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Sex On A First Date - Does It Kill A Potential Relationship ?

Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship ?

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Mentality!

U sekx her on first date, why should you think otherwise?

I bet many guys saying they cant would be the one rushing for it if they discover she's rich.

Why wont you exercise patience to relate and know if she is the missing rib?

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dummy i ain't looking for a man. ''I love you'' is a word i hear everyday.

when last have a girl said yes to you?

cos you sound like you a ra pist.

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^^^ You afre talking of my grammar and language usage, you have to think how you will find a husband, when last did a man tell you I LOVE YOU.

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I thougt ur problem is just ur bad views toward women,never knew your spelling is rather worst.^^^^

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Anyone who said he or she is ok with sex on a first date is wrong, can you just imagine that she had five (5) date that week and her policy is sex on the first date, then she willl slept with all five date, thee maybe few exception were it just happen, now talking ffrom a player point of view, from a guy that knows his onions.

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abi!! as opposed to the real man who goes around sleeping with women on the first date and then as the audacity to complain about it!

such hypocrites!

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@sweetguy10 what is the definition of a real girl.

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Sex on a first date ? I'll never try it . In these days of caution ? No No No I'll have to know her better , but when I know she's a flirt I'll do it on the first date . Did it countless times and they ended up being intimacy. mates nothing else . A real girl won't open her legs on the first date , even second and third or fourth gan self

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It definitely depends!

I remember one of the costars in clueless talking about how she has sex with men on the first date and they always end up proposing to her! I was astounded!

I've heard men complain of women that they sleep with on the first date; usually in a manner which will make you think the lady did all the sleeping.

If the relationship truly had potential then sex on the first date shouldnt ruin it, in anything it should make it more fun! But Ive noticed sex can change a relationship, it can make you bored of your partner, stop you from really getting to know the person and cloud the reality in a relationship.

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It can make or brake the relationship. It depends on a whole load of factors i guess.

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@ op not only kill but it will bury am six feet under.

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and no sex until wedding day makes no difference .

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No it doesn't. its just our way of reasoning in this our country we are so backwards.Had sex with my bf on our first date and i tell you till date this guy is so loving loving me.to me whats the big deal.

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It should normally kill it but it doesnt nowadays.

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I had sex with my fiance on our first date, If someone likes you, they like you, period. There aren't no hard and fast rules.

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it makes no difference,either way

A player can wait 3 months ,get the sex,then disappear

A serious person can sleep on a 1st date and still continue on to a fruitful,lasting relationship

well said my brother

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People still act, behave or talk as if we live in trees or in a cave, so whats wrong if you have sex on your first date?

So what would you do if the lady made the first move for sex? probably demonise her.

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The most important thing is sincerity in relationship, know whom you are moving out with, be it the first date or scores of days bebore you do it, it doesn't prevent anyone who wants to walk out to call it a quit. Its depends on the individual,sex on the first date doesn't determine whether the relationship will be or not, just a game of luck.

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@george and yjay, no be you we come read for nairaland so make you carry your bumper for road. Che! You no dey shy! I pity una, bad eggs

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in this part of the world, it does matter-especially for the lady.

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I dont agree cos there are babes who have dated guys for donkey years and they still get dumped so whether you have sex on the first date or two years after he has asked you out if your going to get dumped you wld still get dumped.

It also depends on if the guy has got a weak mind lols, cos i dont see a difference and i wonder why that should be a spoiler, just pray he has not got a weak mind.

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no not really, if she's someone i think i wanna be with, whether i hit it on the first date or not doesnt matter. now its a different issue if i viewed her as a jumpoff from the start

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Fhemmmy it sure does matter whether the lady gives it out on the first date, believe me.

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Sex on first date, or on the 100th date, what difference does it make?

Sex na Sex

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ok ok guys.am sorry.yjay,am sorry .ehh.apology accepted?

@george,i must take part in the*******.

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goldie,

looks like mobo's had you ruffled?

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@yjay and george,i must take part in this o.this is d plan.george ,i go enter thru d back and u thru the front.

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relax, i dont bite ok,

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you sounding cagey now, yjay.

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this statement is a lil far fetched!!!!!! its absolutely senseless! sorry! i dont think ving sex on a first date equates to being a hooker!

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It depreciates your value especially the ladies.

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Frankly speaking sex is a gift of marriage and not friendship. So if you do it before marriage is abominable, so let us learn to control ourselves friends.

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No it does not kil a potential relationship.

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Answer to question: NO

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I was making contribution in respect to the post.

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it can but it depends on both parties wat they have in mind

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If she wanted it,then she must be lose,

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Hey!!! am babadee, Sex is good alot for bodys

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Yes cus sooner or later you are going to start to ask yourself what if questions . . . .

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there is a tendency to think that she could as well fall for another guy on the first day, epecially when problems (inherent in any relationship) begin. believe me, it may seem harmless at first but with the effects of time, distance and other love eroding factors. one may only discover the time bomb too late.

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you mean good and bad at the same time? how?

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It's not a gud signal for a lasting relationship

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i think relationship is based on intentions.We can say its good and as well bad.

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Ya it depends,but the relationship may be destroy,but ive seen couples who told me they did it on the 1st day and still marry,so it depends on the level of understanding, maturity and love u people have 4 each other.take care

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