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Rejection: Guys How Do You Feel?

guys, have u ever fallen in love at first sight and on approaching the girl, the girl snubs you. it happened to me a lot of times in nigeria. i usually felt bad, rejected, dejected and not in the mood for another girl. and unfortunately, i take it out on the next girl who may actually love me and thus miss an opportunity for a real relationship.

result: up till today, i have yet to experience real love in a real relationship.

how did it get to this.

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I only woo a girl for the first time, and she responded well, the second day we met, she agreed straight away, and am still dating her since 3 years and 7 months now, so I dont know the taste of refusal from girls, since i have my girl i have no time experimenting refusal from any other girl. when u have a girl friend I dont think there's anything that can tempt u to be getting snubbed from other girls, unless you are a flirter.

But since you keep trying, don't shy away from snubbing, keep trying.

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jesus man u didn't have to be so graphic with the poo thing,

Hey tosh. There's no such thing as "love at first sight". It's a myth. You cannot love someone you do not know. You can dig though. . . like: DIG-- but not love.

Girls don't believe in it either. They can Dig you and think "you hot" but they won't love you just like that.

So get it in you head right now. You don't go drooling all over a chick that doesn't know you. She'll think you're either a stalker, and , or a cute guy with serious issues. Take note.

to answer ur question, I never toasted a girl so I never got rejected.

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Can't remember who said this

EVERY poo GET IM OWN FLY

for my people in the diaspora, that means, no matter how unusual your faeces is, there must be a particular kind of fly (housefly) that adores and feasts on it.

conclusion, guys must be rejected, a guy who has never endured rejection has never toasted, treat toasting as a game, you win some you lose some, no matter how horrible you are, there must be a fly somewhere wey go adore your poo, how can you find out if you don't throw the poo around?

keep on toasting, savor rejection, your fly is on the way

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oh, i'm impressed beyonce. please extend my greetings to jay z

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great. nice to meet you beyonce. so where do you live?

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ahaa, then hurry to my end or wherever you may want us to meet.

my numbers is----

are u serious? or you just joking?

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haha, hey i'm in the uk and u are in the states ,

how do we manage?

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lol

soulpatrol,

i did not reject u. lol. okay, i have agreed. let's tangle and tango. uh la la la, ,

patrol my soul gently, it is too soft and sensitive

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hmmmn, lucky u. but no matter the approach you use, the fact remains that you must meet the girl and talk to her. yea, i know sometimes it's just this hard to get stuff, or may be the girl is in a bad mood, etc, but the fact is that the dude has been snubbed.

sometimes it hurts. i know it doesn't hurt some dudes. but others are sensitive and it hurts them

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it all depends on approach. if u fall in love with a girl at first sight. dont just go up to her and talk anyfin. use a different approach like gettn her attention and acting like u dont really dig her. i aint never been rejected so i dont know how it feels.

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awww really sad but U'll find someone that is mean't for u and u alone.

Rejection hurts a lot!

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believe me, some care, some people are too sensitive. it's just their nature.

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i didn't think guy's cared if they get rejected. im my case, they keep trying, and if i see that they are worthy, then i might consider giving them a chance.

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