set out to marry a virgin! if the lady i fell for happened to be one and that was her choice i would respect it.

but i think my feelings on the subject maybe similar to Big Shishi , sex it so important to me i do not kine if i could risk marrying a virgin that then decides she A) does not like sex, B) is not willing to do the things i like, C) feels some how that sex is dirty or D) has little or no sex drive. any of these thing would put so much pressure on the marriage ,so i think it is better to know in advance what you are getting into.

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sorry no virgin for me, heck if i get a virgin, i have him go test his tuff out first, dont want no rookie near this stuff

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As some Jamaicans would say they are not buying any puss in any bag meaning they are not going to marry any man or woman without having sex with them first, atleast to know if the man or woman can satisfy them sexually. I guess most of them wants to know if the parts is to their liking if you know what i mean.

For me it doesn't really matter as long as they have the qualities that i look for in a guy.

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this is old skool topic, , who cares about virgin or no virgin these days, , or do u, ?

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Just because someone is a virgin does not mean they are HIV, AIDS, or some other STD free.

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I would prefer a virgin as a guy cos she is gonna be so holy for me and talkin as a guy that's how i want my baby girl to be and not a disflowered who is not yet married and had it at an early stay.virgins are the bomb just as i am lol. Catch ya try replyin

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would u rather marry/ date someone dat is a virgin or not a virgin?. Explain ur reason n why?

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Yes, definitely, ofcourse, I want to marry a Virgin.

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i will never marry a virgin cos i will not enjoy funs,

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@4play, datz hilarious, virigin nigerian ke, yea rite

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Men who wish to marry virgins are out of luck,because Mother Teresa has already died.The only place you can find a virgin these days are on logos of Richard Branson's companies,so you can try Virgin Nigeria.

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do you know what? i kinda consiedring to get married to a virgin. I'll be the teacher, he'll be the pupil. i think thats absolutely hot!

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its people like you that should be excluded from the society. your like bad advertisement. what the person is saying is true "your shooting your own foot" so be quite. dont say any more.

a woman looses her dignity when she opens her legs. everything is planned for a reason. u dont need experience to marry someone some day. they only experience u need is spiritual experience. if u gain that, you dont need anything else. if you dont know that, you will be in a complete darkeness, chaos. sage. take a rest.

if your saying that men just look for sex in a woman, then what the hell am i doing on this planet? i should just use my hands.

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I guess it should have thought 95% of the world that.

My Boy do what u want. People have individual choices based on what is suited for them ok. Stop trying to tout your idea.

Anyway can i even figure out a reason for debating this? Itz ur life joooooooooooo

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Well,i tink my girl frend is a virgin.But if at d end of the day i find out she is not,i will still marry her, We hav neva had sex before.Cos am in lagos while she is in Jos.She makes me believe she is not seeing any other guy.

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cut the crap ok?

we all know that virgins are the best people to get married to, first of all you can trust them not to carry any , HIV, AIDS and THE REST,

You get?

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Those are some wise words from a wise man!

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The years will teach what the days never knew.

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My digression was just to show u the importance of sex in human history cos u were trying to down play the importance all in a bid to look 4 answers to ur view.

Feel free to express ur views ok but what u like might not be what i like. I grew up in the midst of virgins and i have my reasons 4 not wanting one. Dont ask cos i wont tell. Its just that people talk a whole load of immaginary 'noble' things but i personally dont feel that way about them ok.

One sure way a lady can make sure i break off from her is 4 her to come around me blabing droppings. I am not waiting 7 yrs 4 anything. I will still be forking the same lady 4 50 to 60 yrs even though il be tired of that same old stuff. I guess marital loyalty would call 4 that. so il get tired anyway. we r gonna start now cos we will still get tired. Besides we are going to enjoy the good while it lasts. Dont give me that droppings about heavenly and magical nights. I dont buy it. It might excite u but it dont cut meat 4 me.

More digression yes but,

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or are u the one doing that?

Labelled marriage or anyother relationship in any form, the primary purpose men have wanted women is to fork them. If that were removed, trust me hardly any man would want to laden himself with a womans problems. All this getting to know someone is bull crap, and a whole load of it at that. Men are mainly physical.

But anyway i stated my whole hearted opinion, state urs. Dont think urs is better. Everybody has his own reasons

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[quote="Sage"]PEOPLE HAVE BEEN KILLED 4 IT. NATIONS HAVE FOUGHT OVER IT. KINGDOMS HAVE COME TO AN END OVER IT. MIGHTY MEN HAVE FALLEN BECAUSE OF IT. IT IS THE PRIME REASON MEN WANT WOMEN, WITHOUT IT I DONT THINK ANY MAN WOULD WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH A WOMANS TROUBLES, PRESIDENTS HAVE FALLEN INTO TRAPS BECAUSE OF IT, MEN CHEAT AND MARRY MANY WOMEN BECAUSE OF IT.[/quote]

Isn't it funny how you shoot yourself at the foot.

read your post again and you will discover that inherently you know the truth but dont want to see it.

After you do that, go and check the history of those battles/wars that were caused by this new found GOD of men called SEX, and you will find out that they happened because someone of some group of people wanted to have the "act" illegally(pre-marital/extra-marital).

That should give you a deep insight on what i am saying

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