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Pray Tell: How Does A Man Spot A Wife Material?

I saw the movie Notorious about a year ago and the reason as to why Notorious BIG chose to marry Faith Evans over Lil Kim still eludes me. He seemed to be having fun with Lil Kim, even encouraging her career and personal growth, and then he sets eyes on Faith, and that was it!

Bringing the issue close to home, a male colleague told me he was looking for a wife as he wanted to break up with his girlfriend, lets call her Bella. Bella is beautiful and vivacious, and they seemed at least on the surface to be perfect for each other.

My question is, what qualities can men spot from miles apart that makes them see one woman as potential wife and the other merely as girlfriend? and even if they cant spot it from miles apart, what is it that a man sees, that makes him decide that he wants a woman to be by his side for the rest of his life??

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and then ends up unmarried, childless, wrinkled and still dependent on others for a livlihood, wat could be worse?

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lol then its a case of damned if you do damned if you dont, no happy ending

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ah googles ur back, how far? been missin ur witty replies(such as the one above). what a depressing wife that would make

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easy

A church-going, skirt-wearing,plain-faced woman with wat looks like a fertile body not forgetting the virginity part

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Looks like you are not going to marry anytime soon. You want a lady who has all these sterling qualities? Please tell us:

Are you strikingly handsome?

Do you have an IQ of above 250?

Do you have a mind-blowing sense of humour?

Do you have a classy taste in fashion?

And do you possess all the other gentleman's qualities?

Remember: To whom much is given, much is expected!

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It is a great task.But there are simple things to know the right lady.But these rules depends opn your status.

1. Never show the lady that you are well to do if you belong to that class.Allow her to accept you for who you are and not for what you have.

2. Watch her interest.Is she interested in a meaningful relationship or just an adventure.

3. Does she speaks the truth even when it hurts you?

4. How does she raltes with people around you,especially your family members.Is she warm with them or cold?

5.Does she have the fear of God? This should reflect in the content of her words.Wether you like or not you need a godly wife.

6. Does she inspire you? Is she an men courager or a discourager? Does she critice your plans negatively or constructively.

7. Does she respects you enough? This is very important .If you marry a lady who does not respect you,you will regret marrying her.

To get more information just email me at loveaflames75@yahoo.com

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Different strokes for different folks.

I'd empty my account to marry a drop dead gorgeous adventurous chic with an IQ of above 180, a mind blowing sense of humor and a classy taste in fashion any day any time!

It shouldn't take me more than 10 minutes to identify one.

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Ur instincts will tell u, and u have to pray about it too.

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