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Re; Why Should I Get Married?

What security is there for men in marriage?

If I cheat on my wife, she gets half my poo.

If she cheats on me, she still gets half my poo.

Why the Bleep should i get married?

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You can do that if you want. I will find me a woman that loves me more. If you can easily leave me over a paper, then divorce in the long run would be an easier task for you to shred.

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I'm asking you to show me you love. Not signing that piece of paper is enough to convict you of gold digging.

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How true is that? You are not choosing . . . you are protecting your assets. There's nothing wrong with a little insurance, is there?

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@Okija

I feel deeply for 4.No doubt the fundamental and values of marriage have been eaten deep by the monster of divorce.This is caused by the fast and negatively impacting effects of civilization and poverty.Why would a woman want to marry just to part with a 50% of her "huzzys" whatever and mortgage the life of her children to unhappiness and bitterness.

I think you really have to get the fundamentals right,we are Africans and we ve our marriage values.Once u build a marriage on the right foundation,it ll sure last ur lifetime.I ve seen more marriages work in my life time that i ve seen them fail.get the basics right and u ll live in paradise on earth.

marriage is fun!

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I dont know why people tend to have unrealistic view on marriage. Evrything that dude says is true, but I think that human nature always wants to defy odds. I believe that if most folks would replicate the same risks of marriage into other ventures, they would be far more successful. Imagine buying a house and you are told that you have 50% chance of making it your own or losing it. Chances of a marriage surving is 50-50. Would you get in bus where 50% of the passengers are bound to die. From statistics marriage is more riskier than most human adventures, yet its human to find missing ribs

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Well acid water and Okija, well im tired of all this jive. Hopefully i have shed some light into what a pre nupt really means. It is not just a piece of paper, it defines your relationship. It becomes the core and the foundation.

Kachifoo

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@okija

You really wouldn't want to meet me. i would change world from upside down.

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Okija,

this does not mean I'm in favor of the prenup thing.

am just too tired to argue.

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exactly like anti prenup makes sense

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Ok, do your thang girly.

Night nite

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bia! oyinye,

cut him some slack! Okija that is.

He sounds more worthier than any other man so far

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Wow! That'swow!

Goodluck sha! You both deserve it, but I think she deserve the happiness more than you.

So precious!

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Beyonce Nko?? Mariah Carey, Jenifer Lopez, Shakira, Jessica Alba, Kimora, abeg leave matter my brother. I go sign the pre-nupt, even thumb-print to show authenticity.

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Nne calm down.

I cant compare her to any other girl. I know her, lived with her, been through alot with her, I trust her, I love her, we basically worked for everything I have now. Shes different.

I am more or less comfortable now. So lets say we dont get married, I dont have another 7years of courtship to put into another relationship, the next candidate will not have the same opportuinity she had to endear and prove herself to me. SO hence the pre-nupt.

The pre-nupt is going to help speed up the process of trust building, cut courtship by over 50% and fast track our marriage.

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Okija,

no make me e-slap you oh.

I don't like the part answering my questions.

I specifically asked you why you want prenup. Do you not trust her?

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You're indeed a man.

So if you're willing to give her more than half of your stuff, why do you still want a prenup?

She deos not deserve the prenup, as you were trying to say.

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we do have health insurance by the way

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Okija,

please do tell us her reaction!

Any man that comes with that prenup sh*t will get punch where it hurts the most.

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awww, how sweet.

But you did not answer the second part of my question

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@ Ruby

I am comitted but not yet married. When or if we do get married, it will be in the states since we are both citizens.

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@Okija

are you married?

Does this prenup thing work in Nigeria? seen as they don't have health insurance etc.

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HCH,

I'm always crying for you baby.

What say you quickly jump over the bridge and show me thy loff. oniranu

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i dont understand hch , hope its not because of those snide lil comments in f'word thread?

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@Okija

don't tell me you fear my question.

ANSWER QUESTION KIA KIA

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See as pesin dey teach lil boy respect. he wan abuse her.

Ok, I go close my face, just as you've been doing for a while. It's only fair for you.

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ruby how did it taste ?

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@HCH

close your mouth when you yawn

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@Okija

Don't you know that prenuptial is another way of telling your partner you don't trust her?

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Boy, I think it's best you get off the thread.

Some peeps don't want it locked, ya know.

@HCH,

so you stand as my confirmation.

Men can be sh*t sometimes.

simple na.

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so hch and ruby couple of the year, i'm hoping hch did not fuckin poo in ya bleeped up mouth as he promised

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Quit what? Me thinks you're thinking too much. Go and relax,boy!

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i told you to quit. keep wondering why your words weigh as much as nothing to me.

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The truth is that both parties do not want to get hurt, everybody hopes for the best in marriage, everybody hopes for a good and true partner, nobody ever prays for divorce, but we both know we cant control the future, the law is there, if we ever gat a divorce, you can sue for half of my poo (alimony and child support not included). All we are looking for is a little insurance, something to fall back on if poo should ever hit the fan.

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HCH, which one is ya own?

shut it, young man!

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Nne, You are have also shown the interest in the other parts of marriage that does not have to do with love. You are more interested in securing your interest should the marriage go wrong. If you really love me,, then a simple pre-nupt should not be an issue.

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anywaz, could you alteast shed the light on both side of marriage institution? or is your light too dim?

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Sweetheart please refrain from using cuss words as we are only trying to shed more light on the complications involved in the institution of marriage.

We have looked, the distance is pretty long, its a long way down if we should fall, as wise men, we are only taking pre-cautions.

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Like i said look before you leap!

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Okija,

Is that your answer to the thread.

You have failed once again.

olodo, like men are not the same way

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Women!!

Just imagine sitting your Bottom in a court room seeing the woman who once told you she would stick with you till the very end scheming with her team of lawyers to fleece you of all you toiled for your entire life, Imagine seeing the woman you placed your trust in smiling as you move your stuff into a U-haul truck and leave all your stuff behind, Imagine your friends laughing at you when you move from crib in berverly hills to a shanty in the projects, imagine going from a Rolls Royce to a Renault, Imagine the pain of loosing both your love and your wealth all to the same person, Imagine the regret and psychological trauma of being fooled by the woman you thought was the one.

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so wat wld ur kids think when they discover that their mom cld leave at any time knowin she's goin away with half their assets imagine dats shyt

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You are just a kid dudu. Why not try trusting your wife. Marriage is not about material. That is what a pre nupt is.

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Most married guys I know are working their asses off to pay bills, rarely to get to spend time with their families, mediocre or no sex life, and have wives that spend as much of their money as absolutely possible.

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What do i know about the institution of marriage?? MORE THAN YOU APPARENTLY!

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OUR future.  The prenuptial agreement also includes her security . It's being done for the both of us.

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