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Women pull doubles in an effort to rise in their career and also have a successful marriage. It is easier for a married man to become the president of his company than a woman. The few women that made it on top mostly are in the political fields. while age is threatening a woman's reproductive ability, her eggs are depleting every month and she still needs to put in all her efforts in her career in order to break the glass ceiling. In some careers like modeling or acting, child bearing may crash your career or may not because of body changes. It's most difficult for women in corporate America because of the incessant maternity leaves and all that.

Ladies:

In a competitive world where some women are ready to give up everything including child bearing to have a successful career. what is your take as a woman if your husband threatens divorce if you don't slow down on the career thing and make babies? Will you shun him and the marriage and focus on your career or will you risk your career and listen to him bearing in mind that he may step or die after you jeopardize your career and make babies for him?. I know you can still do both simultaneously but your chances usually reduce to 10% when you try multitasking.

Guys,

Will you give her a chance to build her career if child bearing will stand in her way until she's about 38-40 or will you demand she make the babies and talk about career later?. What advise will you give your sister as a man in similar predicament?

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I think we should focus on the topic

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@ tope2000,

. . . . And where is your house?

@ DeepZone,

So u have nuthing to say to what i am telling ur waxed-ears??

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I agree but it's better you make your hay while the sun shines.

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Workable meaning? Giving her freedom of choice even if she chooses to put a hold on child birth and pursue her career?

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More wonders, I'm agreeing with this agbero for once.

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Who gives a poo what people think? You see the difference between you and me. You are very soft and can easily be bullied. I made it here through the hard way and people have told me worse.

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Is this a trap or what? You want your 10K back through wayo?

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What of a man that lost his job or a man that is disabled during the marriage? Will he relinquish his headship to his working wife?

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Thatz not the point.

Whether she is building a career or not. . . . . .I am the head of the house and will provide everything for my wife and kids.

A man looking up to a woman to add something for the bills ain't a man. . . . .He is a Arrow.

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How many of our mothers that simultaneously managed career and family are vice presidents or presidents of a cooperation?. How many sarah palin's do we have out there?. Go to wall street and count the number of high profile women there and tell me how many of them managed career and family together. Do you think Oprah would have been that successful if she was married?

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Our mothers were working women Yet they had time for us,they cooked soup,pound foo-foo and still wore their suits to work the next day.If you think your career comes first,don't get married,If you think you family can survive without your having to work,stay at home and but if you are wise,devise a way to manage the two.

look am bored,not at all game for your arguments,sho gbo?

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What guarantee will your wife have that will enable her give up her career on the premise that you'll always be there?. Statistics has shown that such an arrangement is a recipe for cheating on the man's side. What can she do?. Hannibus, you are supporting this move because it will give freedom to do whatever you want with those Peckham floozies.

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Are they not your kids you lazy man?

Forget that story bro. Women have made babies even at 60 and all this opata about down syndrome and autism is caused by something else and not an old egg.

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Why do you have issues or should i say why are against married women with career /working?

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Women should make hay while the sun is up. . . .

Career and bullshit shoulda been taken care of before marriage.

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