Im I being selfish here or not,
My partner and I have been together now for over a year, on the whole things are good, however when it comes to love and affection it appears I am the one that is giving it all, dont get me wrong he never turns me away when I go to hug and kiss him, but does it make me a selfish person to want some love and affection from him first.
He says that I should accept any little bit of love he gives me no matter which way it is given, which I do except, but it makes me feel insecure that he never gives me the simple things like hugs and kisses first.
I am very independent and never need to ask him for money or material things, all I want is the simple things.
He works away all week and I see him weekends, he has a son who I look after when he is away, I do my very best to make our home a happy home and it is always clean and tidy.
Is it wrong for me to want some love and affection??